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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

Message from MNHQ: Please note, very sad update further down the thread

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Serin · 06/11/2020 16:55

I am so sorry.
Your update is tragic.

Scbchl · 06/11/2020 16:56

I am so so sorry sending you so much love.

BIWI · 06/11/2020 16:56

I'm very, very, sorry to hear this awful update Flowers

vixb1 · 06/11/2020 16:56

Oh I'm so so sorry. Your post knocked me sick. What a tragedy. I can't imagine the pain you are in. I'm so sorry. Xxx

Annasgirl · 06/11/2020 16:57

I am so devastated for you OP. Please keep posting - I mean keep in touch on here not actual posts to us - so we can keep you going. I am sending you love and prayers and hugs and I am so sorry for you and your DH and all of your family.

ladycarlotta · 06/11/2020 16:57

Oh, OP. I am so so sorry.

Tyranttoddler · 06/11/2020 16:57

I am so so beyond sorry to read this update. There are just no words at all. I am so very sorry.

isitxmasalready · 06/11/2020 16:58

so so sorry to hear this. x

RandyGiles06 · 06/11/2020 16:58

Oh my goodness I’m so sorry Flowers

hoxt · 06/11/2020 16:58

So very sorry

greenpies · 06/11/2020 16:58

Oh my gosh!!!!! I've just read your update.

I'm so sorry

SpacePug · 06/11/2020 16:59

This is heartbreaking, I am so so sorry, can't imagine what your family are feeling right now

TableFlowerss · 06/11/2020 16:59

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Kcar · 06/11/2020 17:00

@TableFlowerss rtft

justanotherneighinparadise · 06/11/2020 17:03

Oh god OP I just can’t get my head around this. You poor poor love. I’m so sorry.

ButterflyBitch · 06/11/2020 17:03

You must be so terribly shocked right now. My heartfelt condolences and love for you right now. I’m so so sorry. Flowers

tissueboxx · 06/11/2020 17:03

@TableFlowerss please read the updates.

So sorry for your loss op. I have no words but heartbroken for you. Take care of each other 💐

TableFlowerss · 06/11/2020 17:03

[quote Kcar]@TableFlowerss rtft[/quote]
Omg I’m so sorry. I just read your update. I feel like crying. I’m so so sorry for your loss OP. I’m crying now.

This world is beyond cruel at times. Xxxxxxxxxx

Lisette1940 · 06/11/2020 17:04

OP I am so very sorry to read your update. There are no words.

HoppingSkipping · 06/11/2020 17:04

I'm so so sorry, there aren't words. Thanks

Chinam · 06/11/2020 17:05

I’m so very sorry Flowers

ParisianLady · 06/11/2020 17:05

I'm so so so sorry for your loss. There aren't really any words for this, it's indescribably awful. I'm so sorry

Lougle · 06/11/2020 17:05

There are no words. Sad

SunShinesStill · 06/11/2020 17:05

OP, I am so so sorry about your beautiful daughter Flowers

IsFuzzyBeagMise · 06/11/2020 17:06

I am so sorry, dear op. Keeping yourself and your DH in my thoughts.

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