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My beautiful baby

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Miami81 · 27/09/2017 06:23

That's it really. Heading to hospital this morning to have my baby girl induced. Her heartbeat stopped somewhere between Sunday night and Monday morning at 27 weeks and I just can't bear it. She was our joy and our sunshine after two miscarriages and now I have to say goodbye to her today and I just don't know where I am going to find the strength.

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BanyanTree · 27/09/2017 06:30

I'm so, so sorry. Hopefully someone will be along in a minute with more helpful words who knows more about what you are going through. Just want to send you a hand hold and hugs.

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Mum2OneTeen · 27/09/2017 06:31

I'm so sorry for your loss FlowersFlowersFlowers

user1499786242 · 27/09/2017 06:32

I am so so sorry! Flowers

Roystonv · 27/09/2017 06:32

Bless you, wishing you love and strength to get through this horrible time.

sofato5miles · 27/09/2017 06:32

What an utterly devastating and heartbreaking loss. My heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through today and, not that a stranger can help, but I will light a candle for your darling baby girl.

BikeRunSki · 27/09/2017 06:33

I'm so sorry. Flowers

ICJump · 27/09/2017 06:36

I'm so sorry. Will you have access to a cuddle cot afterward the birth? So you can spend some time with her.

Miami81 · 27/09/2017 06:38

Yes ic there will be a cuddle cot and a memory box and we have some stuff packed for her. It just all feels so surreal. Thanks for the kind words and thoughts.

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LoyaltyAndLobster · 27/09/2017 06:40
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Godotsarrived · 27/09/2017 06:41

There are no words. I am so sorry for your loss. Utterly wretched for you. I hope you can take comfort from knowing how much your little daughter was wanted and loved. Strength to you Flowers

Ohb0llocks · 27/09/2017 06:42

So so sorry ❤️❤️❤️❤️

HopeAndJoy16 · 27/09/2017 06:43

Sending you lots of love ❤️ I'm so, so sorry you have lost your precious little girl. Life is so unfair xxxx

Eminado · 27/09/2017 06:44

I am so sorry this is happening Flowers

RoryItsSnowing · 27/09/2017 06:45

I'm so, so sorry. I hope they let you spend as long as possible with her to create memories and photos of your beautiful girl FlowersFlowersFlowers

pumpkin321 · 27/09/2017 06:45

So so sorry sweetheart, sending you lots of love and strength. Xxx

ICJump · 27/09/2017 06:47

That is good there is a cuddle cot. It must be very surreal for you.

TiesThatBindMe · 27/09/2017 06:48

Oh God help you. What an utterly unbearable loss. I'm so sorry. Similar happened to my cousin though I think she was further on and I cried my eyes out as it was her first pregnancy and first baby. I don't think I could cope at all. My cousin now has 4 more children and seems to be relatively happy. Nobody mentions her first baby really because we're afraid of upsetting her by bringing it up or mentioning her. Their baby is buried beside our grandmother and wrapped in my grandmother's shawl. I know they go to her grave often. It's so tragic.

sandgrown · 27/09/2017 06:50

So sorry to hear this . Wishing you strength to get through this dark time Flowers

Theworldisfullofidiots · 27/09/2017 06:51

I'm so sorry. It must be terrible. Flowers

mynameisnotmichaelcaine · 27/09/2017 06:53

I'm so so sorry you lost her beautiful baby girl. What is her name? Sending love and strength.

bumblebee77 · 27/09/2017 06:58

I'm so, so sorry for your loss. There are no words really.

Miami81 · 27/09/2017 07:00

We are thinking of calling her Eilidh Nora but we are going to wait and see her to make it definite.

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namechanger2735 · 27/09/2017 07:01

My heart breaks to read this. What a horrible thing to happen to you and your family. But you especially. Will be thinking of you today, and probably for a long while after.
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mynameisnotmichaelcaine · 27/09/2017 07:03

That's beautiful. Thoughts are with you and your family. It is going to be an extremely dark time. I know family and friends who have been through the same experience found the charity SANDS to be a huge support.

Mugshotzforlunch · 27/09/2017 07:07

I'm so sorry for your loss Flowers sending you strength and love. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

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