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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

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mrshonda · 06/11/2020 16:40

I am so sorry xxx

Crappyfridays7 · 06/11/2020 16:41

I am so so sorry for your loss, there are no words op, so upset by your update, how awful, your beautiful baby girl
Thinking of you all
Heartbreaking news xx

SpaceOP · 06/11/2020 16:41

I am so sorry OP. Nothing I can say will help but know that there are people all over who are thinking of you. xxxx

Flamingopants · 06/11/2020 16:42

Absolutely heartbreaking, so very sorry for your loss Flowers

Wilfy101 · 06/11/2020 16:43

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry I cannot believe this has happened to your beautiful baby after being sent home. Words cannot express, sending you both a big hug x

MillicentMartha · 06/11/2020 16:43

I’m so sorry. Your lovely DD. Words can’t express it. Much love to you both.

movingonup20 · 06/11/2020 16:43

Thanks so sorry, there's no appropriate words.

spagbog5 · 06/11/2020 16:44

I'm so so sorry.
Thinking of you both

Zzz1234 · 06/11/2020 16:44

So sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you x

LateMumma · 06/11/2020 16:45

Oh dear god I am so very, very sorry 💐

tmh88 · 06/11/2020 16:45

Sending you strength! Life is unfair, I’m so so sorry for your loss X

Uninspiredusername · 06/11/2020 16:46

I’m so sorry OP. I can’t even imagine the pain you and your DH are feeling. Sending all the love I have and you’ll be in my thoughts for a long time x

Stuffofawesome · 06/11/2020 16:47

I'm so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace.

nimbuscloud · 06/11/2020 16:47

Am so sorry to hear this

CaraDuneRedux · 06/11/2020 16:48

So very, very sorry. Flowers

Words can't begin to cover a situation like this.

strawbmilk · 06/11/2020 16:48

I am so so sorry. Will be thinking of you & your family Thanks

slidingdrawers · 06/11/2020 16:48

Oh my goodness, I'm so very sorry. Thanks

andynarwhal · 06/11/2020 16:49

I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss. It must seem completely unreal. I hope you have plenty of real life support as we all support you here.

Bluetrews25 · 06/11/2020 16:51

So very, very sorry to hear this Sobsanta
My sympathies to you both. Flowers
I hope you have good support around you for as long as you need it.

JeffreyJefferson · 06/11/2020 16:51

there are no words i’m so so sorry Flowers

Jellykat · 06/11/2020 16:52

Bloody hell, there aren't the words, other then i'm so so sorry..

Emski76 · 06/11/2020 16:53

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.

Kcar · 06/11/2020 16:53

Oh I am so sorry for your loss.

devildeepbluesea · 06/11/2020 16:53

Oh my goodness, this is the single worst thing I've ever read on here. I cannot imagine what you both are going through.

It's every parent's nightmare and, useless as they are, my deepest condolences go out to you.

Try to look after yourselves. 🌹

crimsonlake · 06/11/2020 16:53

I am in total shock, one minute I was reading she was home and all was well. Now this...I am so, so sorry and my thoughts are with you both.