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Crying at bake off

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NigellasNeck · 23/09/2026 12:04

I cried when Molly dropped her cake. Just a few tears.

I'm a saddo aren't I?

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Secretseverywhere · Yesterday 10:51

I have to admit I really dislike the getting to know the contestants (especially the ones who are supposed to make interesting tv) I watch it on catch up so watch the initial here is your challenge, skip a bit and watch that last frantic minute before judging, the judging *3 and who’s going home. It’s really easy as there are ad breaks before every judging.

If the show was full of really competent bakers who could explain different techniques as they went I’d probably watch the whole thing.

I only managed the first couple of episodes last season but I like Nigella as a judge so will try and stick with it.

Cartouche · Yesterday 10:56

MissCooCooMcgoo · Yesterday 10:40

All she needs to do is take smaller fork fulls.

Yes, but did you see the size of many of yesterday’s cakes? Enormous, and you couldn’t just take a bit of one layer plus some adjacent icing, because two layers up there was a different filling you also had to taste! The cakes have got more and more elaborate over time, and it’s now comparatively rare for there to be only one filling type sandwiching the layers of a multi-layer cake…

I wouldn’t be in the least surprised if we were to see focus shifting, outside the showstoppers, to smaller, less monumental cakes, though obviously, it gets easier on the judges as more people are eliminated.

WiddlinDiddlin · Yesterday 10:56

User76443998 · 23/09/2026 21:13

Ah Bake Off.

Nigella ate so strangely. It looked like she didn’t want to let the forks touch her lips so did that thing where you take the food with your teeth? Did anyone else notice that? It was the most unnatural eating.

Danni - SO ANNOYING
Thrupple man - SO ANNOYING

Gary - lovely

Yes I said to DP it looks like part of her face doesn't work, botox? Trying not to get crumbs in her lippy? Weird.

ohthesuspense · Yesterday 11:05

Sahara123 · Yesterday 10:21

That’s what I thought , teeth ! I’m not normally a Nigella fan , too much of the voluptuous, ooh aren’t I naughty eating this but I actually thought she’d toned it down a bit and wasn’t too bad. I also thought there would be more of a battle of the divas between her and Alison, but it wasn’t too bad. Noel looked a bit like a rabbit in the headlights between the two of them though!
I agree, quite a tick box of contestants!

I was surprised at how much I liked Nigella, as I really didn’t think she would fit well into the BO team. She’s toned down her usual presenting style but with enough pops of “her” to make it her own. She’s going to be kind, too.
I must admit, I did wonder if they practice tasting (they must do, right?) as she was shovelling much to large spoonfuls in and trying to hide her mouth from the camera!
Has anyone else watched Dessert Masters, an Australian Masterchef spin off? It’s on Ch4 and Prime. The female presenter, who I think is also the presenter of Oz MC, has absolutely perfected how to eat a spoonful of cake or pudding on TV whilst looking super cool and not budging her wonderful red lippy. I’m in awe, tbh!

TheEasterPangolin · Yesterday 11:12

‘You’re perfectly entitled to not watch but doing so because “DEI!!!!” Is just ridiculous. Non- white contestants, gay contestants, disabled contestants, ND contestants have been part of the Bake Off fold since it started. Because it reflects the society we live in. Shock horror, not just middle aged women and young middle class girls bake!’

My gripe is that baking ability should come first, what with it being called ‘Bake Off’. To me it looks like they’re more concerned with putting together a rounded mix of society, before looking at contestants baking skill and experience. The last few years the standard has got steadily lower. I know it’s not just white middle age and young women who bake, but some of the contestants shouldn’t have made it past the auditions.

putmeonthebackburner · Yesterday 11:14

TheEasterPangolin · Yesterday 11:12

‘You’re perfectly entitled to not watch but doing so because “DEI!!!!” Is just ridiculous. Non- white contestants, gay contestants, disabled contestants, ND contestants have been part of the Bake Off fold since it started. Because it reflects the society we live in. Shock horror, not just middle aged women and young middle class girls bake!’

My gripe is that baking ability should come first, what with it being called ‘Bake Off’. To me it looks like they’re more concerned with putting together a rounded mix of society, before looking at contestants baking skill and experience. The last few years the standard has got steadily lower. I know it’s not just white middle age and young women who bake, but some of the contestants shouldn’t have made it past the auditions.

