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To absolutely hate this government, and what they are doing to our country? PART 2

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CoventryCity · Yesterday 10:14

A continuation of Thread 1.

Strong words but is is how I feel at this point in time. All of them make me feel physically sick. Why? Well many reasons.. Here are just two.

Eg. They won't release sex crime statistics of immigrants / asylum seekers. Why? Other European countries have done, and it is not pretty. Our gvt gives out a leaflet asking them not to rape the locals. Why? Our gvt has said they won't house asylum seekers next to schools and nurseries, why?

Eg. UK now spends more on benefits than it earns in income tax. Labour have increased this - not reduced it. Astonishing. As they say - "Who can we tax in order to pay benefits to others?" That's Labour's Welfare Secretary. He's describing the priorities of Labour MPs.

In the last financial year, the UK government brought in £331 billion in income tax — and spent even more, £333 billion, on welfare, according to the Office for Budget Responsibility's latest economic and fiscal outlook (obr.uk/efo/economic-and-fiscal-outlook-march-2026/#chapter-6).

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CoventryCity · Yesterday 15:39

Mouldemort · Yesterday 15:00

@CoventryCity

Your sources are all right-wing agitators with an agenda. They are entirely unreliable. I've provided evidence that foreign nationals are not more likely to be convicted of crimes from a neutral source.

I'll give you another chance: will you condemn those for whom we have actual data: the racists nonces who are rioiting against asylum seekers?

Do you acknowledge that net migration is going down?

Ah I see. You don't like the data so you say it's an agenda. Left wing are consistent for sure.

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angelos02 · Yesterday 15:41

smallglassbottle · Yesterday 15:39

You don't pay money into a state pension. The money taken from earnings is used to pay for current pensioners. It's not a savings or investment scheme. There is no ring fenced pot for you.

Sorry - I meant paying into my private pension.

CoventryCity · Yesterday 15:42

RedTagAlan · Yesterday 15:19

The Irony here. Someone talks about their husband not hitting them. @cardibach explains that violence is statistically in relationships and goes on to say how they do not fear violence from asylum seekers/different races, and you reply to that by say TERRIBLE ARGUEMENT and WHATABOUT.

No wonder your last thread got full so fast. You just declared "terrible" argument without addressing a single point mentioned, and then you go to "whatabout". That is a terrible debating style, to use whataboutisms, because the original point is not being addressed at all. Whataboutism just keeps adding things, and the original point is totally lost.

I made a promise to myself years ago never to say "whatabout". I was going through something difficult, and once I made that promise, things changed. Because I had to force myself to play the ball being played, and seek data and information, to address the point. Not to deflect.

Honestly, if you are about to write "whatabout" you should really stop yourself. Stay on the subject being discussed. It really does work.

No no - you are confused. You and cardi are the whatabouters, it's draining. It helps you make your invalid points though, so we shouldn't
be surprised.

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Havanananana · Yesterday 15:44

It is as though 14 years of Conservative mismanagement never happened.

14 years in which "trickle down economics" was finally proven to be nonsense and instead money floated up and into the pockets of those who already had money with which to purchase shares and rental properties, invest in private pensions (partly paid for by taxpayers) and benefit from the inflation in property prices - all things that those with no savings, no investments, people forced to rent and people living from week to week on low incomes or on uncertain zero-hour contracts were excluded from.

10 years since the Brexit referendum in which the Leave campaign triumphed through a mix of misinformation, manipulation and straightforward lies - a success that has so far cost every person in the UK an estimated £3,000 per year. Think about it - UK residents now have £30,000 per person less than if Brexit had not happened, or £60,000 per couple. Ever felt like you've been mugged?

