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to think that actually, no "everyone" does NOT unpack on holiday!

256 replies

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 23:48

My sister and I have very different views on this!

She and I have gone away many times, always for a week.

She always spends a good hour or so unpacking, setting stuff out etc on arrival and then a couple of hours repacking before we leave. I just live out of my bag/case and dirty clothes folded into a plastic bag when I take them off to chuck back in the case at the end of the week. Repacking takes less than half an hour. The only item I unpack is my "going out" dress, of which I only take one.

She thinks I am abnormal as "everyone unpacks!" I think its probably more like a 50/50 split and when you only have a week, time is of the essence so I prefer to use the time to holiday (made up verb of the week) than fanny about putting my knickers and socks in a drawer!

YABU - I unpack!
YANBU - I live out of my case!

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GoldenSandy · Today 09:24

LemonSnail · Today 09:20

I unpack unless it’s for example one night in a hotel before a cruise.

I did a five center holiday last year where I lived out of the case and I didn’t like that aspect of the trip.

Where do you all keep you full suitcases?

We have a dedicated backpack with the night before bits. Definitely couldn't be rooting through suitcase if it's just the hotel night before a trip!

StripyHorse · Today 09:25

I would say I am like you, but this year I found a 3rd way. I have now been converted to packing cubes.

I do usually get frustrated with how messy my case gets after a few days, especially when I find myself rooting through to find something small but essential.

With packing cubes, everything was grouped and enclosed. I did take them out of the case and put them on the shelves in the wardrobe but this was a 30 second job. I knew exactly where to look for what I needed - and repacking was still as quick as I just needed to throw half a dozen 'packs' back in the case.

Soontobe60 · Today 09:26

I wouldn’t unpack on a road trip but would if only staying in one hotel. I also use packing cubes so things like underwear stay in the cube and get put in a drawer. Most clothes get hung up - takes 5 minutes max! Toiletries go on a foldable hanging bag to hook on the bathroom door and dirty clothes get sorted into 2 empty packing cubes so can be chucked straight into the washing machine when we get home. It’s a bonus if there’re laundry facilities available as I then wash everything and take it home clean. 😂😂
DH would live out of his suitcase if he were alone, but as I can’t relax when the hotel room is messy he does unpack like me.

LoafofSellotape · Today 09:26

ToffeePennie · Today 00:13

I have never not unpacked. Personally I think it’s really gross and unhygienic to have dirty clothes on top of clean ones, even if they are in a plastic bag (what happens if your knickers spill out the bag??) and I also think it’s really useful to see what you have actually got, as opposed to living like a toddler out of a spare clothes backpack.
I also pack “outfits” and a mix and match of capsule items (for example our last holiday; I took several pairs of shorts with T-shirts that could be mix and match, 4 dresses for the evenings and a selection of swimsuits, packed for each day with shorts & tshirt, a dress, a swim suit and 1 of 2 kaftans)
I also can’t stand suitcases cluttering up the space and need the room to relax, so I unpack and stow them under the bed/top of then wardrobe.

I wouldn't mix dirty with clean clothes,dirty ones go in a bag separately.

What do you think happens if worn knickers touch clean clothes?

WigglyBeanstalk · Today 09:31

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 23:59

She is a naturally tidy organised person. I very much am not, so I wonder if there is a link there!3

I think it comes down to whether you are able to deal with chaos or not. I am quite proud of the fact that I'm totally unbothered (made up word maybe) by chaos and can still think clearly when everything isn't orderly.
I don't unpack just hang up the odd dress so it doesn't look like a fish supper when I want to wear it. Job done😀

AlwaysExtraHot · Today 09:32

LoafofSellotape · Today 09:26

I wouldn't mix dirty with clean clothes,dirty ones go in a bag separately.

What do you think happens if worn knickers touch clean clothes?

Edited

What do you think happens if worn knickers touch clean clothes?
I've been wondering/asking this too.

Cherrytree86 · Today 09:32

I wouldn’t wanna waste three hours of my precious holiday packing and unpacking

AlwaysExtraHot · Today 09:33

WigglyBeanstalk · Today 09:31

I think it comes down to whether you are able to deal with chaos or not. I am quite proud of the fact that I'm totally unbothered (made up word maybe) by chaos and can still think clearly when everything isn't orderly.
I don't unpack just hang up the odd dress so it doesn't look like a fish supper when I want to wear it. Job done😀

I really don't see getting a few items out of a case as 'chaos'.
Maybe that's precisely my issue though Grin

Cherrytree86 · Today 09:34

AlwaysExtraHot · Today 09:32

What do you think happens if worn knickers touch clean clothes?
I've been wondering/asking this too.

