Husband pees on seat, rim and floor, says its normal

[Julytrees]

As the title says. And me and my 16 y o daughter wipe it up as we don’t want to sit on it or have it touch our legs or feet (if splashed on the floor) and it’s not water as it’s yellow.
Sometimes there is small bits of poo on the floor and he says that is also normal and that all men have issues with aim etc and the poo is a mistake...
We clean it as we share a bathroom and we prefer it clean.
He asked me to post here and says he is a standard man when it comes to this. He’s 53.

IABU - for flagging it
NBU - for flagging it

No it’s not normal

I live with 3 males including my husband and two teenagers and not a single one of them pisses and shits on the toilet seat or floor. I never have to mop up piss after any of them and haven’t since I was toilet training a toddler.

Yoir husband is disgustingly and I would honestly divorce him if he didn’t sort himself out.

Any chance he can have his own loo?

And you and dd keep the main loo locked just for your use?

That is the reserved version of what I want to say. I want to say please leave the dirty fucker.

He should sit down if his aim is consistently bad, and he should always always always clean up after himself, as should anyone, male or female, over the age of ten.

My eyesight is horrible and I’ve never missed the toilet , he can wear his glasses to go to the toilet. Filthy.

This! I don’t understand how you would even get into a marriage with this man.

It might be normal for a dirty person..

From my 54 year old DP and my 18 year old son to your H:

".Ewww, that's disgusting, and no, not normal. Tell him to sit down if he's that useless."

Sicky noises were made about the poo situation.

He is disgusting. No that’s not normal.

Does he pee in the shower/bath too?? I had this conversation with my (female) friend the other day and she says her partner does and I know men that do this too. My 7 yo did a wee in the shower the other day presumably because he is ok to do it as his dad’s and I told him never to do it again. Apparently lots of men also pee in swimming pools. What the FUCK is wrong with these people?!!

I've been with DH for nearly twenty years, and he has never left his waste on or near the toilet. How utterly disgusting.
He clearly has utter contempt for you and your daughter.

As a man, the only time I piss standing up, is at a urinal or in the woods.
You need to tell that dirty bastard to sit, or deprive him of privileges.
Make a stand!

Yuck
Tell him

1. to put his fucking glasses on
2. to sit down if he is so useless that he cannot pee in a toilet
3. to go in first thing every morning and clean his mess

Vile man, expecting women to clean up after him. Start dropping hints that if he cannot toilet like an adult then he will need to go into nursing care

No no no no no no no

That is so grim. It’s not normal. I have never had to clean up after DH in 30 years.