My toddler died today

[acquiescence]

My baby died today. I found him in his cot this morning. He was completely well yesterday and has no health problems. They are completing a post mortem today.
I don’t know what to do. Why would a healthy child just die? I have a 4 year old and don’t know how to handle it with him. Any advice welcome, I’m obviously a mixture of completely numb and a mess.

I am so very sorry for your loss x

I am so, so sorry.

@bananasandwicheseveryday that poem made me cry it's beautiful!

Op I've been thinking of you since I heard your sad news, I just wanted to send you some more support love & strength xxxxx
I'm so sorry your going through this OP life can be so cruel

So so sorry to hear this. Xx

Yes we're all still thinking of you OP

OP, I'm posting again because I haven't forgotten about you. I've thought about you every day since I fist saw your heartbreaking news.

I am so so sorry, Thinking of you

I'm so sorry for your loss OP. This post has made me cry. You must be feeling the most terrible grief right now. I hope you have some answers for why this happened, at least.

Posting again to say I am still thinking about you and your family OP. Sending you all, all of my love.

So sorry for your loss x

For the funeral have you considered too soon by mary yarnall?

I'm so very sorry for your loss OP. My stomach turned when I read your post. It's truly devastating, I wish you love and strength

I've thought of you every day since I first read your post. No person should ever know grief like this. Sending light and love, whatever it's worth, and strength for Friday.

That is just so unbelievably heart breaking. Thinking of you x

Posting again because I've thought of you every day since your first post. I still don't have the words, just sending love to you and wishing you strength for Friday.

Absolutely awful, I'm so so sorry OP

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how you are feeling and I just hope you can find something from somewhere to get through this week and especially Friday. I will think about you, your family and especially your little boy and wish him well on his journey. So sorry xx

Oh, OP, this thread has had me in tears. Utterly heartbreaking. I have no words to comfort you either, but I will think of you on Friday.

I'm so sorry for your loss

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss OP. There are no words. I am just so very, very sorry and sending love. You are in my thoughts. xxx

I hope everything goes as smoothly as possible tomorrow Acquiescence. I will be thinking of you and willing you to be strong.

Thinking of you tonight OP- Sending you love and strength for tomorrow

Sending another huge hand hold to you for tomorrow OP. I am crying for your little one lost too soon. We all are x

You'll be in my thoughts tomorrow

I will be sending you all my love tomorrow. My daughter died shortly after birth. Do what you need to and be kind to yourself. Remembering your beautiful child with you. I know that there are no words.