Not forgetting the earlier Conservative sell-off of most of the UK's vital infratructure and resources - utilities, railways, energy, prisons etc. and North Sea Oil - much of which are now owned by vulture capitalists from the USA or wealthy oligarchs from the Middle East and China. Every time you pay an electricity bill, almost half of the money goes directly into the pockets of some of the wealthiest Funds and individuals on the planet instead of being invested in improving the infrastructure and service or in lowering prices, and yet these rich shareholders and bond holders have the government over a barrel and keep insisting on more government support, loans and tax breaks or else they will allow these vital services to deteriorate even further.

notmoredirtywashing · Yesterday 15:47

@Havanananana
100%. Thankyou

EasternStandard · Yesterday 15:47

CoventryCity · Yesterday 15:42

No no - you are confused. You and cardi are the whatabouters, it's draining. It helps you make your invalid points though, so we shouldn't
be surprised.

Yes you’re right. The issue can be discussed without the usual whatabout.

givemesteel · Yesterday 15:47

5128gap · Yesterday 10:57

Don't you mean, "Of the £100, we are going to take £20. £18 of which we will use for things you need or may need in the future, such as your education, a doctor if you need one, etc. £2* of which will go to a person who doesn't work."?
If you like, you can complain that the £2 out of a hundred is unfair. The exaggeration and hyperbole weakens your point.

*The amount that goes to people judged capable of work but unemployed.

Not really. I pay 45% tax on some of my income. I pay 80% on my BTL income as I don't own them through a Ltd company.

I also pay council tax, VAT, I've paid significant stamp duty twice on the last 10 years, as well as around other duties and so on. I will definitely be paying 50% tax once you add it all up and I'm not getting that back in services.

Kirbert2 · Yesterday 15:50

Badbadbunny · Yesterday 15:08

Gov.uk website!

"there were 3.1 million people on Universal Credit in any employment (PAYE employment or self-employment) in April 2026, which was 37.7% of all people on Universal Credit."

www.gov.uk/government/statistics/universal-credit-quarterly-statistics-29-april-2013-to-14-may-2026/universal-credit-quarterly-statistics-29-april-2013-to-14-may-2026

UC is such an 'all in one' benefit that the people claiming it and not working will have many different circumstances.

5128gap · Yesterday 15:55

givemesteel · Yesterday 15:47

Not really. I pay 45% tax on some of my income. I pay 80% on my BTL income as I don't own them through a Ltd company.

I also pay council tax, VAT, I've paid significant stamp duty twice on the last 10 years, as well as around other duties and so on. I will definitely be paying 50% tax once you add it all up and I'm not getting that back in services.

Nor are you paying it all on money you work for, and nor is it all going to people who can work but don't, so its somewhat moot. And my challenge to the PP silly analogy still stands.

RedTagAlan · Yesterday 15:57

CoventryCity · Yesterday 15:42

No no - you are confused. You and cardi are the whatabouters, it's draining. It helps you make your invalid points though, so we shouldn't
be surprised.

You literarily wrote , quote ". But what about our Brians, they're just as bad! ", in a discussion about violence against women. And ended it there.

What would be the natural reply to that ? How about " What about the bairns ?"

Do you not see how that sort if discussion goes nowhere ?

And here again in your reply to me about you using whataboutism, you are just using projection and something about invalid points. Instead of addressing the subject of my post to you... about your good self using whataboutisms.

It really does help in debate. To stop using whatabout, that is.

HappiestSleeping · Yesterday 15:58

angelos02 · Yesterday 15:29

Net migration is going down as the bright, successful people are leaving. Most of the people coming in aren't. Why on earth would they. Huge difference.

True, net migration also includes those we would rather they stay, however the UK is also deporting twice as many as arrive irregularly etc etc.

The interesting thing for me is that there is no obvious solution. There isn't really a 'pull' as the reality is different from the narrative. Asylum seekers aren't given houses and loads of money. We could imprison them in fact, and it wouldn't stop the trafficking as they are being sold a dream that is not real. They are as unlikely to listen to reality as a reform voter is likely to look at factual evidence. That can be evidenced by the recent Portsmouth riots where many of those arrested were known to the police for domestic violence making them more likely to be a danger to women than the immigrants they were protesting about.

