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Bonnie blue risky sexual behaviour whilst pregnant

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Jellysweets13 · 10/06/2026 17:22

If you’re not interested in discussing this then feel free to scroll on by.

A lot of us will know who Bonnie Blue is. The porn star who slept with 1000 men and various other stunts. Loves to rage bait especially to women.

She’s now pregnant, probably around 4-6 months.

If she’s to be believed she’s still working and filming and her latest stunt was to hold a baby shower in which she invited strangers to urinate over her and then have sex with her.

Obviously this has created a lot of outrage and disgust and there are comments everywhere online saying that she is not only sexualising her baby but that social services should be involved.

I’m not completely convinced that she actually doing these things for real. She has an X page showing clips, but it could all be fake or AI.

But let’s say for a moment that she really is having sex with strangers and letting them urinate on her. Where is the line drawn between her body her choice and saying that she’s putting the baby at risk and social services should be involved?

I’m very much usually of the opinion of women having autonomy and choice, but it seems like very risky behaviour and the child is going to have to endure a lot of negative comments and attention because of the choices the mother is making. She doesn’t need to do these things whilst pregnant she is a millionaire.

Yabu - her body her choice
Yanbu - it’s a social services case

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RoseField1 · 11/06/2026 05:39

ThePieceHall · 10/06/2026 23:39

Yes, children do get removed on ‘hypotheticals’. It’s called risk of future harm, be it emotional or physical. Obviously, no one has a crystal ball. Both of my adopted children were removed at birth on the basis of the risk of harm.

It's not hypothetical risk, it's evidenced likelihood of future harm due to existing concerns. The risk to bonnie blue's baby is hypothetical, because there isn't any evidence that we are aware of that she will expose the baby to any harm when it's born. The risks to your children were evidenced, presumably because their birth parents had caused harm to them during pregnancy or to previous children. That's not a hypothetical risk.

RoseField1 · 11/06/2026 05:40

ThePieceHall · 10/06/2026 23:39

Yes, children do get removed on ‘hypotheticals’. It’s called risk of future harm, be it emotional or physical. Obviously, no one has a crystal ball. Both of my adopted children were removed at birth on the basis of the risk of harm.

It's not hypothetical risk, it's evidenced likelihood of future harm due to existing concerns. The risk to bonnie blue's baby is hypothetical, because there isn't any evidence that we are aware of that she will expose the baby to any harm when it's born. The risks to your children were evidenced, presumably because their birth parents had caused harm to them during pregnancy or to previous children. That's not a hypothetical risk.

JulietteHasAGun · 11/06/2026 05:45

ThePieceHall · 10/06/2026 23:39

Yes, children do get removed on ‘hypotheticals’. It’s called risk of future harm, be it emotional or physical. Obviously, no one has a crystal ball. Both of my adopted children were removed at birth on the basis of the risk of harm.

You are right in what you’re saying however there is normally something a bit more concrete that there’s a potential risk. So parents (mum) are drug users, or severe learning disabilities, or have spent time in a mother and baby unit and been deemed unable to care for their baby or are living with a convicted sex offender and refuse to safeguard their child by cutting contact, etc.

What Bonnie is doing is grim and disgusting imho but there is no hypothetical potential risk to the baby once it’s born that I can see. She has a “job” and I assume that even if she carries on with her “job” once the baby is born she will arrange childcare. She’s hardly likely to actively involve a baby in a porn shoot. 🤷‍♀️

dartmoordays · 11/06/2026 05:52

LBFseBrom · 11/06/2026 00:39

Perhaps she intends to give up all the porn business when she becomes a mother. She can change her name and it's easy to make yourself look different.
We'll never know if she does and I hope we don't hear any more of her. However I do get it's almost addictive behaviour for her. Only time will tell.

She’s inviting strange men to piss on her at her baby shower. She’s not going anywhere

Backedoffhackedoff · 11/06/2026 06:15

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 10/06/2026 22:28

I actually feel quite depressed reading that she was making £2m a MONTH from her delightful activities 😳

It angers me to think how that money could be put to real good use, not fund the lifestyle of a grim, talentless person.

The world has absolutely gone mad.

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Think of the tax revenue though. At least Bonnie blue is a rich person who pays up without whinging and fleeing to Monaco 🤣

Catladywithacat · 11/06/2026 06:27

this is so disturbing I hope that baby is taken away as soon as it’s born

pawws · 11/06/2026 07:06

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 10/06/2026 22:28

I actually feel quite depressed reading that she was making £2m a MONTH from her delightful activities 😳

It angers me to think how that money could be put to real good use, not fund the lifestyle of a grim, talentless person.

The world has absolutely gone mad.

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I think she's a sociopath, there's nothing behind the eyes. Cold as ice.

