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to think that actually, no "everyone" does NOT unpack on holiday!

240 replies

PyongyangKipperbang · Yesterday 23:48

My sister and I have very different views on this!

She and I have gone away many times, always for a week.

She always spends a good hour or so unpacking, setting stuff out etc on arrival and then a couple of hours repacking before we leave. I just live out of my bag/case and dirty clothes folded into a plastic bag when I take them off to chuck back in the case at the end of the week. Repacking takes less than half an hour. The only item I unpack is my "going out" dress, of which I only take one.

She thinks I am abnormal as "everyone unpacks!" I think its probably more like a 50/50 split and when you only have a week, time is of the essence so I prefer to use the time to holiday (made up verb of the week) than fanny about putting my knickers and socks in a drawer!

YABU - I unpack!
YANBU - I live out of my case!

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Bridesmaidorexfriend · Today 00:11

I unpack most of the time but if I’m honest it mainly because my DW is an unpacker. I’d probably unpack a lot less if it was just me. It depends on how long I’m there for though and how much space there is. It’s quite nice to unpack and then put your suitcase away

Gateappreciation · Today 00:13

For a week, I’d unpack, but it wouldn’t take an hour. For one or two nights, I’d live out of my bag.

ToffeePennie · Today 00:13

I have never not unpacked. Personally I think it’s really gross and unhygienic to have dirty clothes on top of clean ones, even if they are in a plastic bag (what happens if your knickers spill out the bag??) and I also think it’s really useful to see what you have actually got, as opposed to living like a toddler out of a spare clothes backpack.
I also pack “outfits” and a mix and match of capsule items (for example our last holiday; I took several pairs of shorts with T-shirts that could be mix and match, 4 dresses for the evenings and a selection of swimsuits, packed for each day with shorts & tshirt, a dress, a swim suit and 1 of 2 kaftans)
I also can’t stand suitcases cluttering up the space and need the room to relax, so I unpack and stow them under the bed/top of then wardrobe.

Platypusdiver · Today 00:16

For a week, I’d unpack, but it wouldn’t take an hour. For one or two nights, I’d live out of my bag.

Yes. Length of the stay determines whether to unpack or not.

BestZebbie · Today 00:16

If I unpacked I would then lose some of my possessions every trip by leaving them in a drawer, or waste huge amounts of time checking and rechecking every drawer on departure. Easier to keep everything as contained as possible in the suitcase, bedside table, sink and kettle areas.

5foot5 · Today 00:18

TomBaileysFlyingGoggles · Today 00:02

I have been converted to packing cubes so I just lift them out. I hang my dresses/creasable items but everything else is in cube. Dirty clothes go into laundry cube

This!

Packing cubes are brilliant.

Although if I was staying somewhere for a week I probably would unpack. Mostly. How on Earth does it take her an hour? The mind boggles.

On some of our recent holidays we have been moving on every 2 or 3 days so the packing cubes really come in to their own. Just lift out the ones required rather than unpacking the whole case.

Our most recent holiday (China) we were moving on every other day and, as we were traveling by train, we had packed fairly light so organisation was the key and packing cubes definitely helped with that.

RitaIncognita · Today 00:18

I unpack. It doesn't take that long. I also don't need to spend much time repacking to leave. One reason I like to unpack is that I like to hang some items up to minimize creasing.

I have never liked living out of a suitcase.

PeloMom · Today 00:20

I’ve done both. Depends on my mood. I’d say more than 50% of the time I don’t unpack

Ozozozie · Today 00:22

My son is back from Australia after 2 years just for a brief visit! His revamped room is a floordrobe !

biggestcatmom · Today 00:26

Any1ForTennis · Yesterday 23:57

When I'm packing, I pack whole outfits together.

E g lay shorts on bed, add matching top, knickers and bra. Fold shorts over creating a little outfit burrito 😳.

I unpack all the bundles into a stack in the wardrobe, hang up my evening dresses and thats it.

My DH unpacks properly, takes him ages 😆.

Do you take a bra for every outfit?

PyongyangKipperbang · Today 00:26

ToffeePennie · Today 00:13

I have never not unpacked. Personally I think it’s really gross and unhygienic to have dirty clothes on top of clean ones, even if they are in a plastic bag (what happens if your knickers spill out the bag??) and I also think it’s really useful to see what you have actually got, as opposed to living like a toddler out of a spare clothes backpack.
I also pack “outfits” and a mix and match of capsule items (for example our last holiday; I took several pairs of shorts with T-shirts that could be mix and match, 4 dresses for the evenings and a selection of swimsuits, packed for each day with shorts & tshirt, a dress, a swim suit and 1 of 2 kaftans)
I also can’t stand suitcases cluttering up the space and need the room to relax, so I unpack and stow them under the bed/top of then wardrobe.

