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Toddler in hospital. Need a handhold.

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sobsanta · 04/11/2020 13:54

DD is 2 and has been ill for about four days with what we presumed to be a heavy cold. She hasn't slept much and today took a turn for the worse where we had to call an ambulance due to her breathing being laboured while sleeping and sucking in under the ribs with every breath. Paramedics think some kind of upper respiratory infection as her chest appears clear. Epiglottitis was mentioned or possibly severe tonsillitis but they didn't want to check her mouth at home in case it panicked her.

DH went to the hospital with her as he's calm and collected and only one parent is allowed due to coronavirus restrictions. She's a daddy's girl anyway so she'll feel safe with him but I'm kicking myself that I can't be with them both. Haven't heard anything yet and they've been gone about an hour.

Am terrified and need distraction as I know there's nothing I can do and she's with the best people.

Message from MNHQ: Please note, very sad update further down the thread

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hvnamechange2000 · 06/11/2020 16:17

Oh I am so, so sorry. What a horrible shock. Thinking of you and your family.

Takethewinefromtheswine · 06/11/2020 16:18

Oh OP, there are no words. I am so sorry Flowers

StopGo · 06/11/2020 16:20
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CottonSock · 06/11/2020 16:20

That's just absolutely the saddest and unexpected thing I've read on mumsnet. Can't imagine how you are feeling and I hope you have some real life support.

flapjackfairy · 06/11/2020 16:20

Oh I am so v v sorry. I read your posts and was relieved your daughter was home as I am currently in hospital with my own little one.
There are no words just sending lots of love xxx

Elopelo · 06/11/2020 16:21

I am so so sorry for such heartbreaking news. I hope don't mind if I say a prayer for you all.

Bobbybobbins · 06/11/2020 16:21

God this is horrific - so sorry for your loss OP. Thanks

Scautish · 06/11/2020 16:22

I’m am so so desperately sorry for your loss.

Nostrings457 · 06/11/2020 16:22

Oh my gosh, Flowers sending love and thoughts to you and your DH. How utterly devastating. I hope you have lots of support around to help you and MN is here to handhold anytime xx

Duggeehugs82 · 06/11/2020 16:22

Omg im so sorry for ur loss ive never been so shocked when reading a post 😔

Magissa · 06/11/2020 16:22

This is devastating. I am so so sorry for loss of your little one. So shocked to read your update. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
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pizzamummy · 06/11/2020 16:23

Omg op I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't believe what I'm reading. I am praying for you guys, I'm so sorry.

MeanwhileTime · 06/11/2020 16:23

I am so sorry

JanewaysBun · 06/11/2020 16:23

How utterly utterly terrible Flowers I'm so sorry x

PerseverancePays · 06/11/2020 16:23

That is just so awful. I am so, so sorry. 💐

Lara53 · 06/11/2020 16:23

Sending you a hug xx

helloxhristmas · 06/11/2020 16:23

I am so so sorry

AntennaReborn · 06/11/2020 16:24

I am so sorry OP Flowers

NoNameIdeas · 06/11/2020 16:24

I don't know what to say but my heart is utterly broken for you. With love and prayers for you all x

Gazelda · 06/11/2020 16:24

Words seem so inadequate, but I'm so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts.

DuzzyFuck · 06/11/2020 16:24

Oh my god OP I am so, so sorry. Sending you love. We'll be here whenever you need us xx

Eloisedublin123 · 06/11/2020 16:24

Jesus Christ op I’m so sorry

MyCatsSlave · 06/11/2020 16:26

I’m so sorry, my thoughts are with you both x

Kittytheteapot · 06/11/2020 16:26

I am so so sorry. Flowers

Subwaysalad · 06/11/2020 16:26

Oh dear god my heart just broke reading this what an awful twist of fate after being relieved she was ok and getting home. I am so so so sorry for your loss and thinking about you at this horrific time xxxx

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