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Letter from HA about loud music?

249 replies

autumnbeee · 24/07/2026 19:37

So basically I received a letter from my HA about loud music causing a disturbance to other residents here.

I am the only one who received it.

I suspect my NDN reported me as I don't think who else it could be?

Surely they could have just left a polite note or approached me?

I assume this will be on my file now?

OP posts:
Backedoffhackedoff · 24/07/2026 19:56

autumnbeee · 24/07/2026 19:42

On my HA file if I ever require a landlord reference from them?

I do play music in the garden at times but surely if it was a nuisance they could have asked me via the neighbours hood WhatsApp group/ Facebook group?

No they won’t put it on a reference

francy99 · 24/07/2026 19:57

Have you ever thought that whoever complained may have had issues with neighbours before and they tried speaking directly to neighbours or leaving a note but may have been met with abuse or aggression so they probably thought just to make a complaint to the HA. I have experience of neighbours playing loud music all hours and it’s awful. It starts to affect your mental health. If you want to play music load get some head/ear phones

7238SM · 24/07/2026 19:57

Buy headphones or ear pods and play your music on those when in the garden. No one should be disturbed by anyone's music when in their own garden!
Its only you to blame if its on your file! 🙄

EmpressaurusKitty · 24/07/2026 19:57

WhatAMarvelousTune · 24/07/2026 19:52

To be honest, I would assume that anyone antisocial enough to frequently play loud music in their garden would probably not be receptive to someone knocking on the door to ask them to stop. Did you really not think it might be really annoying for people living near you??

That’s the thing. It’s like being wary of challenging people who don’t use headphones on public transport or who ride bikes fast on the pavement or who drop litter. You don’t know what else they think is ok.

palorina · 24/07/2026 19:57

Enjoy your music in your garden with due respect for neighbours. I cannot understand how anyone could listen to music other than through bluetooth earphones, noise cancelling headphones, whatever.

Could you explain for those of us who don't understand, the need for playing music out loud in a residential area?

NeverDropYourMooncup · 24/07/2026 19:58

autumnbeee · 24/07/2026 19:42

On my HA file if I ever require a landlord reference from them?

I do play music in the garden at times but surely if it was a nuisance they could have asked me via the neighbours hood WhatsApp group/ Facebook group?

Only if they were happy taking the risk of somebody putting their windows through, slashing their tyres or any of the other things that can result from a complaint or request to turn the music down.

PrettyLittleRose · 24/07/2026 19:59

You seem to care more about your 'file' and the implications for YOU than you do about the nuisance you have been making of yourself, and what effect your loud music has been having on your neighbour. Hmm

HeddaGarbled · 24/07/2026 20:02

Surely they could have just left a polite note or approached me

Yeah, yeah, don’t be daft 😃

Bollihobs · 24/07/2026 20:02

Backedoffhackedoff · 24/07/2026 19:40

well, the housing association will have a copy of the letter on your account, yes. That doesn’t mean anything though.

it would’ve been better if they’d spoken to you but loads and loads of people don’t have the confidence to do that and would rather waste a companies time instead 🙄
why don’t you pop round say sorry and keep it down? That’s the mature thing to do

loads and loads of people don’t have the confidence to do that and would rather waste a companies time instead 🙄

How is it "wasting a company's time"??

That's their job isn't it?

In many cases it's right to be wary about approaching someone directly with an issue. It's the HA's job to deal with any ASB not individuals who for a multitude of reasons may not be able to deal directly.

CombatBarbie · 24/07/2026 20:03

Well we need the honesty about the music. Do you have a surround sound speaker/alexa full blast or is it low level background music.

For those saying dont play music, behave!!! Everyone is allowed to enjoy their own garden. Being a nuisance is loud music from morning til night. Normal is a kitchen (assuming its on the rear of the property) speaker louder than you would inside.

Wear headphones???? Seriously.....

CalliopeFosterBeauchamp · 24/07/2026 20:04

WhatAMarvelousTune · 24/07/2026 19:52

To be honest, I would assume that anyone antisocial enough to frequently play loud music in their garden would probably not be receptive to someone knocking on the door to ask them to stop. Did you really not think it might be really annoying for people living near you??

Yep, this.

I assume anyone doing this couldn’t give a toss about being friendly or polite. So I wouldn’t approach them directly either.

Terfedout · 24/07/2026 20:04

I play music in my garden. Not an issue. But I do not disturb my neighbours with it. When I put it on, I make a point of walking to their fence and making sure it isn't audible from there. Just try to be a bit more considerate.