Here she is talking about how she can't leave the house without security, can't go out with her friends and sister anymore, and how she was punched in the face at a club and how she is scared of someone throwing acid in her face, plus how she gets hundreds of death threats a day. What a life. I'd rather not have the £2 million to deal with that and not to mention the disgusting day job!

https://www.msn.com/en-gb/entertainment/celebrities/bonnie-blue-reveals-downside-of-fame-and-says-i-can-t-leave-the-house-without-security/ar-AA1ITzT0

https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/bonnie-blues-nightmares-come-true-35929992

https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/bonnie-blue-admits-kids-life-37230986?int_source=nba

Words fail me with this particular exchange below, she's insane. I don't think everyone gets picked on for having Bonnie Blue as a mother! And children in the UK don't all live like that if they don't have a mother with a dodgy extreme porn job, she's different from other porn stars as it's so public.

Bonnie, real name Tia Billinger, also told the Daily Star how she will explain the "golden baby shower" to her child when they grow up. She said she will "just be very transparent", adding: "This is what I do. This is what I do to have fun. This is what I do to earn my money.

"This is what I do to provide you a nice lifestyle. I much prefer to be explaining why my child is on a private jet rather than explaining why their bike has been stolen out of the front garden and they have barbed wire on their fence."
When asked if the stunt will damage her child's life, Bonnie said: "It definitely will be difficult but I think nowadays everyone gets picked on.

"Everyone has a difficult journey for one reason or another. I can provide them with the best healthcare, a life where they don't have to work, they can travel the world and make memories.

"That is much better even if they take a bit of judgement as opposed to living this s* UK life."

She added: "You don't have to go far in the UK to see the state of some families. The kids that have dirty clothes on, the kids that can't have a full meal and parents who hair extensions but their kids look like tramps. While they still have kids, I'm going to be completely fine with my golden shower."

MSN

https://www.msn.com/en-gb/entertainment/celebrities/bonnie-blue-reveals-downside-of-fame-and-says-i-can-t-leave-the-house-without-security/ar-AA1ITzT0

sugarandcyanide · 11/06/2026 07:27

I thought she was playing a good game and didn't actually do half the stuff she said she does, but Google says that she did!

I thought it would be physically impossible to have sex with 1000 men in a day but apparently all of the men were in the same room and they had a production line going on where each man got about 30 seconds with her. They had people making sure the men were 'ready' in the queue. 😳It honestly sounds like the least sexy encounter imaginable 😂

I do think she has a private relationship though that she's not disclosing to protect her image. I think she knows who the father of the baby is.

JoCorvid · 11/06/2026 07:45

sugarandcyanide · 11/06/2026 07:27

I thought she was playing a good game and didn't actually do half the stuff she said she does, but Google says that she did!

I thought it would be physically impossible to have sex with 1000 men in a day but apparently all of the men were in the same room and they had a production line going on where each man got about 30 seconds with her. They had people making sure the men were 'ready' in the queue. 😳It honestly sounds like the least sexy encounter imaginable 😂

I do think she has a private relationship though that she's not disclosing to protect her image. I think she knows who the father of the baby is.

I was curious and watched the documentary. I’ve got a pretty strong stomach but certain scenes and discussions in it made me feel physically sick. And yeah the queuing up ‘getting ready’ just grim beyond belief. I hope whoever had to clean up the room and venue generally afterwards was considered too, I just can’t imagine 🤮

Just the thought of a woman’s bump being pissed on revolts me. The men who do that also revolt me. Her fetus may not have rights, but the disrespect is undeniable.

1dayatatime · 11/06/2026 08:23

"Just the thought of a woman’s bump being pissed on revolts me. The men who do that also revolt me. Her fetus may not have rights, but the disrespect is undeniable."

I think this is the very "shock value " angle BB is trying to achieve.

She only stays in business from creating "shock value" stunts and creating click bait rage especially amongst women gets her more publicity.

How do you create more shock and publicity than having sex with a 1000 men in a day? By firstly having unprotected sex with hundreds of men to get pregnant, then have a bunch of balaclava'ed men piss over her baby bump then have sex with multiple men thereafter.

That said the following article points towards her fading away:

https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/bonnie-blue-pregnant-stunt-real-content-creator-b2989917.this

The good news about Bonnie Blue’s vile pregnancy stunt that no one was expecting

As the OnlyFans content creator sets out to shock once more, Chloe Combi discovers that not everyone is reacting as the infamous performer might hope – and it could be her ultimate undoing

https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/bonnie-blue-pregnant-stunt-real-content-creator-b2989917.html

InconvenientlyMaterial · 11/06/2026 08:25

RoseField1 · 11/06/2026 05:32

That's a massive leap, with no evidence. Social services don't work on no evidence.