Since Brexit, we can't turn boats back in the channel (not that I would want), we don't have sufficient boats in the navy to police the channel anyway (thanks to several previous governments), and any solution requires funding which needs money to come from somewhere. Tax rises are unpopular, as are cuts to fund from elsewhere.

ilovesooty · Yesterday 16:00

RedTagAlan · Yesterday 15:57

You literarily wrote , quote ". But what about our Brians, they're just as bad! ", in a discussion about violence against women. And ended it there.

What would be the natural reply to that ? How about " What about the bairns ?"

Do you not see how that sort if discussion goes nowhere ?

And here again in your reply to me about you using whataboutism, you are just using projection and something about invalid points. Instead of addressing the subject of my post to you... about your good self using whataboutisms.

It really does help in debate. To stop using whatabout, that is.

At least you got a reply. The OP is seemingly finding all this so draining that she didn't answer my question on thread 1.

Mouldemort · Yesterday 16:03

CoventryCity · Yesterday 15:39

Ah I see. You don't like the data so you say it's an agenda. Left wing are consistent for sure.

I like the correct data from legitimate sources, properly researched, without an agenda. These sources know the answer they want and work towards them.

Just to show that you are absolutely above board or not, do you acknowledge that net migration is going down? A source you quoted says it is.

RedTagAlan · Yesterday 16:07

Wrong thread sorry. Edit .

CoventryCity · Yesterday 16:07

RedTagAlan · Yesterday 15:57

You literarily wrote , quote ". But what about our Brians, they're just as bad! ", in a discussion about violence against women. And ended it there.

What would be the natural reply to that ? How about " What about the bairns ?"

Do you not see how that sort if discussion goes nowhere ?

And here again in your reply to me about you using whataboutism, you are just using projection and something about invalid points. Instead of addressing the subject of my post to you... about your good self using whataboutisms.

It really does help in debate. To stop using whatabout, that is.

Are you serious? I was being sarcastic because that is what you and cardi were doing. And you know it. Grow up.

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EasternStandard · Yesterday 16:09

HappiestSleeping · Yesterday 15:58

True, net migration also includes those we would rather they stay, however the UK is also deporting twice as many as arrive irregularly etc etc.

The interesting thing for me is that there is no obvious solution. There isn't really a 'pull' as the reality is different from the narrative. Asylum seekers aren't given houses and loads of money. We could imprison them in fact, and it wouldn't stop the trafficking as they are being sold a dream that is not real. They are as unlikely to listen to reality as a reform voter is likely to look at factual evidence. That can be evidenced by the recent Portsmouth riots where many of those arrested were known to the police for domestic violence making them more likely to be a danger to women than the immigrants they were protesting about.

Since Brexit, we can't turn boats back in the channel (not that I would want), we don't have sufficient boats in the navy to police the channel anyway (thanks to several previous governments), and any solution requires funding which needs money to come from somewhere. Tax rises are unpopular, as are cuts to fund from elsewhere.

Brexit or not isn’t a factor, as other EU countries couldn’t just turn everyone back.

CoventryCity · Yesterday 16:10

Mouldemort · Yesterday 16:03

I like the correct data from legitimate sources, properly researched, without an agenda. These sources know the answer they want and work towards them.

Just to show that you are absolutely above board or not, do you acknowledge that net migration is going down? A source you quoted says it is.

The number of asylum seekers has gone up. Is going up each year. Labour have stopped student fraud so those numbers reduce immigration stats yes. That is in the data I provided links too. I also said it in a comment. No shocker there.

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StandFirm · Yesterday 16:11

CoventryCity · Yesterday 10:32

I agree with you on the Brexit point.

