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My beautiful Daughter died in her sleep

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TiasMum · 10/10/2008 23:31

5 weeks ago we lost our beautiful girl Tia. She was mearly 4 months old and the sunshine of my life. Her eyes would light the sky at night, and now our baby girl is gone.

I will be haunted forever by my last glimpse of her beautiful face

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ladylush · 11/10/2008 12:15

Oh no, so sorry for your terrible loss Thinking of you and your dh.

Tiamummy · 11/10/2008 12:16

I don't think we will ever get over this, i can't see a time when this pain will ever get easier. I cry all the time, and have to avoid so many things which are painful to me. Even doing washing is painful without her little things in there
And i walk about sometimes wanting to scream at other people going about their normal business. Don't they know my daughters dead

cikecaka · 11/10/2008 12:21

It is so hard to understand how life goes on when you are so distraught. I dont think you ever get over it, you just get through every day.

liahgen · 11/10/2008 12:21

Tbh I don't think the pain will get less, I think you just learn to live with it.

We lost my baby niece at birth last year and i still get upset when i think about her.

Tragically, there are lots of mummies on here who will be able to understand exactly where you are coming from.

Feel free to say whatever you like on here, noone will judge you.

Tiamummy · 11/10/2008 12:24

I have to go because my husband will be back soon, but thank you all.

SharpMolarBear · 11/10/2008 12:25

so sorry xx

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cocoleBOO · 11/10/2008 12:30

so sorry

overthemill · 11/10/2008 12:38

so sorry. xx

BlackEyedDog · 11/10/2008 12:42

I am so sad for your loss

x

Smithagain · 11/10/2008 12:43
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Jacanne · 11/10/2008 12:44

So very sorry Tiasmummy.

OrmIrian · 11/10/2008 12:45

Oh tiasmummy

I have no words.

BecauseImAWitch · 11/10/2008 12:53

for you.

dittany · 11/10/2008 12:55

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Wezzle · 11/10/2008 12:59

So sorry for your loss x

darkpunk · 11/10/2008 13:00

so so sorry

x x

Plonker · 11/10/2008 13:05

So very sorry for your loss Tiasmum

whoopsididitagain · 11/10/2008 13:26

my gosh im so sorry i hope you are getting lots of love and support

fullmoonfiend · 11/10/2008 13:32

Wishing you light, hope and strength.x

Anna8888 · 11/10/2008 13:34

So so sorry to read about your tragedy

mamadiva · 11/10/2008 13:36

TiaMummy- I'm so sorry to hear of your loss

I have never been in this situation but I hope that one day you will find comfort on thinking back on all those lovely moments you shared with your darling daughter before she passed on.

It must all seem so bittersweet at the moment thinking of her and seeing all of Tia's things still there yet she is tragically gone.

I wish you and your husband the best of luck in dealing with this and my thoughts are with you both and baby Tia. xxx

shootfromthehip · 11/10/2008 13:43

I ddon't usually join these threads but I wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I feel a bit naff but found a nice quote that I hope helps (if anything can)

'Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.'
~From a headstone in Ireland

Love to you and your family

childrenofthecornsilk · 11/10/2008 13:46
Sad
2Eliza2 · 11/10/2008 13:54

I am so sorry for all of you who have lost children.

Thinking of you.

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