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to think that actually, no "everyone" does NOT unpack on holiday!

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PyongyangKipperbang · 14/08/2026 23:48

My sister and I have very different views on this!

She and I have gone away many times, always for a week.

She always spends a good hour or so unpacking, setting stuff out etc on arrival and then a couple of hours repacking before we leave. I just live out of my bag/case and dirty clothes folded into a plastic bag when I take them off to chuck back in the case at the end of the week. Repacking takes less than half an hour. The only item I unpack is my "going out" dress, of which I only take one.

She thinks I am abnormal as "everyone unpacks!" I think its probably more like a 50/50 split and when you only have a week, time is of the essence so I prefer to use the time to holiday (made up verb of the week) than fanny about putting my knickers and socks in a drawer!

YABU - I unpack!
YANBU - I live out of my case!

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Natsku · 16/08/2026 09:15

I live out of my suitcase. I was on holiday for nearly 4 weeks this summer, still didn't 'unpack'. But tbf there was nowhere to put clothes if I did anyway, as I was staying in my parents spare room and the wardrobe was entirely filled with my dad's jackets (as are several other wardrobes. He has a problem...). I feel like if I unpack I'm more likely to forget something when going home.

liveforsummer · 16/08/2026 12:47

It really depends on many factors and I do both. Sometimes unpack, sometimes cba. Might depend on length of stay, storage in accommodation, weather in destination/clothes needed

Sennelier1 · 16/08/2026 14:25

I'm tidy and organised but I rarely stay in a place where I feel comfortable putting my belongings in the drawers and cupboards. My luggage is in packing cubes, what makes it very easy to live out of my suitcase. I do unpack my toiletries and my "going-out-dress".

CelestialCandyfloss · 16/08/2026 17:08

How on earth does it take your sister an hour to unpack for a week's holiday?! 😂 how much stuff is she taking ?? I hate leaving it all in the case it's horrible so I am definitely Team unpack. Or you could choose the other option my daughter has settled for, where she opens her case and throws everything all over the hotel room floor 😒

PyongyangKipperbang · 16/08/2026 17:47

how much stuff is she taking ??

LOTS!!

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JustGiveMeReason · 16/08/2026 17:58

BlackCat14 · 16/08/2026 08:59

I mainly use the drawers… swimming costumes in one, underwear in another, pjs in another etc etc

How is that better than packing cubes ?

JustGiveMeReason · 16/08/2026 18:02

FlipFlopVibe · 16/08/2026 07:12

I’m really surprised how many don’t unpack! I’d absolutely hate dragging a suitcase out every day. I have joint issues though so it’s more hassle for me and could leave me in pain. I couldn’t leave the suitcase in the way either as it will remind me of heading home. Everything would have a musty smell too. Especially as cases can get damp in the plane hold. Urgh no. Unpack immediately. I even unpack in a Premier Inn for the night!

I’d absolutely hate dragging a suitcase out every day

Dragging it out from where ? Confused Depending on the room it is either on the floor or one one of those stand things for putting your suitcase on.

Everything would have a musty smell too.

Eh ? Never in my life has anything gone 'musty' in a suitcase.

Especially as cases can get damp in the plane hold

I've been on a lot of planes in my life - long haul as well as short haul, scheduled flights as well as package holidays - and this is not a phenomenon I have ever come across. Which company are you flying with ?

FlipFlopVibe · 16/08/2026 18:19

JustGiveMeReason · 16/08/2026 18:02

I’d absolutely hate dragging a suitcase out every day

Dragging it out from where ? Confused Depending on the room it is either on the floor or one one of those stand things for putting your suitcase on.

Everything would have a musty smell too.

Eh ? Never in my life has anything gone 'musty' in a suitcase.

Especially as cases can get damp in the plane hold

I've been on a lot of planes in my life - long haul as well as short haul, scheduled flights as well as package holidays - and this is not a phenomenon I have ever come across. Which company are you flying with ?

When you have three large suitcases they can’t just be left out, we’d all be tripping over and the kids would be dragging each other round in them. We stay in studio hotel rooms not villas or apartments, there’s no room for several cases. We put them in the wardrobe and under the beds.

In relation to the musty smell, one of our material cases has several times been sat waiting to go into the hold and it’s chucking it down and they don’t cover the cases so the ones on top get wet. They were still damp on arrival. Ours are stored in a loft at home too so the less time our clothes are in there the better for me, if I’ve stood and ironed for several hours before we left I’m getting it all hung up asap!

lilkitten · 16/08/2026 19:36

I like to unpack and make a hotel feel more homely. And all my toiletries around the sink etc. I hang all the clothes up, and dirty clothes go straight into the suitcase so I know which is which.

