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AIBU to think King Charles comes across as a really crap dad?

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mintleavesandthyme · 06/07/2026 16:00

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c77yykl87yno

I mean really, this is just pathetic. No one is believing that KC couldn’t find a spare bed for his son. AIBU to think that as the parent KC needs to get a grip and grow up instead of just fuelling the drama?

Headshot of Prince Harry in a blue suit, white shirt, and dark green tie looking off-camera in a room with several men in suits out of focus in the background,

Buckingham Palace says Prince Harry will not stay at palace

Royal sources say the Duke of Sussex had not responded to the offer of accommodation at a Royal residence by the deadline last week.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c77yykl87yno

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FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 16:28

TheHatTrick · 13/07/2026 16:24

He has said “my memory is my memory”.

Did you know you can actually trigger your own nervous system by just imagining negative events?

I do think the ghost writer and publisher should have fact check Harry and included a note in the book about the discrepancies.

Coincidence that it was a Penguin imprint who also published The Salt Path which has also been found to be full of bunk?

I did read a very interesting article by the ghost writer, JRMoehringer. It would appear that he tried to challenge and modify some of Harry's wilder claims, some crazy exaggerations H claimed had happened. Although you're right, basic fact checking would have revealed so many of the lies, but most people understand that now.

CoffeeCantata · 13/07/2026 16:31

Tableforjoan · 13/07/2026 16:22

You just can’t trust what he says and yet he seems to have some people believing he is right and the rest of the family are the horrid bad ones always lying.

When so much of what he has said is proven lies. Queen Mother dying he was at school. Nope he was skiing.

Never taught to ride a bike. Photos.

You’d have to keep a relative like that at arms distance for what other lies they might tell. If you are never near them there can be no future dog bowl stories.

It's almost hilarious - if it weren't so wicked on his part - the way Harry whines about the trauma he suffered while joining Meghan (who had her own agenda) in piling trauma upon trauma for his family.

Now, that's bad enough. But to want to come crawling back????

It's about 2 things: money (Elton John has refused to put his hand in his pocket apparently) and the fact that no-one is interested in either of these grifters once the royal connection is gone.

That's what it's all about, folks.

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 16:37

CoffeeCantata · 13/07/2026 16:31

It's almost hilarious - if it weren't so wicked on his part - the way Harry whines about the trauma he suffered while joining Meghan (who had her own agenda) in piling trauma upon trauma for his family.

Now, that's bad enough. But to want to come crawling back????

It's about 2 things: money (Elton John has refused to put his hand in his pocket apparently) and the fact that no-one is interested in either of these grifters once the royal connection is gone.

That's what it's all about, folks.

Do you think the Bank of Pa opened again for business?

CoffeeCantata · 13/07/2026 16:37

TheHatTrick · 13/07/2026 16:19

I found it heartening that KC and Camilla met with them. It’s good they found a way to do it privately. I really hope Harry and Meghan respect that and don’t screw it up.

I don't think it's anything as sweet-natured as this.

KC met them, I bet, for strategic reasons. There were strict conditions - I'm sure H wanted to see his father alone - to beg for money etc - but Camilla was there, which H will not have appreciated. Wonder how that went, considering what he's said and written about her?? And I bet there were officials there, and that the Dodgy Duo were frisked for wires etc before the audience.

Apparently Meghan was allowed in at the end with the kids.

I don't see any rapprochement - how could there be? Charles has to keep William on side and there's no chance of any reconcilation there. If KC brought H back into the fold and I was William, I'd walk and go and live a private life - a real private life, not the Z-list celeb life H & M seem to crave.

I think KC did brilliantly - just enough to shut H & M up and not quite enough to alienate William, who must be his priority now.

CoffeeCantata · 13/07/2026 16:41

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 16:37

Do you think the Bank of Pa opened again for business?

I sure hope not! I'm sure that's what KC and the Palace must have been expecting. I'm sure that KC would help if, say, they needed money to send the children to an exclusive American school, but I don't think he'd countenance financing their ridiculous lifestyle.

They need proper jobs - but a) they are both useless and b) they yearn for the royal lifestyle which they had before they stupidly burned their bridges.

Neither of them seem to understand the consequences of what they've done. There is no way back for them, since they betrayed confidences and trust. Personally I cannot understand how they dare show their faces in the UK.

Batcats · 13/07/2026 16:42

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 16:37

Do you think the Bank of Pa opened again for business?

There isn't a hope in hell Charles will give him money. I can't just seeing it happening, especially with the court case. They won't want to be seen to be associating with it!

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 16:45

Batcats · 13/07/2026 16:42

There isn't a hope in hell Charles will give him money. I can't just seeing it happening, especially with the court case. They won't want to be seen to be associating with it!

True. What on earth will H&M do for money? They're not exactly good at making it.

Tableforjoan · 13/07/2026 16:46

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 16:37

Do you think the Bank of Pa opened again for business?

I think if it did it would be under conditions.

Such as living a humble in the shadows life back on one of the estates. Royal but as far out of the public as can be apart from attending things like church. Meghan still doing things as long as it’s not selling secrets so she can still act or whatever like the original deal offered was, but Harry back in his box in a safe cottage.

Kinda like Andrew these days. Which is a whole about bloody time thing.

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 16:51

Tableforjoan · 13/07/2026 16:46

I think if it did it would be under conditions.

Such as living a humble in the shadows life back on one of the estates. Royal but as far out of the public as can be apart from attending things like church. Meghan still doing things as long as it’s not selling secrets so she can still act or whatever like the original deal offered was, but Harry back in his box in a safe cottage.

