Our Children budded on earth to bloom in heaven

[frasersmummy]

I think we have had this title before but it seems appropriate for spring

I have started this thread in honour of all our children but particularly Fraser who would have been 7 today. Happy birthday son we still miss you dearly. You will always be our firstborn and we always remember you in our hearts

I dont drink but I will partake in a bit of chocolate.

I hope your evenings are kind.

Im more of a peanuts and crisp girl myself....

I will have yours greenzebra I am so kind like that

Shabs I am sure you are helping , it is good she is able to be honest with you but I hope you are being kind to yourself too xx

Congratulations mini, so pleased you got good news today xx

greenzebra a very hard day for you, it's just so draining isn't it? I hope the evening is gentle for you. As others say, just one moment/hour at a time is all you can do sometimes. I saw your comment about Kelly Brook and just wanted to say how wholeheartedly I agree. My DD died and was born at 20 weeks. Technically she is a miscarriage, but I laboured and gave birth to her, held her, named her, she was blessed, she was buried and she has a grave in our cemetery. I count her as my child. I think there is a difference between early and late miscarriage and its hard that the words don't reflect that. Very hard to have your 5 month baby dismissed as "one of those things" (the words of a woman at work I was fucking incandescent)

greenzebra i remember those days all to clearly, just take it an hour/day at a time. Make you feel my love always makes me cry now, i used to sing along (badly) to it for Zoe. It is such a fitting song.

Meant to say great news about your scan mini! x

Thanks everyone, you've all been so supportive and thanks for listening to my doubts and fears.

Cheers (er, don't think there is an emoticon for prune juice!)

Great news about scan mini :)

sending you lots of strength green

Morning girls xx

Morning x

Hows the head Shabs ?

Suprisingly fine love!! xxx

So maybe your Matty was giving you a sign after all
Much more helpful than Lillies , a drinking cider and no headache cure

How you doing today ? I always find the next day a bit bleurgh .

Yep that is the word that best describes how I feel xx

Just waiting for Lewis to arrive so tired....OK pin smile on, get ready for the day xx

Good luck Shabs x

Lewis will wake you up for sure

Morning girls xx

Just intriducing you all to our new family member
We have renamed him Bumble as i kept thinking of Michael Jacksons monkey!!We are collecting him on Saturday afternoon!!!

I bet Wilf is very excited Lottie!!! Bubbles looks great xxxx

Sorry Bumble!!

Afternoon all. My head is hurting today, badish night but feeling OKish now.

Bumble is a lovely dog :)

Hope everyone's well.

Added Scarlett's dates to the list, hope it's ok to have a few as I had the day we found out she died, then her birth, due date and funeral.

Ah, Bumble looks a real cutie!

Cheese you can add any dates you like , I hope you have a more peaceful night tonight .

I have had a real Harry day today , no idea why , just woke up that way .
And then when I got in from work I saw my lovely lovely friend had sent me a cd through the post of songs from the TCF yearly forum last weekend . How good is that for timing ?

Had a good sob and feel lots better now . Good to allow yourself to have a good old wallow .

Morning all x

Morning girls xx

Good afternoon ladies xx

Hope you are all as well as you can be xx