The dirty clothes bag lives on the floor and only goes back in at the end of the stay.

I dont see the issue personally!

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MsGreying · Today 00:26

I don't unpack very often and can instantly turn the room into a pig sty within a minute of opening the door.

Ramblingaway · Today 00:27

I don't unpack, but I do pack to go home 😂. All dirty stuff goes in one case, sorted as whites, colours and blacks, ready for three washing loads when I get home. Clearly I'm mad.

Crikeyalmighty · Today 00:30

I unpack if it’s more than 2 nights

PrincessFairyWren · Today 00:31

I don’t unpack myself. However I go on holiday to relax and recharge my battery. If unpacking gets her into the zone and living out of a suitcase stresses her out let her be.

when I book into a hotel I like to walk around and check out the bar, pool and other amenities so I understand the layout of the building. Makes me feel more comfortable and I know others would find that irritating.

PyongyangKipperbang · Today 00:37

PrincessFairyWren · Today 00:31

I don’t unpack myself. However I go on holiday to relax and recharge my battery. If unpacking gets her into the zone and living out of a suitcase stresses her out let her be.

when I book into a hotel I like to walk around and check out the bar, pool and other amenities so I understand the layout of the building. Makes me feel more comfortable and I know others would find that irritating.

Oh I dont think that she should live out of her case, she would hate it. I think the issue is that she also hates that I dont unpack and I think it stresses her out just at the thought of it!

We always have seperate rooms but when she inevitably comes into my room she will say "Oh havent you put [item] away?! You will never find it when you want it!" and starts unpacking for me. Its a good natured disagreement between us!

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HerRoyalNotness · Today 00:38

My H unpacks first thing. Puts his things into drawers and hangs up stuff. I only put my toiletries in the bathroom. The rest stays in the case. I don’t understand it but leave him to it. He can’t settle until it’s done

clary · Today 00:39

I always unpack, even if I am only staying a night. It doesn't take me anything like an hour though, more like 10 mins.

What does annoy me (as on a recent stay at a Premier Inn) is hotels that don't have anywhere to put your stuff. I am talking drawers, shelves, a wardrobe? All I had was a hanging rail and nowhere to put my knickers. Not happy.

Btw I also fully unpack and put away on arrival home, even if it is after midnight (as it will be on Sunday when I get home after a week away). I can't sleep otherwise.

PinkNailPolish2026 · Today 00:41

Any1ForTennis · Yesterday 23:57

When I'm packing, I pack whole outfits together.

E g lay shorts on bed, add matching top, knickers and bra. Fold shorts over creating a little outfit burrito 😳.

I unpack all the bundles into a stack in the wardrobe, hang up my evening dresses and thats it.

My DH unpacks properly, takes him ages 😆.

I do this too. I have pool outfits, day trip outfits and evening outfits.

I couldn’t live out of a suitcase.

CallUpMyMamaSaidImInLoveWithTheStripperYo · Today 00:44

lol my husband and I fundamentally disagree on unpacking on holiday.

I’m a “let’s dump the bags and hit the pool, we can unpack later” person, and he can’t relax knowing the cases are sitting unopened in our room 😂

RosieHosie · Today 00:44

clary · Today 00:39

I always unpack, even if I am only staying a night. It doesn't take me anything like an hour though, more like 10 mins.

What does annoy me (as on a recent stay at a Premier Inn) is hotels that don't have anywhere to put your stuff. I am talking drawers, shelves, a wardrobe? All I had was a hanging rail and nowhere to put my knickers. Not happy.

Btw I also fully unpack and put away on arrival home, even if it is after midnight (as it will be on Sunday when I get home after a week away). I can't sleep otherwise.

I would unpack even for just one night too.

Blueburner · Today 00:45

I know someone who unpacks and irons. Not me I’m afraid!

M103 · Today 00:48

Alfrescodisco · Yesterday 23:59

I’m traumatised after staying in a bed bug infested hotel . I guess it’ll be suitcase in bath and everything in zip locked bags next time if I can bring myself to stay in hotels again , but I’ll never ever unpack into a hotel wardrobe again.

That would be my worse nightmare.What happened?

Happyjoe · Today 00:49

Never unpacked. Weirdly I don't trust hotel hygiene so always thing my suitcase is cleaner. Prob isn't tho but it's my dirt, not someone else's.

PyongyangKipperbang · Today 01:03

Unpacking for ONE NIGHT?!

What on earth is there to unpack?! Toothbrush and clean knickers is all you need surely?!

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