Cole's thread for bereaved muumies: like the sands on the beach that never wash away. I watch over my surviving mum, who thinks of me each day.

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Welcome to our santuary and haven ladies.

Many thanks for Frasersmummy for passing the baton onto Cole and I. I am touched and hope I can do all our lo's justice.

For any people wanting to join, don't be shy. We cry, we rant, we smile, we laugh - whatever we feel like we need to do.

The washing is a good idea as well , I can imagine with 3 little ones she will have an awful lot of it . I think maybe someone washing your smalls is a job for a closer friend than me

Hiya Everlong - 'I'm getting there' whatever the hell that means

Morning all,,,,,,,,,,Im sitting here watching Curse of the Were Rabbit with my friends son, he hasnt gone to school as he is ill, she has to go and get an old lady out of bed and dressed so Wills is here with me for half an hour and we are roaring with laughter at W & G..........

morning girls ,i had good news yesterday dh had call jaydens bears can stay ,anything that gets damaged or scruffy has to go which dd is fine with,i thank you girls and everyone who supported us ,im forever grateful,they even apologised for been insensitive,heartless and the timing ,hopefully abigails council will do the samexxx

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh Hazy 'POWER TO THE PEOPLE!!!'

Every council should have a bereaved parent to advise them. So very very chuffed for Jayden and all his loving family

That is just fantastic - truly fantastic xx

Hazy that is great news

Well done and even better to get an actual real life apology from a council

Really really pleased to hear some good news.

Morning all
well done Hazy.
Sorry to hear about peoples losses, it always strikes hard doesn't it.

Hello Greenlawn and Squirdle sorry you have to join us here.

Sorry to hear you are having bad days guys. Stick togehter that is the ke to quote Shabs "united we stand divided we fall"

Thanks for all your support when I MC earlier this month.

Much love CM

Charley I am so sorry I had no idea

How are you doing now ?

Oh Charley - I wondered how you had gone on. Oh sweetheart - sending love and hugs. Wish there was something I could do to help xxx

hi girls cm so sorry to hear about your loss,life is so bloody cruel.
im so pleased with outcome on jayden and im eternaly grateful to everyone,but its something no council should put parents through,life is hard enough,and it put so much strain on dd1.
im sorry not on line as much but with everything going on ,and sharing a laptop with dd2 ,whos studying alot its hard,but believe me girls you are all in my thoughts;
i have my 16 month old granddaughter here today,just bathed and fallen asleep,and have to go pick the other girls upfrom nursery and school.
dh is going to c son today after work,3 week today girls yipeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ,fingers c
crossed,eh.

Thanks guys, sat and moped a bit but now have picked myself up and getting on with it, face by the door and all.

Well done you (even tho I know you are fibbing ) Ive got some of those spare faces - just shout up if you want them.

xxxxx

I have got a couple of those faces too if you need an extra one CM .

Glad you are doing ok (ish) though

So sorry Charley, I didn't realise you had a mc.

Take care and take time to heal xxx

Has anyone heard from Lighthouse? She sent me a message on Jacks birthday and I was away so didnt reply! Hope she's ok... will send her a message on FB and see how she is!!

Good morning girls xx

Morning folks.

Sorry i've not been around much - having a rough few days with a very angry little boy and a baby that won't sleep.

Hope everyone's ok.

Hiya Dee - that sounds like very hard work. Wish I could help you - any ideas how I can? xx

You're doing the most important thing Shabs - just being there to listen to me whingeing. Thank you.

My ears are open at all times Dee xx

Morning everybody xx Poor old Wilf has been not well again. Was asleep in bed at school last night at 8pm! I rang ten minutes ago and they said he was feeling a little better. He seems to be feeling ill all the time at the moment........

Tom has been the same Lottie - crying with pain in his feet and shins......Dan was the same at this age so I keep telling him it is 'growing pains.'

He still has a horrible cough from Xmas time when he had a chest infection and the Winter sickness bug.

Im sure they will both improve when the weather starts improving and we actually see some sunshine.