Kinda like Andrew these days. Which is a whole about bloody time thing.

True!

jeffgoldblum · 13/07/2026 16:56

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 15:46

Again? Really?
Didn't you join in the conversation upthread about this - it was very long and all viewpoints were covered, including your own. Although that was largely debunked.

Apparently people think shouting the same misinformation over and over again at other people somehow will make it magically true!!
it doesn’t!🤷‍♀️

CoffeeCantata · 13/07/2026 16:57

Tableforjoan · 13/07/2026 16:46

I think if it did it would be under conditions.

Such as living a humble in the shadows life back on one of the estates. Royal but as far out of the public as can be apart from attending things like church. Meghan still doing things as long as it’s not selling secrets so she can still act or whatever like the original deal offered was, but Harry back in his box in a safe cottage.

Kinda like Andrew these days. Which is a whole about bloody time thing.

Meghan has stated quite openly that she has 'never signed anything' (such as an NDA) and that she has diaries from her brief time as a royal.

I don't think Meghan would stay with Harry and live a quiet, modest life. That's not what she wants or expects. And if they split I'm sure they'd have to pay her off hugely to stop her writing that memoir and 'sitting down with Oprah' again! A split would generate huge income for her, and I think Netflix have already taken an option on any divorce fallout material.

Tableforjoan · 13/07/2026 17:01

CoffeeCantata · 13/07/2026 16:57

Meghan has stated quite openly that she has 'never signed anything' (such as an NDA) and that she has diaries from her brief time as a royal.

I don't think Meghan would stay with Harry and live a quiet, modest life. That's not what she wants or expects. And if they split I'm sure they'd have to pay her off hugely to stop her writing that memoir and 'sitting down with Oprah' again! A split would generate huge income for her, and I think Netflix have already taken an option on any divorce fallout material.

Oh I agree with Meghan she’s always been her own woman and wants to be a celeb as per her acting career. Although how much that could sustain her now with her richer lifestyle is questionable.

I always wonder how much dirt she really got in her brief inside the royal house time.

Remembering all the staff NDA’s that could be undone by the royal household as well that quite likely wouldn’t paint her in a good light either. Rather nuclear option.

She much like Harry has been called out on lies to the court regarding involvement on book I think it was.

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 17:02

Surely Meghan is discredited though? Would people believe her stories?

Ukisgaslit · 13/07/2026 17:04

CoffeeCantata · 13/07/2026 16:28

The palace wanted the boys to walk to protect Charles. They were all hated at the time - Charles Elizabeth the lot of them.

What a lot of parochial nonsense.

Speak for yourself and your little social circle. No-one I knew 'hated them'. They rolled their eyes at the blatant manipulation by the press, then pressure from Blair's government, to force the family to put the boys on display in London when the Queen wanted to keep them in seclusion at Balmoral. The Diana-sanctification and worship was embarrassing and undignified - a lot of people thought that.

Anyone with an ounce of perception could see what was going on and the RF had to make the best of it.

Don't tell me - let me guess! You think Prince Philip had Diana murdered too??

😂

The monarchy was at its lowest ebb at the time re ‘support’ nothing to do with what my circle thinks - or yours for that matter .
Support is lower now but the death of Diana and their handling of events was one their first wake up calls .

TheHatTrick · 13/07/2026 17:08

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 17:02

Surely Meghan is discredited though? Would people believe her stories?

Her fans will always believe her but I think the general public doesn’t care and she’s burnt some bridges.

Tableforjoan · 13/07/2026 17:12

Very much Archie won’t get a title because shh 👀 he is mixed race.

Which of course most Brits knew was bullshit and that he would always get one once Charles was king.

But it got the views in America.

Ironic in its own right still on the basis they escaped and ran away from the horribly racist royal family and U.K. but want those titles firmly in their grasp. Stormed out after their 50/50 was rejected.

jeffgoldblum · 13/07/2026 17:12

CoffeeCantata · 13/07/2026 16:57

Meghan has stated quite openly that she has 'never signed anything' (such as an NDA) and that she has diaries from her brief time as a royal.

I don't think Meghan would stay with Harry and live a quiet, modest life. That's not what she wants or expects. And if they split I'm sure they'd have to pay her off hugely to stop her writing that memoir and 'sitting down with Oprah' again! A split would generate huge income for her, and I think Netflix have already taken an option on any divorce fallout material.

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Oprah Winfrey Reaction GIF
Tableforjoan · 13/07/2026 17:14

I also don’t think Oprah would be fooled again nor Netflix.

Both expected much bigger pay days from it and none fact checked before going to air and allowed themselves to be shown as stupid as lies where called out again.

TheHatTrick · 13/07/2026 17:14

Oprah never signed an NDA either.

Tableforjoan · 13/07/2026 17:14

The fake wedding anyone 🙃

TheHatTrick · 13/07/2026 17:16

The big public spectacle that wasn’t for them even though QE had suggested something smaller?

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 17:21

jeffgoldblum · 13/07/2026 17:12

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Very good!

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 17:23

TheHatTrick · 13/07/2026 17:16

The big public spectacle that wasn’t for them even though QE had suggested something smaller?

Which cost £millions, paid for by KC and the taxpayer. There's gratitude.

Tableforjoan · 13/07/2026 17:27

I mean neither seem to of ever been very grateful for much.

FenellaFeldman · 13/07/2026 17:33

Tableforjoan · 13/07/2026 17:27

I mean neither seem to of ever been very grateful for much.

No appreciation whatsoever. No gratitude for the most amazing privilege and opportunities which other people would kill for.

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