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Cole's thread for bereaved muumies: like the sands on the beach that never wash away. I watch over my surviving mum, who thinks of me each day.

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ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 08/01/2009 09:41

Welcome to our santuary and haven ladies.

Many thanks for Frasersmummy for passing the baton onto Cole and I. I am touched and hope I can do all our lo's justice.

For any people wanting to join, don't be shy. We cry, we rant, we smile, we laugh - whatever we feel like we need to do.

OP posts:
lottiejenkins · 26/01/2009 19:11

Thats my boy!!!!

lottiejenkins · 26/01/2009 22:07

Evening everyone xx

shabster · 26/01/2009 22:10

Hiya Lottie - MN is very quiet tonight....

Northernlurker · 26/01/2009 22:35

Ladies - Deemented posts here doesn't she? If any of you have an e-mail or text for her will you just check she's ok. An unspeakably stupid person has been posting tonight and she posted on the thread with something that made me worry she might have been upset by it. (more upset than is normal in her situation iyswim)

lottiejenkins · 26/01/2009 22:36

Have just jumped out of my skin...the fone rang at 10.15
It was Wilfs key worker and it wasnt anything urgent. She knows she can get me now and it will be quiet as the hoodlums are in bed. Wilf had to bring his old school shoes home last weekend to get new ones!
He was asked by Mel (key worker) if he had them "Yes Mel" he went to class was asked by Mrs Osborne "Do you have your shoes?" "Yes Mrs Osborne" Then ten minutes later "Do you have both your shoes Wilfred?" (he once came home with one and they had to post the other) "Mrs Osborne I have forgotten them" Mel then said he came crashing back into the residence to say he had forgotten them!!!

They went out for posh food (not fast food) Wilf was sent to get the bill........he banged on the kitchen door for the waitress and said very loudly "Sceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwww me bill please" I love my little man so much!!

lottiejenkins · 26/01/2009 22:38

I havent got any contact details for Deemented. Can you link me to the thread?

shabster · 26/01/2009 22:43

Yes could you link us xx

lottiejenkins · 26/01/2009 22:44

I thought the Wilf post would liven the room up a bit!!

shabster · 26/01/2009 22:51

NORTHERN LURKER PLEASE COME BACK AND LINK!!!

I have looked through the threads but cant find it....can anybody point us to it???

hazygirl · 26/01/2009 22:56

shabs is it the post on how easy been a single parent thread sorry i cant do links

shabster · 26/01/2009 23:03

thanks hazy will go and have a nosey xxx

shabster · 26/01/2009 23:20

Oh Dee - I dont know what to say to you. Ignore the daft cow that started that thread.....unfortunatly there are several folk like that on MN - just weird, odd people.

Anyway - we need you to get your bum on our thread - the one where we all know we are quite mad

Northernlurker · 26/01/2009 23:28

Sorry shouldn't have left you folks hanging without a link Dee- hope you are ok

shabster · 26/01/2009 23:40

Dont worry NorthernL - I found her - if she had carried on posting and the fool who started the link had argued with her we would have all gone on We are very much 'all for one and one for all' on 'our' thread.

Thank you for letting us know - really appreciated.

shabster · 26/01/2009 23:44

Good night my friends. Sleep tight xx

shabster · 27/01/2009 07:28

Good morning girls xx

lottiejenkins · 27/01/2009 07:58

Can you link me to the thread please? I dont think there is anything easy with being a single mum and would like to tell them!!

shabster · 27/01/2009 08:29

Here you go Lottie!!

lottiejenkins · 27/01/2009 08:42

I have just vented my spleen.............stupid stupid stupid OP.........how far up her own arse is she?

shabster · 27/01/2009 08:50

ROFL Lottie - let 'em have it girl

lottiejenkins · 27/01/2009 08:51

Have you read what i put?

shabster · 27/01/2009 08:52

Great post Lottie!!! Think that is called 'getting her told' in my part of the world

lottiejenkins · 27/01/2009 08:55

Thanks Shabs.............that woman has a fluffy candyfloss brain and doesnt live in the real world!!!

Deemented · 27/01/2009 08:59

Sorry you were worried about me - that thread did indeed piss me off mightily so i thought it best to leave MN for last night. Thanks for thinking of me though Some people really make me want to reach into the screen and give them a slap

Deemented · 27/01/2009 09:01

And way to go, Lottie. But you shouldn't have to justify yourself to numpties like her.

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