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Except Brexit really is a drain on our economy and that in turn impacts so many aspects of what we can and cannot do to fix the country. Money's got to come from somewhere, like trade. So much of our services were reliant on access to the single market and customs union (but mostly the single market). We just need to inject more oxygen into the system - by trading more! Cutting ourselves off from our biggest and closest trading partners seriously hasn't helped. The head-in-sand strategy won't make the underlying issues go away. Brexit is inherently shit and needs fixing - whether we like to talk about it or not. Take the most recent story about car parts and whether manufactured parts from the UK can be sold and assembled in the EU. Losing that status would be another negative consequence of Brexit. Sure, the government will rightly argue against it and hopefully some solution will be worked out but the fact remains that we wouldn't even be having that conversation if we'd stayed in the EU. Brexit is, and has always been, a total con.

binofbags · Yesterday 16:12

angelos02 · Yesterday 15:27

I probably am catastrophising. But I just wouldn't put anything past them. They don't seem to be in a hurry to resolve fiscal drag. The salary for going into the higher rate of tax should be about £70k due to inflation but it is about £50k!

Who froze the tax bands?

StandFirm · Yesterday 16:14

Who froze the tax bands? The Tories
Who brought about and implemented Brexit? The Tories
Austerity? The Tories
The 'Boris' immigration wave? The Tories

binofbags · Yesterday 16:14

@StandFirm weird how the narrative is the Tories don’t raise taxes

CoventryCity · Yesterday 16:14

EasternStandard · Yesterday 16:09

Brexit or not isn’t a factor, as other EU countries couldn’t just turn everyone back.

Exactly. Why people keep going on about Brexit impact on immigration is peculiar. Most of Western Europe has a mass immigration problem.

For example (there is much more - Italy, Greece, Germany, Spain, UK - if we could see the UK data that is)

Sweden https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2025/01/18/nearly-two-thirds-convicted-rapists-sweden-migrants/

Norway https://norwaynews.com/norways-asylum-seeker-rape-epidemic-continues-to-spread/

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Norway’s asylum seeker rape epidemic continues to spread

There have been twice as many rapes committed in Oslo so far this year as in the whole of 2010, nearly all of them by immigrants, Oslo Police statistics have revealed. Of the 48 rapes committed in the city in 2011, a suspected 45 are from people of a ‘...

https://norwaynews.com/norways-asylum-seeker-rape-epidemic-continues-to-spread/

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HappiestSleeping · Yesterday 16:20

EasternStandard · Yesterday 16:09

Brexit or not isn’t a factor, as other EU countries couldn’t just turn everyone back.

Brexit is definitely a factor for irregular immigration as the statistics show. Numbers increased when the French stopped doing anything their side. Also, Boris (I think it was Boris, so many of them have introduced stupid things, it is hard to recall which particular idiot introduced which stupid thing) decided it would be a good thing to change the law so that you have to be on UK soil before you can apply for asylum. That one isn't Brexit related, but it is government stupidity.

I think the difficulty is that everyone seems to lump together asylum seekers / irregular migrants / illegal migrants and yet they are all tracked and handled differently, and with greater or lesser levels of success.

CoventryCity · Yesterday 16:21

https://archive.ph/pYGzn

Nearly two thirds of convicted rapists in Sweden are migrants or second generation immigrants

Researchers at Lund University found that 63 per cent of convictions for rape or attempted rape were handed down to people born abroad, or whose parents were born abroad.

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HappiestSleeping · Yesterday 16:22

CoventryCity · Yesterday 16:14

Exactly. Why people keep going on about Brexit impact on immigration is peculiar. Most of Western Europe has a mass immigration problem.

For example (there is much more - Italy, Greece, Germany, Spain, UK - if we could see the UK data that is)

Sweden https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2025/01/18/nearly-two-thirds-convicted-rapists-sweden-migrants/

Norway https://norwaynews.com/norways-asylum-seeker-rape-epidemic-continues-to-spread/

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Pre Brexit we had an amount of immigration. Post Brexit that amount increased. As a direct result of Brexit. That's why people mention it as a factor. Because it is. Is it the only factor? No. Is it a significant factor? Yes.

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