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My beautiful baby

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Miami81 · 27/09/2017 06:23

That's it really. Heading to hospital this morning to have my baby girl induced. Her heartbeat stopped somewhere between Sunday night and Monday morning at 27 weeks and I just can't bear it. She was our joy and our sunshine after two miscarriages and now I have to say goodbye to her today and I just don't know where I am going to find the strength.

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Justanothernap · 28/09/2017 14:55

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I honestly can't imagine. Thinking of you, your family & your little girl today.

gingerbreadmam · 28/09/2017 15:02

ahh you went with Eilidh what a lovely name. i hope you are making the most of spending time with her and are able to make some moments to cherish.

CarlottaJo · 28/09/2017 15:17

@Miami81 you have been in my thoughts so much over the past few days, and I will continue to keep you, your hubby and little Eilidh in my thoughts. Her name is absolutely beautiful, as is she I am sure. Sending you love and strength and will be lighting a candle for your beautiful girl tonight x

OpalIridescence · 28/09/2017 15:29

That is a beautiful name you have chosen for your little daughter.

Wishing you all the comfort possible x

JaneEyre70 · 28/09/2017 16:39

What a beautiful name. Thinking of you xx

Chamonix1 · 28/09/2017 16:39

What a beautiful name.
I will light a little candle for you too tonight and will be thinking of you all.
Xx

FiveBoys · 28/09/2017 17:02

Miami, thank you for letting us know about the birth of your beautiful daughter, Eilidh.

Thinking of you and yours at this very sad time.

xxxxxx

dirtygrubbybikerchick · 28/09/2017 17:04

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your husband and Eilidh, @Miami81 x

Mumof3wunnerfuls · 28/09/2017 17:09

Just cried reading this. I am so so sorry to you and your husband Miami.
Flowers
Sending prayers and love

4evernamechanging · 28/09/2017 17:47

There really are no words. I just don't know what to say. I can't begin to imagine, but when I do my heart breaks!
My thoughts are with you and your family & your beautiful little girl will forever be in my thoughts!
Too beautiful for this world. She lives on through you, she is nothing less than a miracle and will forever be your daughter!Flowers

mynameisnotmichaelcaine · 28/09/2017 18:06

Thinking of you, your husband, and your beautiful girl Eilidh today.

mids · 28/09/2017 18:09

Oh OP this just caused me the most immense pain in the pit of my stomach I'm so so so so sorry. I cannot imagine your loss. So sorry Flowers

Lixon · 28/09/2017 18:50

I have been thinking of you these last few days Miami, what a beautiful name you have chosen for your lovely little girl. I'm glad that you have the opportunity to spend some time with her and form some beautiful memories. I'm glad it seems that you have such good support and wish you strength for the coming weeks xxx

NoParticularPattern · 28/09/2017 19:16

Oh Miami my heart absolutely breaks for you and your DH. You provided so much support to me and so many others on the other thread and I was absolutely devastated to read your posts.

Eilidh is th most beautiful name. I’m so glad you are managing to spend lots of time with her and that you will get a memory box. Sending you all so much love. I can’t even imagine how you are all feeling. Flowers

lizziejs · 28/09/2017 19:47

I’m so sorry to read this thread and sending so much love to you and your family.

I once read a thread where someone was asking advice on how to cope with miscarriages, and one kind person replied something along the lines of ‘remember that they were always with you, and they never felt any pain.’

My daughter was originally a twin and I found so much comfort in that.

Xxxx

SamiZayn · 28/09/2017 20:06

Thinking of you xxx

MsJuniper · 28/09/2017 22:03

Miami I have been thinking about you so much as have all of us on the mc thread. I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Eilidh. I'm sure these moments you have held her will stay with you forever. Sending so much love to you and your family.

Brenna24 · 28/09/2017 22:45

Eilidh is a beautiful name. I am so devastated for you. You have been so much support to all of us through this horrible journey. It is so unfair. I hope you are getting loads of RL support.

ScotsLamb · 28/09/2017 22:58

Miami you have been in my thoughts so much over the past few days. No words I can offer will give comfort to you and your husband but I hope you get to spend lots of time with your darling Eilidh. We miss you over on the threads and you will be in all of our thoughts throughout the rest of our journeys.
Lots of love xxx

LadyLapsang · 28/09/2017 23:00

Miami, Thinking of you, your precious daughter Eilidh, her daddy, your family and friends. My colleague's baby died a week before his due date and the photos of them, together with his brother and sister, were a real comfort.

Iamchanging · 29/09/2017 08:03

Hi Miami,
I just wanted to share my love and thoughts with you. I'm more sorry that I can say that you are going through this as well.
I have been up all night sobbing at next week I will deliver my baby sleeping. I am 23+5 today and can't believe how cruel life is.
At the moment I feel like I have no reason to live other than my DH but the dignity and grace in your posts is truly inspiring. You are in my thoughts x

Stressalot42 · 29/09/2017 08:34

Thinking of you all at this heartbreaking time. Xx

whyhastherumgone · 29/09/2017 09:24

@Miami I am so sorry for your loss. You've been in my thoughts so much, we are all devastated for you on the mc thread. You're such a lovely generous spirit and gave such good advice and support... I just wish there was something helpful I could say.

The name you have chosen is beautiful. I am so sorry you and your DH are having to go through this. i hope you're surrounded by love and support.

Ekphrasis · 29/09/2017 10:13

miami I've been thinking of you so much as we all have on the mc thread. I remember so well when you found out you were pregnant and I was so happy for you at the time, and hoped so much it would go well for you. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

You've chosen a beautiful name and I hope you have been able to feel some peace at being able to spend time with her.

Sending so much love to you all ❤️

AmyB1986 · 29/09/2017 10:18

@Miami81 such a beautiful name for a beautiful girl.
You’re in our thoughts.
You are such a kind, lovely supportive person to all the ladies on the mc thread and I think I speak for all of us when I say we share your heart break.

Sending you love and I hope you can find peace and comfort soon.

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