They would be contaminated

Menopausalmoan · Today 09:34

I unpack clothes that will wrinkle other than that I just keep swimwear, towels and undies in one suitcase. Anything dirty goes into the other suitcases so there is little to pack at the end of the holiday 😃 I pack enough so clothes aren’t worn twice so this works well for us. I wash everything when I get home even if it’s not worn so I’m not worried about mixing the clean and dirty when we start using the “drawer suitcase”

AlwaysExtraHot · Today 09:35

Cherrytree86 · Today 09:34

They would be contaminated

Sounds dreadful

Oscillating · Today 09:37

Unpacked.

Dirty clothes get put in suitcase

MrsClattenburg · Today 09:38

When we used to go camping for 2 weeks, we'd take a clothes rail, put it together and hang our clothes up for the fortnight. We'd also have one of those IKEA things that hang on a rail so you can put folded clothes in it.

I am most definitely an unpacker! 😂

Hayley1256 · Today 09:50

I always unpack, it doesn't take that long though and I do for me DP and DD. I feel it just sets me up nicely for the holiday.**

beigetriangle · Today 09:55

I don't unpack. it's such a faff I can't be arsed with. I'm on HOLIDAY.
exception maybe toiletries.
we take a couple of large shopping bags for dirty laundry.

Pedant61 · Today 09:57

Always unpack and then stash the bags away out of sight.... I want to enjoy the expensive room that I've booked, not have it looking tatty! If we're touring via several places, I probably wbother for one night, though.

Rewis · Today 09:57

In geberal I am a living out of the suitcase person. However, since I've started to travel with my personal item only or I share a luggage with my bf (ain't paying for 2) I occasionally unpack cause I don't want our stuff to mix. I've never traveled with anyone that unpacked their suitcase.

Elsvieta · Today 10:00

Unpack, but it takes five minutes, not an hour. What on earth is she fancying about with?

Suitcase open, then at the end of the day fold dirty underwear inside that day's dirty top and put it in. On the last day chuck in toiletry bag, medications etc and off you go.

Pedant61 · Today 10:07

TheBirdintheCave · Today 08:10

The thought of sending laundry out frightens me. How do you know what temperature they will wash things on? How will they dry them? So many of our (generally my husbands…) clothes must be washed at 30C and not tumble dried or else they will shrink 😬

Much easier to do it myself… though I still managed to dye a bunch of socks turquoise on our last holiday. Thank goodness for some emergency laundry bleach I found at the supermarket 😆

Oh I love hotel laundry! Quick to put in a bag with a list, then it comes back beautifully ironed or folded the next day. It probably cheaper to buy new clothes, tbh, but it's such a treat, and also means you don't need to take as much stuff with you.

BusyRascal1 · Today 10:08

I unpack then use my empty suitcase as the dirty laundry basket.

sugarapplelane · Today 10:16

I’ve always unpacked. It’s the first thing we all do when arriving at our accommodation. Makes the room tidier and I feel more relaxed because of it.

TheyGrewUp · Today 10:19

MolkosTeenageAngst · Today 00:06

Yes, this! I don’t unpack but nothing stays in my case for long either, inevitably one of the first things I want is right at the bottom of the case and I end up having to pull everything out whilst looking for it and end up living out of a jumbled mess on the floor.

That would be my idea of hell and I would spend the holiday extremely stressed and unable to sleep.

If things aren't hung, they must crease. Unpscking takes me 5 to 10 minutes. Rifling through a jumbly case would take longer, surely.

The case(s) are for dirty clothes - obvs in laundry bags - one for lights, one for coloureds, two for darks.

bocketyaulbag · Today 10:21

Unpack for longer than 1 to 2 nights. But it doesn't take an hour to unpack! More like ten minutes.

Venusunbroken · Today 10:23

I’m unpack and hang clothes up and make up and toiletries in the bathroom, even if just staying the night with a friend. My husband if staying a night or two leaves his stuff in the case, I often unpack for him or I’m tripping over the case and get irritated, he also slings his dirty clothes on top of it. It’s annoying.

on holiday though, he always unpacks, as do I.

GeographicBox · Today 10:25

I always unpack when we arrive somewhere. Even when backpacking and moving around a lot, I’d still unpack the stuff I’d need for that part of my trip.

I don’t “repack” though. I usually leave the suitcase open and put laundry in there as I go. Everything else gets shoved in when we leave.