Cole's thread for bereaved muumies: like the sands on the beach that never wash away. I watch over my surviving mum, who thinks of me each day.

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Welcome to our santuary and haven ladies.

Many thanks for Frasersmummy for passing the baton onto Cole and I. I am touched and hope I can do all our lo's justice.

For any people wanting to join, don't be shy. We cry, we rant, we smile, we laugh - whatever we feel like we need to do.

Morning girls xx

Morning everyone xx

afternoon girls,lottie its lovely speaking to wilf,hes a great chap,sorry couldnt speak longer but took the girls to pantomine,dh wouldnt come so my friend came and we had a laughx

Thanks Hazy..........Lighthouse its nice to see you back on here! I was just having a moan on FB to Shabs......£70 on footwear for Wilf in the last week!!!!!!!!!!! Hes going to be like a flipping large footed giraffe at this rate! I did however also get myself some lovely new slippers too so i cant shout too loudly!!!

just a quickie (Mac is teething and isn't settling very well tonight)

Lighthouse - it's great to see you. There are so many demons to face for you at the moment, but you and your dh stay strong and united and you will get through it. Will be thinkiong of you on the 3rd.

FrasersMummy - Lurk away, we will still be here when you're ready. If ever you want to talk you know where we are.

chegirl - great to see you around again. We put Mac in a bear suit that Cole used to wear and he looked just like his big brother. It made me sigh, but a nice sigh.

Take care everyone xxx

evening girls.. anyone joining me in a bit of haggis neeps and tatties tomorrow night???

or perhaps a nice wee single malt would be a better offer

Frasersmammy - yes to everything you suggested

Night girls, god bless xx

Morning ladies..........We are having a "quickly quickly" morning!!! That means im chasing wilfred round the house getting him up fed and dressed for Church at 9.45!!! The next part of the objective is to get him away from Tom and Jerry and his DS and up the stairs to HOPEFULLY wash his face and get dressed!!!!!

Morning girls...Morning Lottie - hope you made it to church xx

Lottie - Im loving Wilf even more but I cant keep up with him on Facebook - He has made my day with his messages - fab little lad xxxx

Hi Shabs, he enjoyed chatting to you too, he was looking at your pics just before he went off to school. My tummy and other things are feeling a little dodgy.... hope i havent caught anything!!

He really made me chuckle - he kept saying things he had noticed me writing to you asked about my friends exboyfriend and why was he horrible

Said the ex-boyfriend should be nice to me and that he would tell him

He was like a breath of fresh air.

He made me LOL when he said 'do you know me?'

Big thumbs up for the mighty Wilfster xx

Happy Burns Night FM.

I would join you but haggis makes me want to vom and I don't like whiskey (it's like drinking fire imo!!!) I'll join you with the tatties though

I wouldnt eat Haggis either sorry! I do like whisky and lemonade!

Hiya ladies,

Sorry i've been AWOL for a while, but i'm up to my armpits in painting and decorating and moving stuff - i move next saturday and it's all coming too soon and i still have far too much to do!!!

Happy Burns night to all. I'd join you in a whiskey if i could remember which box i've packed it in....

I have suggested another bereaved Mum joins our thread
Linked here
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/bereavement/691701-Naming-baby-after-my-lost-boy?msgid=14087050

Good morning girls xx

Good morning everyone xx

I hope we are all ok , a quiet day here today (well as quiet as it ever is in this house [grin)

Morning darling - I better go and get Tom out of his pit - xxxxx

Good luck for the move next week Dee, I hope you've got some people helping you out.

Morning all xxx

Morning
Decided I am a crap housewife as never have enough time so this morning up just before 7:00, (early for me ) got on running machine for 12 mins (alternate running/walking), got kids their breakfast ready, paired socks/folded load of washing. Had a shower, got kids up and downstairs, breakfasted, dressed out the house by 8:30. Dropped off at nursery at 9:00 detour to drop DH off. Back to work to park at 9:30 then in office by 9:40. Where did my morning go? How can it take 2 hrs 40mins for me to get to work/kids to nursery. How will I ever cope with school in September?
Hope everyone had a good weekend.

You and me both Charley Im sat on here and watching Jeremy Kyle at the same time. Toms hamster (and his cage) are on the coffee table at the side of me. My carpet and the table look like the hamster has had a party in the night, because they are covered in sawdust I will still be sat here until I hear my DH getting up and then I become 'Super housewife' !!!!!

Top tip Shabs when you have been lazy busy all day and the cleaning needed doing squirt a blast of furniture polish in the room as they come in and they go "you can smell you have been cleaning all day, put your feet up I'll make a cuppa"

thats brill cm,gonna try that.i have a dog that loves paddling in muck waits till ive finished then comes in and makes floor filthy,wilf bless him asked why i only have one dog,buy another .........i think i prefer floor clean