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My beautiful Daughter died in her sleep

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TiasMum · 10/10/2008 23:31

5 weeks ago we lost our beautiful girl Tia. She was mearly 4 months old and the sunshine of my life. Her eyes would light the sky at night, and now our baby girl is gone.

I will be haunted forever by my last glimpse of her beautiful face

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nappyaddict · 10/10/2008 23:32

my heart goes out to you

feedthegoat · 10/10/2008 23:32

Don't know what to say except so sorry.

smugmumofboys · 10/10/2008 23:33

I am so so sorry. That is truly awful.

tortoiseshellWasMusicaYearsAgo · 10/10/2008 23:33

I'm so sorry TiasMum. All my prayers are with you and Tia. x

Candlewax · 10/10/2008 23:34

Oh TiasMum. I don't know what to say. I am so sad for you.

handlemecarefully · 10/10/2008 23:34

I am so very sorry TiasMum. I hope you are getting some help and support

tortoise · 10/10/2008 23:34

So sorry to hear about your DD Tia.

Peckarolloveragain · 10/10/2008 23:34

Oh my god, I just cant imagine the pain you must be suffering.

My heart goes out to you, what an awful loss for you to suffer

PsychoAxeMurdererMum · 10/10/2008 23:34

oh, I am so sorry for you

chapeloffearstickchick · 10/10/2008 23:34

im so very sorry x

BoysAreLikeRabidDogs · 10/10/2008 23:36

I am so sorry

kormAaaarrrggghhhchameleon · 10/10/2008 23:36

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lilolilmanchester · 10/10/2008 23:36

That is so unfair, so sorry you are having to go through this xx

DeJaVous · 10/10/2008 23:37

I don't know what to say I'm so so sorry she is gone.

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TiasMum · 10/10/2008 23:38

Please hold your children very tightly. I would give up breathing to hold her once more

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PeaMcLean · 10/10/2008 23:39

TiasMum, I'm so so sorry. Do come back and tell us what happened, if you can, if it helps to talk. That's so very sad.

TequilaMockinBird · 10/10/2008 23:41

So very sorry, sending love and prayers xxx

notsoteenagemum · 10/10/2008 23:41

Lots of love TiasMum so sorry for you.

MARGOsBeenPlayingWithMyNooNoo · 10/10/2008 23:41

I am really sorry.

There is a thread in bereavement for bereaved mummies - they're a great group of people and are fantastic support.

Only when you're ready.

frumpygrumpy · 10/10/2008 23:43

sending much love to you xxxxxx. There are girls here who will be able to stand beside you and hang onto you. Girls who know this pain all too well. I am so sad this happened to you. I will be keeping you close in my thoughts.

Sleep well baby girl xxxx.

A thing of beauty is a joy forever, its loveliness increases, it will never, pass into nothingness - John Keats

elastamum · 10/10/2008 23:45

I am so sorry for you

ClosetoClosingTimeNotConvinced · 10/10/2008 23:45

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TiasMum · 10/10/2008 23:51

I put her down in her nursery for her afternoon sleep, and went about doing jobs, having coffee. All the normal stuff really.
She didn't wake up and how i wish now i hadn't put her down. My arms ache for her,and the tears just don't seem to ever want to stop. She was perfect in every way and was our first baby. Neither of us can even go in her room and the door has been shut since they took her away

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ScottishMummy · 10/10/2008 23:53

you must feel so sad,like someone ripped your heart out.do talk about tia.

don't keep stiff upper lip,talk,talk,talk
dont rush yourself to appear well, take as long as you need

so sad for you

Bleedodgy · 10/10/2008 23:55

Oh I'm so very very sorry. I don't have the words.

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