Help end medical misogyny. Sign our petition.

Help end medical misogyny.
Sign our petition.

Sign the petition

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Why is there no solution to the 'used-once-but-not-dirty' clothes pile?

193 replies

Hicc · Today 17:59

We all have this, don't we? A pile of clothes on a chair in the bedroom that aren't dirty enough to wash but not clean enough to go back in the wardrobe.

Mine sit on a chair looking untidy.

Try as I might, I can't find a solution. Blanket ladders aren't sturdy enough to put up with daily use, chairs take up a lot of space, hooks don't work for two people's worth of clothes.

AIBU for being frustrated there is not a magical solution to this? Or is there one that is being gate-kept by the eternally tidy and house proud crew?

OP posts:
viques · Today 19:26

I have a clothes ladder. Leans against a wall . Plenty of room for worn once stuff.

Drawers and wardrobes are for clean clothes.

MrsClattenburg · Today 19:27

I have never seen a moth in a wardrobe.

My clothes have never got moth holes in them.

I re-wear clothes like a normal person.

Allseeingallknowing · Today 19:28

mumumental · Today 19:12

I fold clean but worn things at the bottom
of the bed and hang dresses behind the door.

Don’t they end up on the floor?

SeasideDaisy · Today 19:31

DustyMaiden · Today 18:01

If you are going to wear it again put it in the wardrobe. If it’s too dirty to go in the wardrobe. Put it in the laundry basket.

This is what I do

eurochick · Today 19:31

This is why people have exercise bikes.

NullaEffugium · Today 19:32

TotallyTangerineGeum · Today 18:12

I must be the only person who washes every item of clothing after each wear. Especially at this time of year!

I do too. I think it’s grim to wear something more than once without washing it or otherwise cleaning it- I.e a heavy wool jumper I will sponge clean and air dry after each wear.

I read an article about how the habit of re-wearing clothes gets worse as we age and we become more nose blind. That the ‘old people’ smell comes from thinking clothes aren’t dirty enough to wash and re-wearing them when no, they are actually in need of a wash.

Only way to prevent this is to wash/clean everything you wear even if it is for a few hours. I also wash my coats after a few wears.

WonsWoo · Today 19:33

I am desperate for one of these. We had one in a hotel room in Korea and it was so useful
.Steam closet

SeasideDaisy · Today 19:34

NullaEffugium · Today 19:32

I do too. I think it’s grim to wear something more than once without washing it or otherwise cleaning it- I.e a heavy wool jumper I will sponge clean and air dry after each wear.

I read an article about how the habit of re-wearing clothes gets worse as we age and we become more nose blind. That the ‘old people’ smell comes from thinking clothes aren’t dirty enough to wash and re-wearing them when no, they are actually in need of a wash.

Only way to prevent this is to wash/clean everything you wear even if it is for a few hours. I also wash my coats after a few wears.

Even with jeans?!?
I don’t think that people are nose blind, I just assume they don’t have the means or knowledge to care for themselves properly.

NullaEffugium · Today 19:35

Allseeingallknowing · Today 18:16

I hope you are the only person- sounds like a water and energy wasting obsession to me !

You must be someone who thinks washing plates and tea mugs after one use is also wasting water and energy.

Allseeingallknowing · Today 19:36

NullaEffugium · Today 19:35

You must be someone who thinks washing plates and tea mugs after one use is also wasting water and energy.

I wouldn’t use the same cup twice, but wouldn’t wash up until I had enough crockery to justify filling a bowl with soapy water. That’s not relevant to clothes though, which, if they look and smell clean ,do not need to be washed after every use.

3luckystars · Today 19:36

You can’t put them back in the wardrobe!!!
They would contaminate the clean clothes!!! That’s insane.

SourdoughSally · Today 19:37

Hang them back in your wardrobe inside out. Then you know they've been worn already.

3luckystars · Today 19:37

Hang them up in a plastic bag maybe , use gloves though.

NullaEffugium · Today 19:38

SeasideDaisy · Today 19:34

Even with jeans?!?
I don’t think that people are nose blind, I just assume they don’t have the means or knowledge to care for themselves properly.

Well it is a fact that as we age our sense of smell degrades into nose blindness. So you can’t trust the sniff test.

Yes jeans get washed too. I tend to wear jeans when I’m doing physical labour in the garden or diy about the house or on a hike/horse ride so they are definitely always dirty after one wear. Jeans aren’t loungewear.

SeasideDaisy · Today 19:40

3luckystars · Today 19:36

You can’t put them back in the wardrobe!!!
They would contaminate the clean clothes!!! That’s insane.

Contaminate them with what? If they are dirty enough to be considered catching then they go in the wash!
crazy crazy thread.

3luckystars · Today 19:40

I know!! I was joking. I wear things loads of times 😂

KrazyKatty · Today 19:40

If I’m in town shopping/coffee/hobby etc. and only worn clothes for less than say, 4 hours, I change as soon as I get home and hang them on a clothes hanger on the outside of the wardrobe door. I’ll probably wear them again briefly two or three days later and rotate the other ‘going out’ clothes. They usually go in the wash after 2 wears.

Underwear - I’ll change daily.

BigGapMum · Today 19:43

Put them back onto the wardrobe, but twist the hanger around so it hooks over the bar from the back. That way you'll be able to easily identify the half worn clothes.

IzzytWorthit · Today 19:45

Wirkwirk · Today 18:02

IMO if they're clean enough to wear again, they're clean enough to go back in the wardrobe.

Yes, so long as they are aired before putting away what harm can they do?

Everydayimhuffling · Today 19:46

We have a basket with a lid for this purpose. Slightly tidier than the chair or floor pile. Jumpers and jeans go back in the wardrobe though. Leggings, bras, pyjamas etc go in the basket

Mumofthreeteenagers · Today 19:49

Jeez, im feeling sick seeing some of these responses. Never ever do worn clothes go back into the wardrobe or on hangers! Whats the point in washing then?

My half dirty are on a hook on the back of my bedroom door. It's (my) policy (:-)) that when its full, i must wear them and not overfill it.

NullaEffugium · Today 19:50

Also feeling ill at some of the responses. Unless you’re in some sort of war torn country with no running water or on a backpacking holiday there is really no excuse.

lazyarse123 · Today 19:53

The only time i wear things only once is when it's hot like now, obviously underwear is washed every time, everything else lays on the bed and I hang it in the wardrobe when I go to bed.
I have to add that I'm retired so I have clothes for slobbing around in and nicer clothes for leaving the house.

OneNewEagle · Today 19:53

In summer everything is washed after one use. I don’t put worn clothes back in my wardrobe.

But I have a radiator airer on my radiator by a window worn clothes for half a day get hung on there to air.

Yetone · Today 19:59

WonsWoo · Today 19:33

I am desperate for one of these. We had one in a hotel room in Korea and it was so useful
.Steam closet

Edited

Looks amazing

Swipe left for the next trending thread