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"Nearly all women who try to reach UK in small boats are raped during their journey, Home Secretary says"

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supernaturalmilkshake · 07/10/2026 11:12

Well, this is absolutely sickening and terrifying. Those poor women and poor women and girls in the UK who will no doubt end up suffering too. Women's rights and safety seems to be the last thing that matters these days.

www.dailymail.com/news/article-16183281/Nearly-women-try-reach-UK-small-boats-raped-journey-home-secretary-says.html

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Passaggressfedup · 07/10/2026 12:36

You can almost guarantee that every woman that’s in the north of France has probably been raped along the journey
How did almost and probably turned into are?

Sounds like straw man fallacy 🙄

ghostyslovesheets · 07/10/2026 12:42

Also applies to young men - I work with separated children - I’d say 80% of them experience sexual assault and criminal exploitation on their journey- male and female.

daisyydaisyy · 07/10/2026 12:46

I posted a comment saying that this happens on Reddit.

I was banned for racism and hatred based on race. Funny that isn’t it, when you speak facts and still get banned.

daisyydaisyy · 07/10/2026 12:47

ghostyslovesheets · 07/10/2026 12:42

Also applies to young men - I work with separated children - I’d say 80% of them experience sexual assault and criminal exploitation on their journey- male and female.

This is also in the article, it’s absolutely sickening that nobody is safe from this. Just sad.

ghostyslovesheets · 07/10/2026 12:50

daisyydaisyy · 07/10/2026 12:47

This is also in the article, it’s absolutely sickening that nobody is safe from this. Just sad.

Because it’s organised criminal gangs people trafficking that refugees rely on to escape - there are no safe routes

moonraker0 · 07/10/2026 12:53

Another reason not to keep letting all of these unchecked, undocumented men into this country. And yes, I know rape happens here but it’s not a reason to keep importing more of it.

LuckyHazelFox · 07/10/2026 13:39

daisyydaisyy · 07/10/2026 12:46

I posted a comment saying that this happens on Reddit.

I was banned for racism and hatred based on race. Funny that isn’t it, when you speak facts and still get banned.

That's a vile platform full of hate. Weirdos gather there when they've been banned from MN. They are exactly what they accuse you of. They've also got their spies on here. Pathetic.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 07/10/2026 14:00

Yes, women also have bizarre heart attacks and randomly die onboard don't they? And yet these men, the traffickers and illegal minors rapists and murderers, sorry, are not violent or a risk women in the UK. It takes some great left wing powers of logic to figure it out, and it is racist to ask about it. 2+2 = 5 REPEAT....

ghostyslovesheets · 07/10/2026 14:09

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 07/10/2026 14:00

Yes, women also have bizarre heart attacks and randomly die onboard don't they? And yet these men, the traffickers and illegal minors rapists and murderers, sorry, are not violent or a risk women in the UK. It takes some great left wing powers of logic to figure it out, and it is racist to ask about it. 2+2 = 5 REPEAT....

Are you confusing people seeking asylum who are victims of sexual abuse with the traffickers who abuse them?

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 07/10/2026 14:23

ghostyslovesheets · 07/10/2026 14:09

Are you confusing people seeking asylum who are victims of sexual abuse with the traffickers who abuse them?

So they are raped whilst on the boats coming over here.
Now is that going to be the trafficking people who are not on the boats or the other so called asylum seekers.

ghostyslovesheets · 07/10/2026 14:26

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 07/10/2026 14:23

So they are raped whilst on the boats coming over here.
Now is that going to be the trafficking people who are not on the boats or the other so called asylum seekers.

You are confused, the people trafficking asylum seekers are organised criminals making a lot of money - I doubt they are seeking asylum

among those who are seeking asylum will be male and female victims of sexual assault

LostFuse · 07/10/2026 14:27

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 07/10/2026 14:23

So they are raped whilst on the boats coming over here.
Now is that going to be the trafficking people who are not on the boats or the other so called asylum seekers.

This is not what she said though.

She said: “We’re not in control of this border. The sifting of the people that end up in the north of France and are about to get on a dinghy is done by criminal gangs who are also, by the way, people traffickers. You can almost guarantee that every woman that’s in the north of France has probably been raped along the journey. Some of the men too, they’ve certainly been abused and threatened".

It could have happened anywhere on their journey from their native country and could just as likely have been natives of the country they were passing through as it was to have been a fellow traveller.

ghostyslovesheets · 07/10/2026 14:30

@LostFuse is correct - many are also victims of modern slavery having been held on their journey to pay off debt by working - traffickers are citizens of countries like Egypt, Turkey, Italy and France

MongooseAlley · 07/10/2026 14:35

moonraker0 · 07/10/2026 12:53

Another reason not to keep letting all of these unchecked, undocumented men into this country. And yes, I know rape happens here but it’s not a reason to keep importing more of it.