I thought the whole point was ordinary bakers who get better. If you want professionals they have a whole show for that.

ButWhoAmI · Yesterday 11:19

TheEasterPangolin · Yesterday 09:55

One episode and I’m done. They’ve ticked all the DEI boxes and put baking ability at the bottom of the selection criteria - ND, disabled, non-binary, black, brown, gay, drag (in a throuple, no less), older person. Only a few seem like half competent bakers. Nigella looks about as into it all as she would doing a load of laundry. It’s unwatchable (to me anyhow).

You saved me typing it.
It's unwatchable now.

ohthesuspense · Yesterday 11:21

ButWhoAmI · Yesterday 11:19

You saved me typing it.
It's unwatchable now.

Who shouldn’t have been there?
Do you think of there hadn’t been a drag Queen in a thrupple you’d have been able to cope?

Theresmagicwheretheflowersgrow · Yesterday 11:22

AlwaysExtraHot · Yesterday 10:22

Exactly this.
If you're worried about 'normalising' it for kids, just say, 'Some people...' the way I presume you say, 'Some people have two daddies' etc.

Thankfully I didn't ever have to explain the 'two daddies' relationships either as my children are now grandparents themselves!

Theresmagicwheretheflowersgrow · Yesterday 11:24

ohthesuspense · Yesterday 11:21

Who shouldn’t have been there?
Do you think of there hadn’t been a drag Queen in a thrupple you’d have been able to cope?

Just good home bakers who know how to behave themselves without squealing like attention seeking toddlers every few minutes.

AlwaysExtraHot · Yesterday 11:25

Theresmagicwheretheflowersgrow · Yesterday 11:22

Thankfully I didn't ever have to explain the 'two daddies' relationships either as my children are now grandparents themselves!

Why would you only have to explain about gay people if your own children happened not to be straight? Confused
And why 'Thankfully'? Is it so dreadful, the idea of talking to children about how some men love other men and some women love other women?

ButWhoAmI · Yesterday 11:25

TheEasterPangolin · Yesterday 11:12

‘You’re perfectly entitled to not watch but doing so because “DEI!!!!” Is just ridiculous. Non- white contestants, gay contestants, disabled contestants, ND contestants have been part of the Bake Off fold since it started. Because it reflects the society we live in. Shock horror, not just middle aged women and young middle class girls bake!’

My gripe is that baking ability should come first, what with it being called ‘Bake Off’. To me it looks like they’re more concerned with putting together a rounded mix of society, before looking at contestants baking skill and experience. The last few years the standard has got steadily lower. I know it’s not just white middle age and young women who bake, but some of the contestants shouldn’t have made it past the auditions.

But why on earth do we need to know that someone is shagging two men?

TheEasterPangolin · Yesterday 11:28

‘Who shouldn’t have been there?
Do you think of there hadn’t been a drag Queen in a thrupple you’d have been able to cope?’

I can cope perfectly well. The drag Queen putting on a jesters hat to present his cake was performance art, not baking . I don’t give a shit if he’s in a consensual relationship with 5 wives, 3 husbands and a Siberian Tiger, just bake already.

AlwaysExtraHot · Yesterday 11:29

ButWhoAmI · Yesterday 11:25

But why on earth do we need to know that someone is shagging two men?

No one says 'shagging' on the show. How prurient of you. It's perfectly appropriate for family viewing.
You could ask why on earth we need to know about any of their partners/home lives, but that's just how these sorts of shows do it. Showing snippets of them in their life away from the show gives a more rounded picture of them. And their partners are always discussed in the context of what they're doing on the show e.g. 'Michael works in IT and in his spare time loves baking for his partner, Tim [sorry, can you not handle that? You can substitute 'Sharon' if you like].'

NigellasNeck · Yesterday 11:34

I've got a confession. This is the first time I've ever watched it. I only started because of the hype over Nigella. I've had a peek occasionally and do like some reality TV.

I enjoyed it though and am sticking with it.