CombatBarbie · 24/07/2026 20:06

palorina · 24/07/2026 19:57

Enjoy your music in your garden with due respect for neighbours. I cannot understand how anyone could listen to music other than through bluetooth earphones, noise cancelling headphones, whatever.

Could you explain for those of us who don't understand, the need for playing music out loud in a residential area?

If you and kids or having a family get together, are we now supposed to he having silent discos???? Wtf.....

The noise level in important here!!! Background noise, no issues.... speaker full blast, problem

Gardenflowering · 24/07/2026 20:07

CombatBarbie · 24/07/2026 20:03

Well we need the honesty about the music. Do you have a surround sound speaker/alexa full blast or is it low level background music.

For those saying dont play music, behave!!! Everyone is allowed to enjoy their own garden. Being a nuisance is loud music from morning til night. Normal is a kitchen (assuming its on the rear of the property) speaker louder than you would inside.

Wear headphones???? Seriously.....

Being a nuisance is playing music loud enough to disturb others even for 10 minutes.
Loud music in a garden, on a train, bus or space where others can hear it is dog shit utter selfishness.

CalliopeFosterBeauchamp · 24/07/2026 20:07

CombatBarbie · 24/07/2026 20:03

Well we need the honesty about the music. Do you have a surround sound speaker/alexa full blast or is it low level background music.

For those saying dont play music, behave!!! Everyone is allowed to enjoy their own garden. Being a nuisance is loud music from morning til night. Normal is a kitchen (assuming its on the rear of the property) speaker louder than you would inside.

Wear headphones???? Seriously.....

You’re right - everyone is allowed to enjoy their own garden. If you were my neighbour and I could hear your music, that would stop me enjoying my garden.

Silence from me wouldn’t disturb you, but
your music would disturb me. So the fair thing to do is for you to wear headphones.

BuzzLightyearToTheRescue · 24/07/2026 20:07

Garden music is antisocial, the only two houses in my street that do that are coincidentally trouble makers

No one wants to hear it

wlv12 · 24/07/2026 20:07

There is a difference between playing music in your garden and playing it so loud it’s a nuisance to others.

A neighbour of mine is currently playing music so loud I can hear it over the TV. They are antisocial, a nuisance and selfish to boot. I expect your neighbour is at the end of their tether and like me, hating where they live thanks to people who only think about themselves.

Blueuggboots · 24/07/2026 20:07

It’s not rocket science that playing music in your garden is going to annoy people….have a bit of thought for your neighbours.

CombatBarbie · 24/07/2026 20:08

Gardenflowering · 24/07/2026 20:07

Being a nuisance is playing music loud enough to disturb others even for 10 minutes.
Loud music in a garden, on a train, bus or space where others can hear it is dog shit utter selfishness.

Oh behave, so we are only allowed in our gardens in silence. Id much rather listen to radio or music than a relentless barking dog.

Badbadbunny · 24/07/2026 20:08

autumnbeee · 24/07/2026 19:42

On my HA file if I ever require a landlord reference from them?

I do play music in the garden at times but surely if it was a nuisance they could have asked me via the neighbours hood WhatsApp group/ Facebook group?

Would you have taken any notice of them?

Why didn't you realise that playing loud music could annoy your neighbours??

MrSchubertWhiskers · 24/07/2026 20:08

autumnbeee · 24/07/2026 19:42

On my HA file if I ever require a landlord reference from them?

I do play music in the garden at times but surely if it was a nuisance they could have asked me via the neighbours hood WhatsApp group/ Facebook group?

Sorry op, but it's not OK to play music in your garden without headphones when you have close neighbours.

KnivesAndFawkes · 24/07/2026 20:08

Just pop headphones on or something. Why should everyone else be subjected to your racket?

CombatBarbie · 24/07/2026 20:09

MrSchubertWhiskers · 24/07/2026 20:08

Sorry op, but it's not OK to play music in your garden without headphones when you have close neighbours.

Since when???? Fml......

CalliopeFosterBeauchamp · 24/07/2026 20:09

CombatBarbie · 24/07/2026 20:08

Oh behave, so we are only allowed in our gardens in silence. Id much rather listen to radio or music than a relentless barking dog.

You seem to be really struggling with the idea your neighbours might not want to hear your music. You must be an absolute nightmare to live near.

Gardenflowering · 24/07/2026 20:10

CombatBarbie · 24/07/2026 20:08

Oh behave, so we are only allowed in our gardens in silence. Id much rather listen to radio or music than a relentless barking dog.

That’s what headphones were invented for.

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