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To think this person was trying to hint at something

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gogogwen · Today 20:18

I've name changed because if I am being paranoid I don't want abuse.

I recently bought an advent calendar for my child that wasn't obviously Christmas themed. I see lots of people using it to countdown Chanukah and I wanted to do the same. I thought the entire calendar was so cool that I reached out to thank the creators for such a wonderful product. Their email reply back was quite nice but then in their last paragraph they wrote:
Last week a Muslim mother wrote to tell me that her family would be using our calendar as a countdown for Ramadan :) and to me that confirms a really nice thing - that it can be used to count down to any celebration!

The company is Spanish and so I assume the owner is too. It's the smiley face. I have nothing against Muslims, but I wonder if the person wrote it to hint - see, they're just like you, don't harbour any bad feelings. Or even, trying to put me off their company?

Is it me, or just why would they even write that?

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Suspicioustoenails · Today 20:20

Massive overthink.
Forget it.

LivingForTheWinter · Today 20:21

I've read this three times and still can't find the issue.

Millowmallowsky · Today 20:21

You are way overthinking it.

Ifeeltheneedtheneedforcoffee · Today 20:22

I think the company just are genuinely pleased lots of people are using their product to count down to celebrations.
Nothing more than that

Bearybasket · Today 20:22

You need to get offline and touch some grass buddy

Ilikesundays · Today 20:23

The smiley face only means they are happy people of all faiths are enjoying using their calendar. It wouldn’t have occurred to me that they were trying to imply anything hostile.

BigWig78 · Today 20:23

What might they be meaning? I’m so confused.

AndyouWILLATONE · Today 20:24

Literally read this twice and not able to identify the problem.

itsadlibitum · Today 20:25

😂😂 bloody hell that’s a stretch! Surely it’s just a comment that they are pleased people of all faiths are finding use for their calendar.

LittleMonks11 · Today 20:25

Huh?

gogogwen · Today 20:25

AndyouWILLATONE · Today 20:24

Literally read this twice and not able to identify the problem.

Just why would they mention Muslim out of all the faiths. I was just wondering if they're trying to be antagonising or that they might not like Jewish people (because of Spain's stance) and discourage me from using their brand.

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ilovepixie · Today 20:26

Totally confused here, I see no issue whatsoever.

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · Today 20:26

What did your local MP say when you raised it with them?

LivingForTheWinter · Today 20:27

gogogwen · Today 20:25

Just why would they mention Muslim out of all the faiths. I was just wondering if they're trying to be antagonising or that they might not like Jewish people (because of Spain's stance) and discourage me from using their brand.

You can't be serious?

Oreosareawful · Today 20:27

You’re the reason the phrase “you can’t say anything without offending someone these days” exists.
Give it a rest

saveforthat · Today 20:28

What was the content of the email before the last paragraph?

gogogwen · Today 20:28

LivingForTheWinter · Today 20:27

You can't be serious?

There is someone who has voted that I'm not being unreasonable so my thought process is at least understandable to someone (who I assume is of a similar background to me and therefore appreciates where I'm coming from)

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BeardySchnauzer · Today 20:29

gogogwen · Today 20:25

Just why would they mention Muslim out of all the faiths. I was just wondering if they're trying to be antagonising or that they might not like Jewish people (because of Spain's stance) and discourage me from using their brand.

How many people of different religions do you think are being these advent calendars? Just like you, the Muslim mother contacted her to say she’d bought it for a non advent festival. She obviously thought it was nice that she’s successfully appealing to the three major world religions🤷‍♀️

totally overthinking

itsadlibitum · Today 20:29

gogogwen · Today 20:25

Just why would they mention Muslim out of all the faiths. I was just wondering if they're trying to be antagonising or that they might not like Jewish people (because of Spain's stance) and discourage me from using their brand.

Because they are saying people of all faiths are using it. They wouldn’t say Christian as that’s the obvious use case. And perhaps they’ve had no Hindus or Buddhists 🙄

SquirrelGG · Today 20:29

Sorry, but you are being beyond ridiculous.

gogogwen · Today 20:29

saveforthat · Today 20:28

What was the content of the email before the last paragraph?

That it was a nice email to receive and reading emails like this make it all their hard work all the more worthwhile

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Error404FucksNotFound · Today 20:30

That wasnt a hint at anything.
They said it clearly.
It's nice it is being used by a wider ranger of people.
Which is true. It is.

NinaGeiger · Today 20:30

Surely this is rage bait

LivingForTheWinter · Today 20:30

gogogwen · Today 20:28

There is someone who has voted that I'm not being unreasonable so my thought process is at least understandable to someone (who I assume is of a similar background to me and therefore appreciates where I'm coming from)

I dont even know where to start with this!

Blueuggboots · Today 20:30

Do you usually have paranoia?

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