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Fuming about directions woman

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HowardsWahey · Yesterday 15:34

I live in a seaside town that, at this time of year in particular, is very popular with tourists. Therefore it's quite common to be stopped and asked for directions or local information. I never mind, but I think a bit of gratitude doesn't go amiss.

Some woman and her husband stopped me today and asked if there was anywhere nearby they could get some fish and chips. I started saying, "Yes, if you walk to the bottom of the road just behind us, you'll see a big retail park with Sainsbury's and Lidl..."

Then, when I'm mid-sentence, she cuts me off and says, "Oh that's lovely - but we just fancied some fish and chips", saying "fish and chips" as if I was a bit simple and needed them explained to me. I gave her a bit of a look and said, "And if you'd let me finish, I'd have told you which turning to take at the retail park for the fish and chip shop".

I thought she'd have the sense to realise she shouldn't have interrupted, but she made a sort of huffing noise and said, "Well THAT'S a bit rude! I was only asking." So I said, "And I was only answering - but you interrupted me. THAT'S rude. Enjoy your chips". And I walked off.

What the hell is wrong with some people?! Someone takes time out of their day to help them out, and they won't take two seconds to listen! I hope she and her droopy-faced husband are still wandering about desperate to find their cod and chips 😄

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Anarchy99 · Today 12:17

Toottooot · Today 12:04

Peer mannie - poor mannie 🤷🏻‍♀️

Mannie being man? I’m only asking as I have never seen the phrase before.

HowardsWahey · Today 12:29

Anarchy99 · Today 12:17

Mannie being man? I’m only asking as I have never seen the phrase before.

You are giving this post waaayy too much headspace...

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Anarchy99 · Today 12:59

🤣🤣🤣 Given some of your comments I think I understand why the woman may have reacted to you like she did.

HowardsWahey · Today 13:19

Anarchy99 · Today 12:59

🤣🤣🤣 Given some of your comments I think I understand why the woman may have reacted to you like she did.

Oh yes, because we must all be terribly, terribly nice, mustn't we? Spotted a goose? Don't dare say boo! Never, ever stick up for yourself under any circumstances - we must always #bekind, on pain of death.

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Illegally18 · Today 13:24

NCForOneNightOnly · Yesterday 15:44

You met her energy with the same, that’s the problem. How relevant was the big retail park with Sainsbury’s and Lidl to where the chip shop was anyway?

Eh? What's wrong with meeting her energy? The op was explaining and got interrupted. And as for sainsburys and lidl, they were points of reference for finding the fish and chip shop. Obviously!

NCForOneNightOnly · Today 13:42

Illegally18 · Today 13:24

Eh? What's wrong with meeting her energy? The op was explaining and got interrupted. And as for sainsburys and lidl, they were points of reference for finding the fish and chip shop. Obviously!

Obviously when you meet someone’s energy the conversation is not going to progress constructively. You both end up being rude to each other. If you want a conversation to progress constructively then you diffuse the other person’s rudeness.

NCForOneNightOnly · Today 13:44

HowardsWahey · Today 12:29

You are giving this post waaayy too much headspace...

Ironic really considering you’ve made an entire thread about it 😉

Spatchcork · Today 13:44

OP, the majority of people in society are self-absorbed and thick.

HowardsWahey · Today 13:48

NCForOneNightOnly · Today 13:44

Ironic really considering you’ve made an entire thread about it 😉

I think you may have missed the point here...

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