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Letter from HA about loud music?

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autumnbeee · 24/07/2026 19:37

So basically I received a letter from my HA about loud music causing a disturbance to other residents here.

I am the only one who received it.

I suspect my NDN reported me as I don't think who else it could be?

Surely they could have just left a polite note or approached me?

I assume this will be on my file now?

OP posts:
Mirox1414 · Today 02:48

autumnbeee · 24/07/2026 19:37

So basically I received a letter from my HA about loud music causing a disturbance to other residents here.

I am the only one who received it.

I suspect my NDN reported me as I don't think who else it could be?

Surely they could have just left a polite note or approached me?

I assume this will be on my file now?

I'm a housing officer and get noise complaints through all the time. This will definitely be on your file now, further reports can result in tenancy enforcement action being taken against you. Your neighbour definitely could have tried coming and speaking to you about it, we always encourage that as it saves on paperwork tbh

T1Dmama · Today 03:19

autumnbeee · 24/07/2026 19:42

On my HA file if I ever require a landlord reference from them?

I do play music in the garden at times but surely if it was a nuisance they could have asked me via the neighbours hood WhatsApp group/ Facebook group?

Is the letter just a polite reminder to consider our neighbours and turn the music down or is it written as a first warning ?
ifni remember correctly from when I worked for a HA, warning letters stayed on file for 6 months.

T1Dmama · Today 03:24

autumnbeee · 24/07/2026 20:34

I asked my other neighbour and mentioned it on the WhatsApp chat and only I received it.

It was an advisory letter about keeping it down and that the lyrics were found to be offensive due to young children in the area.

If it isn’t written as a formal warning then no it will not be recorded on your file as something that could affect your future prospects for housing

EmeraldShamrock000 · Today 03:26

Take it as a warning and buy headphones. Try not be annoyed with your neighbour, it’s not always easy to face a neighbour over loud music or other noisy irritations. It would be easier all round if you try build a better relationship and her, if she’s half okay.
I doubt a letter will give you a mark on your tenancy.

Sennelier1 · Today 07:30

Someone recently invented this newfangled contraption, it's called headphones. Maybe try and use them for your choice of music, especially outside in the garden.

Sartre · Today 07:33

Nobody else wants to hear your shitty music, that’s the issue. Put AirPods in like reasonable people or play it at a reasonable volume in your own home. There’s no excuse to blast it outside for everyone else to hear. I’ve also noticed no one is ever blasting a bit of Brahms or Chopin, it’s always shitty tinny D&B or chart music.

Theseventhmagpie · Today 08:00

Of course it means something. The HA will keep records of all anti-social behaviour in case evidence is needed for possession proceedings based on anti-social behaviour.

Stressedout150 · Today 08:18

Ugh neighbours who play music in the garden, honestly no one wants to be forced to listen to your shitty music when trying to enjoy peace and quiet in their garden.

good on your neighbour for doing something about it, in future don’t be so sodding selfish.

TheThirteenthFairy · Today 08:33

autumnbeee · 24/07/2026 19:42

On my HA file if I ever require a landlord reference from them?

I do play music in the garden at times but surely if it was a nuisance they could have asked me via the neighbours hood WhatsApp group/ Facebook group?

'if it was a nuisance'? Jesus fucking Christ. Of course it was a nuisance You knew you were disturbing other people but didn't care. Nobody's going to pop round and ask you to turn it off because you've demonstrated, by playing it, that you don't give a toss about your neighbours.

TheThirteenthFairy · Today 08:55

PrettyLittleRose · 24/07/2026 20:13

This. ^ It's extremely arrogant to assume that everyone wants to hear YOUR music.

Years ago I had a next door neighbour who used to put her speakers outside and play Tom Jones and Engelbert Whatever most afternoons and evenings. We'd get The Green Green Grass Of Home on repeat. And yes we complained to the HA and in due course she was evicted.

Happytaytos · Today 08:58

What kind of self indulgent bubble do you live in that you think playing loud and offensive music regularly in your garden is OK?

I cannot believe your selfishness and I'm glad someone has finally called you out on it.

TheThirteenthFairy · Today 09:14

JapanesePotWeed · Yesterday 00:33

A Council letter really is THE polite way of going about it. Less personal also.

When my neighbours got too loose with their speakers and I had suffered silently for quite some time, I went full on angry pay-back mode.
I created a playlist called "neighbours" with the worst grime rap and death metal available, would start it up next to their bedroom wall at 7am, another speaker downstairs and then leave for work.
If they were barbecuing and blasting their crap for hours (it can only be described as a cross between Islamic prayer calls, Euro clubbing trash and Greek wedding music), I'd get out my concrete cutter and cut bricks right next to the fence, sending dust and noise all over. If the music stopped - I stopped. If it started again - I started cutting too.
Much more satisfying than waiting on a family of ill-mannered brutes to self regulate.

I salute you.

ScartlettSole · Today 09:58

CombatBarbie · Yesterday 12:00

So having to listen to kids playing is acceptable, laughing, shouting, shrieking etc, listening to dogs is acceptable but having the radio or whatever on in your kitchen and the door open is not? So we are supposed to sit in silence?

Explicit lyrics is def not ok, neither is full blast or playing early morning and late at night.

Only on MN is it ASBO behaviour to play music. Have just informed the kids, silent discos only when we move and I am cutting out theirs and the dogs tongues in case we offend anyone 😆. Not that my dog barks, only to alert and chasing crows....but still.

