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Crying at bake off

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NigellasNeck · 23/09/2026 12:04

I cried when Molly dropped her cake. Just a few tears.

I'm a saddo aren't I?

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AlwaysExtraHot · Yesterday 13:42

Isobel201 · Yesterday 13:30

Usually something happens spectuately on the first episode, someone dropping a cake is no surprise. I was happy that they kept the original presenters, Nigella was a fresh face and I liked her.

Usually something happens spectuately on the first episode
Yes, that's a good point that I hadn't considered, but they do often show an early 'disaster'. Grab the audience right from the start, I suppose!

NigellasNeck · Yesterday 14:02

I wouldn't know about that with me being a newbie. If I'd watched previously maybe I wouldn't have shed a tear?

When's the next episode?

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AlwaysExtraHot · Yesterday 14:43

NigellasNeck · Yesterday 14:02

I wouldn't know about that with me being a newbie. If I'd watched previously maybe I wouldn't have shed a tear?

When's the next episode?

I think it's fine to cry if something bad happens to a contestant, especially if it's someone you like. That's part of the point of these shows, surely, to become fond of certain people and not like others so much, and root for your favourites?

Dinosaurhearmeroar · Yesterday 18:02

Poor Molly - I did feel for her. But it was all fine in the end. Danni, bless her, is a tad annoying. From one ND person to another she is definitely autistic. Her cakes also looked like they tasted foul and the judges were just being polite as it was the first week.

just read that danni is a them so for that reason I’m out.

Cartouche · Yesterday 18:37

MissCooCooMcgoo · Yesterday 12:41

This doesnt track. You absolutely would not need to take a massive forkful to try and incorporate all layers and fillings in one go.

You take a small amount of cake and adjacent filling for each layer and taste them separately.

The way she was shoveling in huge chunks each time was just stupid.

Yes, but even if you take multiple small forkfuls, they all add up! And Nigella is brand new as a judge. Even if she got advice from Paul Hollywood, or indeed Mary Berry or Prue Leith, about how to pace herself when tasting, it’s a very different experience to hosting your own cookery show. She’s a beginner judge.

Mydogisagentleman · Yesterday 18:53

I don't think that he is part of a trouble, I think he simply lives in the same house as a couple.
Dd has a friend who shared a house/rented a room from two men who were a couple. I doubt that he would have described himself as part of a thruople though

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · Yesterday 18:55

I enjoyed it but I did feel like they were playing diversity bingo a bit too hard!

Annoys me that every series lately someone who isn’t doing very well becomes “ill” and ends up going through to another week because they don’t send anyone home! A couple of them were absolute crap.

Cartouche · Yesterday 19:45

Mydogisagentleman · Yesterday 18:53

I don't think that he is part of a trouble, I think he simply lives in the same house as a couple.
Dd has a friend who shared a house/rented a room from two men who were a couple. I doubt that he would have described himself as part of a thruople though

But I’m pretty sure the voiceover said he ‘lives with his partners X and Y and their dogs.’

likelysuspect · Yesterday 19:49

All the people being so ok with the throuple thing, Im sure you would be as well if it was 'he lives at home with his 2 girlfriends'?

You'd be happy to explain to your daughter that just like some people have 2 daddies, well some men have 2 girlfriends. You might be lucky enough to meet such a man one day dear.

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · Yesterday 20:20

Cartouche · Yesterday 19:45

But I’m pretty sure the voiceover said he ‘lives with his partners X and Y and their dogs.’

I went back to check yesterday after someone mentioned this at work - definitely in a throuple

AllIwantForChrismasIsAKitchenAidStandMixer · Yesterday 20:23

likelysuspect · Yesterday 19:49

All the people being so ok with the throuple thing, Im sure you would be as well if it was 'he lives at home with his 2 girlfriends'?

You'd be happy to explain to your daughter that just like some people have 2 daddies, well some men have 2 girlfriends. You might be lucky enough to meet such a man one day dear.

I don’t care too much if someone wants to be in a throuple although it’s not for me and I don’t understand it. I think it’s odd when two of the people are married and there is then a third “partner” and I find it far less uncomfortable than people being in couples but have multiple other casual partners who aren’t anything to do with their spouse on the side, that’s weird to me.

tommyhoundmum · Yesterday 20:35

VickyEadie · 23/09/2026 12:34

I do like Nigella as a judge - and how even the young gay fella is flirting with her!

I remember when she was the literary reviewer in the Sunday Times. So sad about John Diamond her husband who died young.

Sbmpp · Yesterday 20:50

Here in the US it’s not on yet.

Sbmpp · Yesterday 20:52

Sorry, posted on wrong site.

FuzzySlippers · Yesterday 21:01

I love Nigella she is very intelligent, and she knows so much about food- I just hope she still gets to be herself as a presenter on the show.
I watched it specially to see her on it- don’t normally watch it at all so that’s one extra viewer they have now thanks to her.

I was gutted too for the woman who used the wheelchair. Gutted again how everyone let her say she was going to be positive after this shit thing happened. As if it was just random chance.

Actually, I would have had a massive word with channel 4 and the production company over this, had this been me in her situation.

