AIBU to feel angry after my ex took the car back?

[Walkerss]

So 3 years ago my ex left me for somebody else, I have finally got to a place where I am happy, the kids are happy and all is going well.

when we were a couple we made an agreement that I would pay nursery fees and he would pay the finance on my car. Obviously since the split there have been constant threats to take the car and last night he turned up and demanded the keys. I gave them to him and instantly felt relieved that he didn’t have anything else on me. However school is quite a drive away since I moved area and I told him I wouldn’t be able to take them to school. His response was, not my problem, I can take them on my days so it’s nothing to do with him.

how can he be so evil?! At least warn me so I had time to get a car. I hate him!

You can be bored all you want...
I'm bored of the constant threads where women make dire choices and pick absolute twats as fathers and then complain when they are still twats!

They see red flag after red flag and still decide to have kids with them. They bare some of the blame!

Well aren’t you a delight

I agree tbh. Not saying all women are to blame, but a large majority do need to take accountability for the choices they make, and the red flags they choose to ignore. Who you choose to have children with is the biggest decision you could possibly make in your life.

I disagree with you. Nothing can prepare you for how you will take to being a parent

You'd put someone else's children's needs above your own?

Therr isn't a dick in the world marvellous enough for me to disadvantage my own children for others. And, I'm eternally grateful the type of men with these mindsets have never found me.

I know!!! Honestly can’t believe some of the comments I’m reading.

and I have found out that his current partner has insured the car as she obviously needed it.

Where in my post did I say that at all? These are the reasons he can make a successful application for reduced CMS. Didn't say I agreed with it. I was also accurate in why he took the car.

The car is his regardless because the payments were made by him. My ex tried to claim my car was his because he drove it. I paid for it and the V5 plus insurance were all in my name, didn't stop him trying to claim it was his because he drove it. His V5 registered car was also mine. I paid for it and the insurance payments. Damn right I kept both cars.

Again you just want to slag off anyone who disagrees with you. There was nothing unbelievable in my post.

Strange you found out who insured the car. That is not publicly available information. Has he sent you a message to specifically tell you that when it is none of your business?

But he’s obviously going to prioritise his new partner. After 3 years, he doesn’t owe you anything. It sounds like you’ve got trouble adjusting and I mean that in the nicest way possible

Christ, you sound like such a nightmare.

I'm glad to be wrong in my interpretation of your questions👍🏾.

And you sound like a deadbeat father