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Why is there no solution to the 'used-once-but-not-dirty' clothes pile?

179 replies

Hicc · Today 17:59

We all have this, don't we? A pile of clothes on a chair in the bedroom that aren't dirty enough to wash but not clean enough to go back in the wardrobe.

Mine sit on a chair looking untidy.

Try as I might, I can't find a solution. Blanket ladders aren't sturdy enough to put up with daily use, chairs take up a lot of space, hooks don't work for two people's worth of clothes.

AIBU for being frustrated there is not a magical solution to this? Or is there one that is being gate-kept by the eternally tidy and house proud crew?

OP posts:
EndlessWeeding · Today 18:00

Just hang them back in the wardrobe if they are clean enough for another wear?

DustyMaiden · Today 18:01

If you are going to wear it again put it in the wardrobe. If it’s too dirty to go in the wardrobe. Put it in the laundry basket.

comeondover · Today 18:02

Have you come across valet stands? They fit the bill

SquigglePigs · Today 18:02

My wardrobe has two rows and I don't have enough clothes to fill it so if I take a top off that can be reworn then I hang it on the door to air over night then it goes in the bottom left corner of the rack with a couple of other half worn clothes.

Having said that, trousers get piled on top of the laundry basket but usually only one or two pairs so I don't mind so much.

Wirkwirk · Today 18:02

IMO if they're clean enough to wear again, they're clean enough to go back in the wardrobe.

PawMaw · Today 18:03

I hang jeans/trousers and hoodies back up in the wardrobe 🤷‍♀️ Pyjamas folded and put under my pillow.

I wouldn't rewear a tshirt as I'm a sweaty Betty so I suppose this has never been a problem for me.

ToKittyornottoKitty · Today 18:03

I hang them back in the wardrobe on the left hand side. Not sure what you think they will do wrong in there

AmIReallyTheGrownup · Today 18:04

We have valet stands for this.

Ilovemyshed · Today 18:04

We have a large hook each on a wall in the dressing room. Holds 2-3 hangers and works fine!

UninitendedShark · Today 18:05

Love my chairdrobe

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · Today 18:05

We have these on either end of the wardrobe amzn.eu/d/02iWhx5g

Why is there no solution to the 'used-once-but-not-dirty' clothes pile?
SoScarletItWas · Today 18:06

There are no part-worn clothes hanging around in piles. I don’t have a chair in the bedroom otherwise I am sure I’d create a dumping ground.

The trousers and top I wore today are on their hangers airing in the bedroom (hanging off the doorframe) and they will be deemed clean/aired enough to go back in the wardrobe when I go to bed.

Putting clothes on a clean body for a pretty inactive day in the office doesn’t make them dirty.

Didimum · Today 18:06

I hang them up out of wardrobe to air them out and then but then back in wardrobe the next day.

Yes, I still have a chair pile though.

Tickingcrocodile · Today 18:07

I just put them back in the wardrobe or drawer. It's not as if the other clothes are going to catch something.

topcat2014 · Today 18:07

EndlessWeeding · Today 18:00

Just hang them back in the wardrobe if they are clean enough for another wear?

I would need to divide my wardrobe into sections for that. Bit too triggering. I'll stick with the chair

AlwaysExtraHot · Today 18:09

Mine also accumulates socks that I’ve worn briefly e.g. cosy and/or grip socks for yoga and meditation. Can’t bring myself to wash them after wearing them for about an hour max, but it feels weird to put them away.

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · Today 18:10

Clothes that have been worn and put away again can attract moths, I don't put them away again for that reason.

I just wear it again in the next day or 2, if it's going to be longer than that between wears I wash it as I think the smell of them changes after a few days.

Ikea do a stick out clothes hanger holder thing you fix to the wardrobe

applink.ikea.com/tY8M9r9M4w--70256931--gb--en

ponyprincess · Today 18:10

Febreeze, if you like then back in wardrobe? Otherwise just back in wardrobe (no chemicals)? Not sure why an intermediate area is needed?

MissFancyDay · Today 18:10

T shirts and indoor clothes I would put back in the wardrobe. "Tube" trousers we put over the bannister so that they don't contaminate anything else. We're a bit odd.

TotallyTangerineGeum · Today 18:12

I must be the only person who washes every item of clothing after each wear. Especially at this time of year!

ObelixtheGaul · Today 18:12

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · Today 18:05

We have these on either end of the wardrobe amzn.eu/d/02iWhx5g

Oooh, that's a good idea.

OneBusyFinch · Today 18:12

comeondover · Today 18:02

Have you come across valet stands? They fit the bill

Yes - valet stands are what you need OP

WaltzingWaters · Today 18:13

I have a draw in my wardrobe that is just for “half clean” clothes.

Slightyamusedandsilly · Today 18:14

Most of my clothes aren't in the wardrobe. So while I'd hang up a dress that had been worn once, I don't want to put a pair of jeans back in the drawer.

Door hangers are good idea, and I do already use them. But clothes hanging on the door look so messy.

ponyprincess · Today 18:14

TotallyTangerineGeum · Today 18:12

I must be the only person who washes every item of clothing after each wear. Especially at this time of year!

Agree this time of year most need to wash- but do you change your bed sheets every day etc? There is a middle ground?