Oh absolutely! I'm not saying SS would be able to act on what has happened already (although child protection doesn't carry the same burden of proof as criminal conviction). I'm somewhat familiar with this area too. I'm also sadly aware that, whatever ought to happen , wealth does sometimes make a difference to how families are judged by SS.

As for whether it's a leap..... Perhaps, but misogyny and boundary transgression are inherent to paedophilia. And whilst it's an overwhelmingly male thing, there are occasionally women involved. I'm really curious about what drives the women who enable paedophiles, or worse.

JoCorvid · 11/06/2026 08:33

1dayatatime · 11/06/2026 08:23

"Just the thought of a woman’s bump being pissed on revolts me. The men who do that also revolt me. Her fetus may not have rights, but the disrespect is undeniable."

I think this is the very "shock value " angle BB is trying to achieve.

She only stays in business from creating "shock value" stunts and creating click bait rage especially amongst women gets her more publicity.

How do you create more shock and publicity than having sex with a 1000 men in a day? By firstly having unprotected sex with hundreds of men to get pregnant, then have a bunch of balaclava'ed men piss over her baby bump then have sex with multiple men thereafter.

That said the following article points towards her fading away:

https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/bonnie-blue-pregnant-stunt-real-content-creator-b2989917.this

Unfortunately the article you shared is paywalled. If she goes for more and more shocking god knows where that will end up!

ThePieceHall · 11/06/2026 08:35

JoCorvid · 11/06/2026 08:33

Unfortunately the article you shared is paywalled. If she goes for more and more shocking god knows where that will end up!

Just so you know, you can access any article behind a paywall for free by cutting and pasting the link and inputting it to archive.ph or archive.today. It’s an absolutely brilliant resource.

Fancythatfancyhat · 11/06/2026 08:45

I find Bonnie Blues line of marketing herself absolutely vile but it's worth remembering outrage is her brand. She's saying and doing these things not just to appeal to the men who watch her videos.but more so to get press attention and this kind of internet speculation because without it she's just a needle in a haystack. She's deliberately made this sound as disgusting as possible so we will all talk about it but it's manufactured. Likewise it's not really thousands of amateur blokes lining up up be in her videos.

Ihateboris · 11/06/2026 08:50

What concerns me about her disgusting antics, is the influence she has on young girls. She's portraying her choice in career as glamorous and liberating, and an easy way to make ££££. ..whereas most porn stars eventually suffer anxiety, burnout and regret...and sometimes worse.

Wipeywipey · 11/06/2026 08:54

Fancythatfancyhat · 11/06/2026 08:45

I find Bonnie Blues line of marketing herself absolutely vile but it's worth remembering outrage is her brand. She's saying and doing these things not just to appeal to the men who watch her videos.but more so to get press attention and this kind of internet speculation because without it she's just a needle in a haystack. She's deliberately made this sound as disgusting as possible so we will all talk about it but it's manufactured. Likewise it's not really thousands of amateur blokes lining up up be in her videos.

I completely agree.
What is so hugely concerning is that this disgust turns men on.
It actively sells.
So why are so many beauty products, cleaning products targeted at women if what men are paying for is someone like BB? Why do women spend trillions globally trying to look clean, classy and presentable?

I don't think we need to go into the whole pregnancy thing being a turn on but we also know most men would sleep with a child if they could and not ever be found out (research done several years ago).

Wipeywipey · 11/06/2026 08:58

Ihateboris · 11/06/2026 08:50

What concerns me about her disgusting antics, is the influence she has on young girls. She's portraying her choice in career as glamorous and liberating, and an easy way to make ££££. ..whereas most porn stars eventually suffer anxiety, burnout and regret...and sometimes worse.

Also true, but these days you would have to be particularly thick not to see it isn't exactly a long term option. I remember all of the pick me girls trying to tell us the page 3 models weren't being coerced but even they realise now it is all for men.

Backedoffhackedoff · 11/06/2026 09:05

1dayatatime · 11/06/2026 08:23

"Just the thought of a woman’s bump being pissed on revolts me. The men who do that also revolt me. Her fetus may not have rights, but the disrespect is undeniable."

I think this is the very "shock value " angle BB is trying to achieve.

She only stays in business from creating "shock value" stunts and creating click bait rage especially amongst women gets her more publicity.

How do you create more shock and publicity than having sex with a 1000 men in a day? By firstly having unprotected sex with hundreds of men to get pregnant, then have a bunch of balaclava'ed men piss over her baby bump then have sex with multiple men thereafter.