Auburngal · 16/08/2026 21:40

11811B · 15/08/2026 21:28

I've always found it really odd to have drawers. I do hang some stuff like coats up so I get the wardrobe

I stayed in one hotel where there were no shelves or drawers. Things like my medication and undies, it’s best to put them on one of these. There was one ‘shelf’ the top of the in room safe

CosyFanTucci · 16/08/2026 21:51

I hang whatever needs to hang. But I don't put things in drawers etc as I'm paranoid about bugs infiltrating my things. I'm very careful where I put my clothes and suitcase.

BlackCat14 · 16/08/2026 22:20

JustGiveMeReason · 16/08/2026 17:58

How is that better than packing cubes ?

I didn’t say it was. I just don’t own any packing cubes.

Ouiouimerci · 16/08/2026 23:23

ThinKingCaps5 · 15/08/2026 23:10

You and me both, I'm the soul of the party on holiday... tell anyone off who leaves anything on the beds, suitcases go in bathroom only, nothing gets unpacked and i quarantine things when I come back. We usually stay in airbnbs and all the crockery gets put in the dishwasher when we arrive. I also take own towels as feel so icky using the ones provided.

We go away next week, husband and kids are so excited, my anxiety has just been gradually ramping up. It sucks.

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Solidarity! Even after our bed bug (suspected from hotel) issue my DH still puts his bag on beds and laughs at me thinking I’m being OTT to care.

Fiftyandme · 17/08/2026 08:54

She’s very fucking rude and narrow minded to tell you you’re abnormal just because her way of doing something is different to yours.

I can’t stand people who do this.

Daftypants · 17/08/2026 17:17

I unpack , but it only takes a short time , not an hour 😂
And that includes unpacking kitchen items we brought along and the dogs bed / bowls / food / toys etc
My youngest lives out of their suitcase so the room ends up a mess by the end of the holiday.

PyongyangKipperbang · 17/08/2026 17:18

Fiftyandme · 17/08/2026 08:54

She’s very fucking rude and narrow minded to tell you you’re abnormal just because her way of doing something is different to yours.

I can’t stand people who do this.

She is not rude at all, like i say it is a good natured disagreement between us!

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PeachyPeachTrees · 17/08/2026 19:19

I unpack a few things, but mostly just take out stuff when I need it.

AnnoyedAsAllHeck · 18/08/2026 09:11

ThinKingCaps5 · 15/08/2026 23:10

You and me both, I'm the soul of the party on holiday... tell anyone off who leaves anything on the beds, suitcases go in bathroom only, nothing gets unpacked and i quarantine things when I come back. We usually stay in airbnbs and all the crockery gets put in the dishwasher when we arrive. I also take own towels as feel so icky using the ones provided.

We go away next week, husband and kids are so excited, my anxiety has just been gradually ramping up. It sucks.

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I hope you have a nice vacation and get a chance to relax.

pregnantprayingmantis · 22/08/2026 00:22

Oh gosh reading the bedbug horror stories I’m rethinking unpacking on my next trip!

ChristmasCwtch · 22/08/2026 03:30

It’s fascinating that so many people don’t unpack!!

I unpack everything, even if it’s just one night. I like being organised and feeling a sense of belonging in the room 😂

It sounds chaotic scrabbling around to find things in a packed bag.

We just had connecting rooms with our friends (another family) on holiday. Their room was really untidy!! I like everything in its place and their room would have annoyed me if I’d slept in it.

P.s. I’m off to research how to check for bedbugs before unpacking!! That would be worse than a messy suitcase.

StarlightLady · 22/08/2026 05:33

I travel a lot for work. I unpack. Everything has its place and it’s easier and quicker to find things. I hate rummaging through a bag to find what l want to wear, search for particular makeup items, the right bra for the right top etc.

A little aside, when you get to your accommodation, turn the lights on! I once came back to my hotel at around 11:00pm to discover the room had no power. I had to go to reception and get moved to another floor.

sugarandcyanide · 22/08/2026 08:11

I had the same conversation with my mum, she couldn't believe we don't unpack. If I unpacked I'd end up leaving stuff behind.

To be fair we rarely stay in one place for the entire holiday so there's no point unpacking and repacking every few days.

StarlightLady · 22/08/2026 11:42

sugarandcyanide · 22/08/2026 08:11

I had the same conversation with my mum, she couldn't believe we don't unpack. If I unpacked I'd end up leaving stuff behind.

To be fair we rarely stay in one place for the entire holiday so there's no point unpacking and repacking every few days.

I often move around too. In which case l unpack the number of things l think l need. I like to be able to open a drawer or a wardrobe and choose from what is there. And in the case of dresses, with minimum creases.

Auburngal · 25/08/2026 07:08

When packing to leave a hotel to go to another hotel early evening. I pack stuff in my hand luggage bag, the last minute stuff - toothpaste and brush, sun cream. As sometimes our cases are taken to load onto the coach 30-45 minutes earlier.

Obviously don’t do this on the day we fly home. As not all airports have those scanners that can handle larger containers of liquids

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