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My beautiful Daughter died in her sleep

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TiasMum · 10/10/2008 23:31

5 weeks ago we lost our beautiful girl Tia. She was mearly 4 months old and the sunshine of my life. Her eyes would light the sky at night, and now our baby girl is gone.

I will be haunted forever by my last glimpse of her beautiful face

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2Eliza2 · 11/10/2008 13:54

I am so sorry for all of you who have lost children.

Thinking of you.

SummerC · 11/10/2008 14:06

I am so sorry Tiasmum. I cannot even begin to imagine how you must be feeling. Take very gentle care of yourself.

You'll be in my thoughts.

MamaG · 11/10/2008 14:07

Tiasmum I am so, so sorry to read this

WeeBesom · 11/10/2008 14:45

I am so sorry for your loss, just thinking about what it would feel like is breaking my heart.
Wishing you strength xxx

orangehead · 11/10/2008 14:47

Im so sorry for your loss of Tia

pooroldbodybag · 11/10/2008 14:51

tiasmum i am so so so very sorry for your loss.

i will heed your warning and hold my dd very very tight.

thinking of you

life is so unfair

umberella · 11/10/2008 14:52

so sorry tiasmum x

sugarpear · 11/10/2008 14:59

tiasmummy xxx so sorry for your loss

crispyduck · 11/10/2008 15:02

God bless you and your family
hugs to you

mamaberta · 11/10/2008 15:04

so sorry for your loss

ForeverOptimistic · 11/10/2008 15:16

I am so sorry.

SparkyFartDust · 11/10/2008 15:23

Oh Tiamummy I am so, so sorry that your beautiful baby girl died. She sounds like she was wonderful.
The agony must be hard to bear.

You need to take support from wherever it feels right for you to seek it.

Love and thoughts go to you.

Tiamummy · 11/10/2008 17:20

She was wonderful and it pains me to talk about her in the past tense when she should be here with us . I've had a quick look at the thread i was directed to, but it's too painful to read at the moment.

RubyRioja · 11/10/2008 17:29

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hazygirl · 11/10/2008 17:32

tiasmum so sorry, x

needmorecoffee · 11/10/2008 17:39

I've never been in your situation Tiamummy but when you feel ready do talk about her. So many people don't want to mention the name of a child who has passed away and it must feel like they are not acknowledging their exisatnce. In our group for kids with CP there are 4 mums whose kids are no longer with us. Its been a couple of years but they like to talk about their kids and share the memories and they want us to ask advice and say 'what was X like with this?'
I'm so sorry, just don't know what else to say.

edam · 11/10/2008 17:49

Oh TiasMum, I am so very sorry to hear your tragic news.

Lurcio · 11/10/2008 17:58

Tiasmummy, I am so very sorry, I cannot even begin to imagine how you are feeling. My thoughts are with you x x

gem1981 · 11/10/2008 19:01

Tiasmummy

I am so very very sorry for your loss

thinking of you x

ImnotMamaGbutsheLovesMe · 11/10/2008 19:10

Oh love. I am so very sorry to hear you have lost your beatiful daughter.

nickytwoooohtimes · 11/10/2008 19:12

SO sorry for your loss, Tiasmum.

It is the worst thing I can imagine.

Hope you are getting lots of support.

MadameCastafiore · 11/10/2008 19:21

Thinking of you. XXX

constancereader · 11/10/2008 19:26

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your darling daughter.

mamalovesmambo · 11/10/2008 19:28

i cannot express my sadness for your loss - I cannot stop crying. My heart goes out to you. You were blessed with an angel. She is still with you, just reach out and she will be with you. You have been blessed- because god gave you one of his angels to look after. Sweetie, I wish I could take away the loss and sadness.

lou031205 · 11/10/2008 19:51

Tia's Mummy, I am so sorry to read of your loss. It is every mother's worst nightmare. I am so sorry it has become your reality

This poem was read at the funeral of my friend's daughter, who died at birth from anencephaly. I hope it brings you some comfort.

In a baby's castle just beyond my eye
My baby plays with angel toys that money cannot buy

Who am I to wish his back into this world of strife?
No, play on my baby, you have eternal life

When all around is silent and sleep forsakes my eyes
I'll hear his tiny footsteps come running at my side

His little hand caresses me so tenderly and sweet
I'll breathe a little prayer and close my eyes and embrace his in my sleep

Now I have a treasure I rate above all other
I have known true glory - I am still his mother

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