Not Sorry to those having a go because there's already a thread or I've spoiled it for tthem.Must do better 😉 Have sone cake 🍰🧁🥮🥧

Oh and I had a friend over last night for dinner. I ended up buying cake at the local shop because of Bake off. I don't have a sweet tooth but it made me fancy cake. Am I going to end up housebound surrounded by crumbs and needing a hoist? Cake was factory made cornflake tart that was actually delicious.

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ButWhoAmI · Yesterday 11:35

I'm well aware of how it works thanks, and I don't think this is appropriate.
Of the tens of thousands of entrants, they had to choose him?
Absolutely no need.

LostThestral · Yesterday 11:39

ohthesuspense · Yesterday 10:32

Who’s the non-binary person?

You’re perfectly entitled to not watch but doing so because “DEI!!!!” Is just ridiculous. Non- white contestants, gay contestants, disabled contestants, ND contestants have been part of the Bake Off fold since it started. Because it reflects the society we live in. Shock horror, not just middle aged women and young middle class girls bake!

I read on the other thread that Danni is they/them

Olderbutt · Yesterday 11:40

Theresmagicwheretheflowersgrow · 23/09/2026 13:37

Contestant wise - seem like a bunch of people have been added just for tv rather than baking skills

This (and not giving contestants enough time) is what spoils all reality shows nowadays and they're always such 'I'm mad me!' types.

Totally agree

AlwaysExtraHot · Yesterday 11:42

ButWhoAmI · Yesterday 11:35

I'm well aware of how it works thanks, and I don't think this is appropriate.
Of the tens of thousands of entrants, they had to choose him?
Absolutely no need.

Of course, as discussed on this thread, they do look for a range of people/personalities; that's just a feature of this kind of show. But maybe he was also better than some other entrants?

Was there a 'need' to choose a 60-ish white man?
A young white gay man?
A woman with Jamaican heritage?
A man with Asian heritage?

Please, so I can understand, can you explain clearly what is so inappropriate about a short clip showing his partners that he should not be on the show?

TheEasterPangolin · Yesterday 11:46

‘Was there a 'need' to choose a 60-ish white man?
A young white gay man?
A woman with Jamaican heritage?
A man with Asian heritage?’

They can bake well. That’s fine. When contestants are chosen because of their race, disability, sexuality but are poor to average bakers, then it’s a problem

AlwaysExtraHot · Yesterday 11:50

TheEasterPangolin · Yesterday 11:46

‘Was there a 'need' to choose a 60-ish white man?
A young white gay man?
A woman with Jamaican heritage?
A man with Asian heritage?’

They can bake well. That’s fine. When contestants are chosen because of their race, disability, sexuality but are poor to average bakers, then it’s a problem

They can bake well. That’s fine. When contestants are chosen because of their race, disability, sexuality but are poor to average bakers, then it’s a problem
Is Molly a poor baker? She got some excellent comments.
Is Gabe a poor baker? He also got some excellent comments.
There will always be people on it who do better and those who do worse. Otherwise there'd be no way to pick a winner.

MissCooCooMcgoo · Yesterday 12:41

Cartouche · Yesterday 10:56

Yes, but did you see the size of many of yesterday’s cakes? Enormous, and you couldn’t just take a bit of one layer plus some adjacent icing, because two layers up there was a different filling you also had to taste! The cakes have got more and more elaborate over time, and it’s now comparatively rare for there to be only one filling type sandwiching the layers of a multi-layer cake…

I wouldn’t be in the least surprised if we were to see focus shifting, outside the showstoppers, to smaller, less monumental cakes, though obviously, it gets easier on the judges as more people are eliminated.

This doesnt track. You absolutely would not need to take a massive forkful to try and incorporate all layers and fillings in one go.

You take a small amount of cake and adjacent filling for each layer and taste them separately.

The way she was shoveling in huge chunks each time was just stupid.

AlwaysExtraHot · Yesterday 12:48

You need to taste them together to see if they go together, surely?

LotusMandala · Yesterday 12:54

MiddleAgedDread · 23/09/2026 12:09

any chance you could add "Spoiler alert" to the title for those of us still to watch it on catch up??

Some people really can’t be helped, and you’re one of them. Why open the thread?

Isobel201 · Yesterday 13:30

Usually something happens spectuately on the first episode, someone dropping a cake is no surprise. I was happy that they kept the original presenters, Nigella was a fresh face and I liked her.