Husband pees on seat, rim and floor, says its normal

[Julytrees]

As the title says. And me and my 16 y o daughter wipe it up as we don’t want to sit on it or have it touch our legs or feet (if splashed on the floor) and it’s not water as it’s yellow.
Sometimes there is small bits of poo on the floor and he says that is also normal and that all men have issues with aim etc and the poo is a mistake...
We clean it as we share a bathroom and we prefer it clean.
He asked me to post here and says he is a standard man when it comes to this. He’s 53.

IABU - for flagging it
NBU - for flagging it

Well obviously it’s not normal. Even if it was normal to miss, why on earth wouldn’t he be the one to clean it up? Making his daughter clean up his piss? Is this a joke?

No it’s not a joke

Not normal. What a dirty skank.

Why would you want to live like this? Do you have no choice?

He doesn’t make us clean it, it’s just like that in the morning sometimes

Well I don't have male plumbing, so I cannot say if it is normal or not BUT even if it is, cleaning it up would be normal too.

It is the height of arrogance and disrespect to leave your bodily waste for others to attend to.

I don't think normal has much to do with it. It isn't normal not to clean it up if you have difficulties using the loo.

I live with two men and neither do this. Its disgusting frankly and lazy.

No no no
my husband had never done that in nearly 40 years together
it’s not normal it’s gross

Absolutely disgusting….and I’m by no means a clean freak….yuk !!

Reported. Lots of weird threads being started tonight.

Ugh. Not normal. None of the men I’ve lived with - including my 7 year old son - are as disgusting as he is and none of them have any problems with their aim.

We have separate toilet for the men!

Its not normal…he is a dirty fucker

He must really despise you and your DD . Otherwise he would be cleaning up his disgusting mess himself.

Nope

Your poor, poor daughter being taught that it’s acceptable for a man to piss on the floor and for her to be expected to wipe it up.

What a sad fucking state of affairs.

It's disgusting. Why on earth would you put up with that? Also please don't let your poor daughter think this is normal in any way.

Disgusting. How long have you been together? Has he always been like this?

No… not normal

He gets poo on the floor and doesn't clear it up? Not buying it, or either of you asking if it's normal

If my 13 year old makes a mess he gets made to go back to the bathroom and clean it up.

Of course it isn’t normal. What the hell are the women of the house doing cleaning up a man’s shit?!

No. No mother would make her daughter clean up her father's piss and shit.

I dont thibk its normal to consistently miss the toilet but I am not a man so what do I know.

But it is 100% not normal to expect other people to clean up. Sometimes I drip blood in bathroom during a particularly hard-core period... i would t dream of not cleanjng it up immediately so that no one else has to.