Hopefully my neighbours are a bit more normal and accept daily normal noise.

This is what I was thinking. I have a few neighbours who have been enjoying the weather and had radios/alexa playing outside, I am vaguely aware but couldn't actually tell you what song is playing as its low volume (except when next doors toddler did a bit karaoke!). I feel blasting music at all hours is very different to playing a bit music during the day.
I'd much rather a bit music than kids screaming tbh.

Buscobel · Today 10:15

If you live in relatively close proximity to others, it is essential to consider them, as you would expect them to consider you.

To have had a formal letter means’s that one or more of your neighbours reached the end of their tether with the noise. People accept a one off, or occasional noise incident, but not the regular relentless type. It’s selfish and inconsiderate, to say the least and people haven’t approached you directly, because they’re probably anxious about your response. No one wants a potentially dangerous confrontation.

Considerate neighbours minimise the impact of their actions on others, whether it’s music, barking dogs, diy or shouting children.

MrsOlderButWiser · Today 11:10

It isn't fair on your neighbours to play loud music. You should be more mindful. Your neighbours might be working from home, recovering from illness or just want peace and quiet. In this day and age there's wireless headphones to use. Don't give your neighbours reason to have to complain again.

floppybit · Today 11:24

Music in the garden is so antisocial, and means other people can’t enjoy their garden.

PhaedraTwo · Today 12:06

Mirox1414 · Today 02:48

I'm a housing officer and get noise complaints through all the time. This will definitely be on your file now, further reports can result in tenancy enforcement action being taken against you. Your neighbour definitely could have tried coming and speaking to you about it, we always encourage that as it saves on paperwork tbh

You're a housing officer yet you think neighbours affected by antisocial behaviour should try and sort it out by speaking to the antisocial neighbour to save you doing paperwork?

Do you really think people affected by antisocial behaviour want to risk this?

Mirox1414 · Today 12:33

PhaedraTwo · Today 12:06

You're a housing officer yet you think neighbours affected by antisocial behaviour should try and sort it out by speaking to the antisocial neighbour to save you doing paperwork?

Do you really think people affected by antisocial behaviour want to risk this?

Obviously this is dealt with on a case by case basis, but as part of the good neighbour agreement, we would always try and encourage conversations between neighbours where feasible. OP made no reference to ongoing issues, previous disputes or animosity between them and the neighbour. Hence my comment. What OP has described is neighbour nuisance rather than antisocial behaviour based on the information that was provided, we try and encourage positive communication between neighbours where possible in order to prevent tenancy warnings and enforcement actions, which can impact things like referencing when people come to buy a home. Chill out mate. Kin 'ell

TigerRag · Today 12:36

PhaedraTwo · Today 12:06

You're a housing officer yet you think neighbours affected by antisocial behaviour should try and sort it out by speaking to the antisocial neighbour to save you doing paperwork?

Do you really think people affected by antisocial behaviour want to risk this?

I was told to do this. It did nothing. I remember also ringing his intercom at 8pm because he was doing DIY. He stopped for 2 minutes and started again

My current HA actually suggested putting a note under my neighbours door when I hear him and his girlfriend screaming at each other. My reply was "I'm sorry? You think asking them to stop will do something?" They apologised because they hadn't read it properly

TigerRag · Today 12:36

PhaedraTwo · Today 12:06

You're a housing officer yet you think neighbours affected by antisocial behaviour should try and sort it out by speaking to the antisocial neighbour to save you doing paperwork?

Do you really think people affected by antisocial behaviour want to risk this?

I was told to do this. It did nothing. I remember also ringing his intercom at 8pm because he was doing DIY. He stopped for 2 minutes and started again

My current HA actually suggested putting a note under my neighbours door when I hear him and his girlfriend screaming at each other. My reply was "I'm sorry? You think asking them to stop will do something?" They apologised because they hadn't read it properly

Washingupdone · Today 13:32

With today’s technology isn’t there a system that people can carry a portable radio or phone and have an ear attachment. They can listen to their hearts content and no-one else has to know what their music tastes are.

There is a very noisy neighbour with very load music which all the surrounding back garden have to put up with. I am only visiting but everyone is scared of the consequences if they complain.

autumnbeee · Today 13:57

Sorry just to clarify a few issues.

Despite us being friendly initially there is tension between us, she makes it evident she does not like me.

When we first moved in my visitors would at times park in her space.

Apparently because I was being friendly and in passing mentioned what her job was as I noticed she worked nights she found me intrusive etc.

I don't think she would approach me as she actively avoids me.

I have heard from another neighbour that she is actually moving out soon.

Points taken, no more music.

OP posts:
vodkaredbullgirl · Today 14:02

autumnbeee · Today 13:57

Sorry just to clarify a few issues.

Despite us being friendly initially there is tension between us, she makes it evident she does not like me.

When we first moved in my visitors would at times park in her space.

Apparently because I was being friendly and in passing mentioned what her job was as I noticed she worked nights she found me intrusive etc.

I don't think she would approach me as she actively avoids me.

I have heard from another neighbour that she is actually moving out soon.

Points taken, no more music.

Edited

Nothing worse than trying to sleep after a night shift and next door are playing music loud. My next door neighbour ex partner played music loud, thank god he moved out.

MySnappySloth · Today 14:05

Well it's a mystery why she doesn't seem to like you since she was initially friendly but then you had your visitors parking in her designated parking space, you were asking intrusive questions about her work/lifestyle and then playing loud music with offensive lyrics.

Guess we'll never know what her problem is..

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