That said the following article points towards her fading away:

https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/bonnie-blue-pregnant-stunt-real-content-creator-b2989917.this

I agree with this. Bonnie blue has made lovely money but she won’t be taking her child on a private jet- she has been around for a couple of years and maybe has a couple more in her then that’s it. She has a short window to set her family up for life.

one of the reasons I can’t get particularly het up about her or her child’s future reputation is whilst she’s undoubtedly one in a million, dramatic porn stunts have been done many times before and those women are still alive, aging and living “normal” lives. Bonnie blue is probably unique in that she’s British so is in our face, and the others were not British. For example the woman whose “record” Bonnie blue broke for unprotected sex in a day was a Ukrainian porn star who set it in 2006. We don’t even know who she is, let alone what she’s doing now or how her kids are.

Ihateboris · 11/06/2026 09:07

I was getting a manicure recently. Two young girls (about 14/15 years of age], were sitting close to me. I overheard one of the girls saying she wanted to get her lips done. The other asked her how she was going to pay for them. Her reply: "I'll do a Bonnie ". I kid you not. Unless "I'll do a Bonnie " is a euphemism for something else, I can only assume they were referring to BB.

Wipeywipey · 11/06/2026 09:16

Backedoffhackedoff · 11/06/2026 09:05

I agree with this. Bonnie blue has made lovely money but she won’t be taking her child on a private jet- she has been around for a couple of years and maybe has a couple more in her then that’s it. She has a short window to set her family up for life.

one of the reasons I can’t get particularly het up about her or her child’s future reputation is whilst she’s undoubtedly one in a million, dramatic porn stunts have been done many times before and those women are still alive, aging and living “normal” lives. Bonnie blue is probably unique in that she’s British so is in our face, and the others were not British. For example the woman whose “record” Bonnie blue broke for unprotected sex in a day was a Ukrainian porn star who set it in 2006. We don’t even know who she is, let alone what she’s doing now or how her kids are.

We don't, but I bet a lot of men do.
The issue with it as a career choice is that you can't exactly work in many jobs afterwards for any reputable company that doesn't want to be associated with someone with very low standards.

Fancythatfancyhat · 11/06/2026 09:20

Wipeywipey · 11/06/2026 08:54

I completely agree.
What is so hugely concerning is that this disgust turns men on.
It actively sells.
So why are so many beauty products, cleaning products targeted at women if what men are paying for is someone like BB? Why do women spend trillions globally trying to look clean, classy and presentable?

I don't think we need to go into the whole pregnancy thing being a turn on but we also know most men would sleep with a child if they could and not ever be found out (research done several years ago).

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I'm not sure it turns on as many men as she is portraying though hence why she needs the money that comes through mainstream press and outrage. I completely agree a massive % of men are vile and are turned on by disgusting things but I don't think she actually has much of a demand for her niche, but she makes a lot of money being interviewed about it for shock value.

Wipeywipey · 11/06/2026 09:20

Thinking on it from a marketing angle more.
You could do a whole series of advertisements for body spray/deodorant with an anti-porn theme. Eg moaning and grunting, hot sweaty pink room with cameras and BB shouting "harder!", man grunting and thrusting - cut to woman rolling her eyes and voiceover "For women who want to smell like they have standards" and a roll on being applied with the nasty sweaty grunts in the background.

Maybe it is time for anti-porn advertising for women?

Backedoffhackedoff · 11/06/2026 09:21

Wipeywipey · 11/06/2026 09:16

We don't, but I bet a lot of men do.
The issue with it as a career choice is that you can't exactly work in many jobs afterwards for any reputable company that doesn't want to be associated with someone with very low standards.

That’s assuming a) you need to work b) you stay in the uk and c) you don’t change your name etc.

she’s clearly unlikely to go and work for pwc but that’s not to say she either will need a £40k a year role, or can’t do something else.

Backedoffhackedoff · 11/06/2026 09:23

Fancythatfancyhat · 11/06/2026 09:20

I'm not sure it turns on as many men as she is portraying though hence why she needs the money that comes through mainstream press and outrage. I completely agree a massive % of men are vile and are turned on by disgusting things but I don't think she actually has much of a demand for her niche, but she makes a lot of money being interviewed about it for shock value.

I agree with this. Of the men I know well enough to be confident, I am genuinely sure not one of them would want to do this. They’d be embarrassed, ashamed and awkward. And I think that is a normal male response

watching it is one thing-the reality of queuing in a sperm stinking staircase wearing a balaclava and socks and wanking in front of hundreds of men is quite another

Frequency · 11/06/2026 09:27

My guess is that she will either fade into obscurity, change her name, and leave the UK once she's made enough money, or she will change her tactic and speak out about past abuse, coercion, etc., and try to find work as a public speaker and/or author against the porn industry, a la Linda Lovelace.

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