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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

Message from MNHQ: Please note, very sad update further down the thread

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Inspirationpending · 06/11/2020 16:27

So desperately sad to read this. You are in my thoughts and prayers

GetOnMyNerves · 06/11/2020 16:28

Very sorry to hear this OP. Thanks

ChasingRainbows19 · 06/11/2020 16:28

This is one of the saddest updates I’ve read. I’m so sorry.

Diavoloroquito · 06/11/2020 16:29

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BigFatLiar · 06/11/2020 16:29

So so sorry

tinatree · 06/11/2020 16:30

I'm so sorry op Thanks

Lozz22 · 06/11/2020 16:32

SadI'm am so sorry op Thanks

Mummyoflittledragon · 06/11/2020 16:32

Omg I’m so sorry for your loss. What a terrible terrible shock for you. Bless your little angel. Flowers x

Fastforwardtospring · 06/11/2020 16:32

I’m so sorry, absolutely devastated for you 💐

user1471471475 · 06/11/2020 16:33

I am so very very sorry for your loss

FenellaVelour · 06/11/2020 16:33

I am so very sorry xxx

roughtyping · 06/11/2020 16:33

I am so sorry for your loss, what a shock for you. Sending you all love Thanks

dinosnorezzzz · 06/11/2020 16:33

OP words aren't enough I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. How awful for you all. By the sounds of it DH and the paramedics did their best to bring her back to you. Sending you strength for the next few days xx

JacobReesMogadishu · 06/11/2020 16:33

I'm so so sorry. This is just awful. I hope you're managing to get some real life support from family. Thanks

grenlei · 06/11/2020 16:34

Oh OP that's so very sad, I can't imagine the pain you and your DH must be in, what a tragic turn of events. Like other posters I was expecting a very different update. So sorry for both of you Flowers, losing a child is something no parent should have to bear.

Cocolapew · 06/11/2020 16:36

Oh dear God, I so very, very sorry for you loss Flowers

Furiousfive · 06/11/2020 16:36

I'm so sorry x

Amber0685 · 06/11/2020 16:37

So sorry to read this OP.

AwaAnBileYerHeid · 06/11/2020 16:37

I'm so so sorry. I don't know what else to say. I'm sorry x

YukoandHiro · 06/11/2020 16:38

I'm so so sorry. Xx

mintyfreshh · 06/11/2020 16:38

OP I am so shocked and horrified, you poor poor thing.

TheFutureMrsB · 06/11/2020 16:39

I'm so so sorry Thanks

Scanner20 · 06/11/2020 16:39

So sorry to read this, I was reading through as myself have been in this situation many times and when I read she was home I thought that was so good to hear. Shocked to hear the shocking news, no words 💐

BettyOBarley · 06/11/2020 16:40

Oh my goodness, I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending you love and strength at such an unimaginably difficult time xxx

fashu · 06/11/2020 16:40

I'm so sorry OP! Flowers Can't imagine your pain.

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