The assault happens en route and perpetrated primarily by people smugglers etc not the actual migrants. These people are totally ignorant (as in naive and unaware) of what their journey entails.

Why don't you educate yourself by reading something worthwhile instead of trotting out the same old shit.

SixAndJuliet · 07/10/2026 14:43

Such a goady headline that appears to be having its desired effect.

Very deliberately gives the impression that the rapists are on the boats with them and washing up on British shores. In reality the rape and abuse has most likely occurred in other countries along their route probably by the criminals trafficking and exploiting them way before they get on the boat.

Far more satisfying to interpret it the way you want to isn’t it Daily Mail readers?

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 07/10/2026 14:46

@ghostyslovesheets They are often one and the same. There are some good Podcasts on BBC sounds that helped me gain some understanding the immense complexity of the situation. Many of the traffickers are also being trafficked, many of the trafficked me do assault women. It is not a simple case of 'good migrants' and 'bad smugglers'

ghostyslovesheets · 07/10/2026 14:59

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 07/10/2026 14:46

@ghostyslovesheets They are often one and the same. There are some good Podcasts on BBC sounds that helped me gain some understanding the immense complexity of the situation. Many of the traffickers are also being trafficked, many of the trafficked me do assault women. It is not a simple case of 'good migrants' and 'bad smugglers'

I understand but logically then not all asylum seekers are bad people and many have been criminally exploited- which is why I support their right to seek asylum

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 07/10/2026 15:16

@ghostyslovesheets many of the traffickers are victims of modern slavery.
Many of those driving boats are migrants.

it is a complex situation where victims can be perpetrators. I have worked with child refugees who admit to raping and sexually abusing women both as child soldiers, on behalf of gangs to escape punishment themselves and because they come from countries where sexual assault and rape of unaccompanied women is neither illegal nor unusual. These issues need widely discussing. Constantly screaming "racist" and blaming a faceless group of evil "traffickers" has allowed this situation to continue for so long which is horrific for trafficked people, but also brings dangerous men into the UK with no appropriate checks.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 07/10/2026 15:17

@ghostyslovesheets I rarely meet a British person who does not support the right to asylum, but there are dangerous violent men amongst them and there need to be proper checks and vetting.

OffWith · 07/10/2026 15:20

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 07/10/2026 15:17

@ghostyslovesheets I rarely meet a British person who does not support the right to asylum, but there are dangerous violent men amongst them and there need to be proper checks and vetting.

I no longer support the right to asylum.

I think those laws are completely outdated, and now actively harming the country, it's finances and the safety of it's citizens.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 07/10/2026 15:23

OffWith · 07/10/2026 15:20

I no longer support the right to asylum.

I think those laws are completely outdated, and now actively harming the country, it's finances and the safety of it's citizens.

THIS

Yello24 · 07/10/2026 15:30

I don’t think anyone can seriously argue the current system is affording refuge to those who most need it. We need to accept it’s a criminal racket at this point and needs wholesale reform.
Then in my ideal world the resources we have to support desperate people can be focussed on fetching people (including women and children!) from refugee camps and properly supporting and integrating them.
At the moment it’s the self selected men trafficked by criminal gangs and holding us to ransom via outdated laws and sheer pressure of numbers overwhelming our capacity to deal with them properly.
How is this going to end because we all know it can’t go on like this.

5MinuteArgument · 07/10/2026 15:40

ghostyslovesheets · 07/10/2026 14:26

You are confused, the people trafficking asylum seekers are organised criminals making a lot of money - I doubt they are seeking asylum

among those who are seeking asylum will be male and female victims of sexual assault

Asylum seekers who are under 18 always require being housed separately to adult asylum seekers because among the adult asylum seekers are sexual predators and criminals.

These are the people we are bringing into our country. Once granted asylum they will be free to prey on other people.

Bringemout · 07/10/2026 15:42

Boats have arrived with women dead, boats have had women raped on them by other refugees. The idea that it’s just traffickers killing and raping women is bullshit.

I’m happy to take female refugees, the men can sort themselves out as far as I’m concerned.

I see it time and time on here being perceived as a racist is worse than not giving a shit about womens safety.

5MinuteArgument · 07/10/2026 15:44

Yello24 · 07/10/2026 15:30

I don’t think anyone can seriously argue the current system is affording refuge to those who most need it. We need to accept it’s a criminal racket at this point and needs wholesale reform.
Then in my ideal world the resources we have to support desperate people can be focussed on fetching people (including women and children!) from refugee camps and properly supporting and integrating them.
At the moment it’s the self selected men trafficked by criminal gangs and holding us to ransom via outdated laws and sheer pressure of numbers overwhelming our capacity to deal with them properly.
How is this going to end because we all know it can’t go on like this.

Edited

Yes it's a criminal racket and we're naively providing a taxi service to our shores. But there's so many vested interests involved, I don't see it ending anytime soon.