If an oven door tips down past the horizontal such that burning hot food can just slide out- which she had commented on- and if you are a wheelchair user and can’t quickly move your legs out of the way, then that’s bloody dangerous. So I hope she sues them so that people running shows will think more carefully about putting in equal safety needs for disabled people.

LindorDoubleChoc · Yesterday 21:37

Mydogisagentleman · Yesterday 18:53

I don't think that he is part of a trouble, I think he simply lives in the same house as a couple.
Dd has a friend who shared a house/rented a room from two men who were a couple. I doubt that he would have described himself as part of a thruople though

Oh bless.

Cartouche · Yesterday 23:19

likelysuspect · Yesterday 19:49

All the people being so ok with the throuple thing, Im sure you would be as well if it was 'he lives at home with his 2 girlfriends'?

You'd be happy to explain to your daughter that just like some people have 2 daddies, well some men have 2 girlfriends. You might be lucky enough to meet such a man one day dear.

You get that they do come in other configurations, right? Like the guy in GBBO is in an all-male throuple? All-female ones also possible, likewise one woman, two men? And if a guy is in a throuple, regardless of the sex of the others, he doesn’t have any more status than anyone else in it.

pineapplecrushed · Yesterday 23:42

RachelGreep87 · 23/09/2026 22:03

Ah yes, a polygamous relationship has the homophobes frothing.

it's bullshit. Throughout time immemorial there are people who love attention. They will gravitate to whatever trend du jour will give them it. A throuple isn't something any significant amount of people are doing. It doesn't need 'representation'. This latest cohort are the least representative of the population. Like all reality shows, once people cotton on it's a spirigboard for fame, all the usuals come out.

pineapplecrushed · Yesterday 23:45

User76443998 · 23/09/2026 22:12

The sole reason I’m not watching this series with my pre teen. I don’t want to explain thrupples. Ffs. How is that something that’s “mainstream” enough to be shown on a baking programme.

”Dawn is 37 and lives with her partner Chris. When she’s not working as an accountant, they both enjoy gardening and swinging.”

”Charlie is 59 and from Swindon. They live with their partner Bucky, a retired race horse.”

It’s so not ok for a show at 8pm to have “drag man lives in a thrupple with Percy and Pippin” (or whatever they’re called). How is that appropriate for a pre watershed programme. Who wants to explain THRUPPLES to their children?!

Agree. just disappointing. I just want....to watch baking? Society doesn't need to normalise thrupples ffs. And are drag queens not over yet?

pineapplecrushed · Yesterday 23:49

Cartouche · Yesterday 10:03

Well, that was the attitude to gay relationships not very long ago. Only a fairly small minority of people are gay, yet thankfully we’ve moved past the stage in institutionalised homophobia as expressed in marriage laws and legislation.

I mean, I imagine very few people are in ‘official’ throuples, though a relationships counsellor friend said she’s had an uptake in them coming to see her over the past few years (and in a small Irish city, not LA or somewhere) but I’m not sure its rarity is problematic in itself, is it?

no. There aren't loads of people secretly in throuples. You're being ridiculous.

Cartouche · Yesterday 23:51

pineapplecrushed · Yesterday 23:49

no. There aren't loads of people secretly in throuples. You're being ridiculous.

And you are misreading. The discussion was about ‘normalising’ throuples being a bad thing.

pineapplecrushed · Yesterday 23:51

TheEasterPangolin · Yesterday 11:12

‘You’re perfectly entitled to not watch but doing so because “DEI!!!!” Is just ridiculous. Non- white contestants, gay contestants, disabled contestants, ND contestants have been part of the Bake Off fold since it started. Because it reflects the society we live in. Shock horror, not just middle aged women and young middle class girls bake!’

My gripe is that baking ability should come first, what with it being called ‘Bake Off’. To me it looks like they’re more concerned with putting together a rounded mix of society, before looking at contestants baking skill and experience. The last few years the standard has got steadily lower. I know it’s not just white middle age and young women who bake, but some of the contestants shouldn’t have made it past the auditions.

the contestants do not represent society as most people in society are not those things. They have gone out of their way to get people who are in no way the norm and it's tiresome.

pineapplecrushed · Yesterday 23:54

ohthesuspense · Yesterday 11:21

Who shouldn’t have been there?
Do you think of there hadn’t been a drag Queen in a thrupple you’d have been able to cope?

Not attention seekers? people who enjoy baking and don't want to be a star? Contestants who actually represent most people?

LoafofSellotape · Yesterday 23:55

Thisusernameisalwaysavailable · 23/09/2026 20:43

I dislike her as judge for her GID AWFUL MANNERS.

taking massive bits of cake and cramming them in... Just fucking eat politely woman.

I'd have been asked to leave the table as a child if I'd shoved the spoon in my mouth like that! It was like she was taking the food with her teeth, very odd.

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nomas · 23/09/2026 12:26

I haven’t seen it but I would be more irritated that someone has dropped their cake. They’ve got one job!

Ir is that it was a slithery mess and glooped to on the floor?

I love your verb 'glooped'