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Daughter passed away yesterday afternoon

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user1477738769 · 29/10/2016 12:05

She had a planned surgery due. 2 days before she got admitted, ventilated and then passed away in picu 10 days later. Devastated and don't know what to do with myself.

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2kids2dogsnosense · 29/10/2016 12:29

Oh, user - how dreadful.

What an absolutely bloody awful thing to happen to your beautiful child.

I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through.

citychick · 29/10/2016 12:29

Oh no, how awful for you. I am also very sorry for your loss.
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Serialweightwatcher · 29/10/2016 12:29

I'm so very, very sorry OP - devastating Sad Flowers

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 29/10/2016 12:30

So very, very sorry for the loss of your daughter. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. Thanks

JsOtherHalf · 29/10/2016 12:32

I am so so sorry. Flowers

ElsaAintAsColdAsMe · 29/10/2016 12:32

I'm so sorry Flowers

LadyStoic · 29/10/2016 12:33

Dear God, how utterly horrific for you. OP my heart is aching for you and yours.

I have no words to offer, they would be useless. Please just know that a loss as immense as yours is one that touches others; that we will be here for you; that there is no 'right' or 'wrong' way to think or feel right now.

My most profound condolences on your loss, you will stay in my thoughts Flowers

Muddlewitch · 29/10/2016 12:34

I'm so so sorry Flowers

KitKat1985 · 29/10/2016 12:35

I'm so sorry OP. Flowers

Pandamanda3 · 29/10/2016 12:37

Op so so sorry for your loss, I really don't know what to say it must be so hard for you 💐 but as previous posters mention if you want to talk at all there are so many of us here ready to listen, anytime even if it's not right now or today.
Just when you need and you are ready,
thoughts and strength to you all during this sad time x

Peaceandl0ve · 29/10/2016 12:39

So very sorty for yoyr loss. Feel free to tell us about her if you want to.

Ffswtf · 29/10/2016 12:39

I'm so sorry for your loss, thinking of you FlowersFlowersFlowers

Agerbilatemycardigan · 29/10/2016 12:42

I don't really know what to say. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Do you have people around you for support?

FrancisCrawford · 29/10/2016 12:43

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WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 29/10/2016 12:43

Can't imagine anything worse. So sorry Flowers

chicaguapa · 29/10/2016 12:44

Word seem contrite when someone like you is suffering such a deep profound loss. I just didn't want to read and run.

I hope you have a lot of support in RL to help you through this. Flowers

slightlypeevedwombat · 29/10/2016 12:44

i cant even imagine what you are going through, sending you all the love i can Flowers

AndersArms · 29/10/2016 12:44

So sorry for your loss OP. Would you like to tell us about your DD?

Loubilou09 · 29/10/2016 12:44

Oh my love, I am so sorry. Tell us about her if you can X

Mumoftwoyoungkids · 29/10/2016 12:45

So sorry. Would love to hear about her if you wanted to talk about her.

UnoriginalNN · 29/10/2016 12:45

So sorry for your loss. I hope you have lots of support around you at this awful time. Flowers

GiveMyHeadPeaceffs · 29/10/2016 12:47

I cannot comprehend the pain and loss you must be going through. I am so very sorry for your loss Flowers

SpunkyMummy · 29/10/2016 12:48

I'm so sorry for your loss. Flowers Flowers Flowers

That's a quote a friend of mine used last year. she said it really helped her.
"The agony is great and yet I will stand it. Had I not loved so much I would not hurt so much. But goodness knows I would not want to diminish that precious love by one fraction of an ounce. I will hurt. And I will be grateful for that hurt for it bears witness to the depth of our meaning. And for that I will be eternally grateful.”

SestraClone · 29/10/2016 12:51

I am so so sorry. What was she like? I bet she was amazing.

IhatchedaSnorlax · 29/10/2016 12:51

I am so sorry for your loss Op. Devastating for you all. Flowers

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