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Bonnie blue risky sexual behaviour whilst pregnant

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Jellysweets13 · 10/06/2026 17:22

If you’re not interested in discussing this then feel free to scroll on by.

A lot of us will know who Bonnie Blue is. The porn star who slept with 1000 men and various other stunts. Loves to rage bait especially to women.

She’s now pregnant, probably around 4-6 months.

If she’s to be believed she’s still working and filming and her latest stunt was to hold a baby shower in which she invited strangers to urinate over her and then have sex with her.

Obviously this has created a lot of outrage and disgust and there are comments everywhere online saying that she is not only sexualising her baby but that social services should be involved.

I’m not completely convinced that she actually doing these things for real. She has an X page showing clips, but it could all be fake or AI.

But let’s say for a moment that she really is having sex with strangers and letting them urinate on her. Where is the line drawn between her body her choice and saying that she’s putting the baby at risk and social services should be involved?

I’m very much usually of the opinion of women having autonomy and choice, but it seems like very risky behaviour and the child is going to have to endure a lot of negative comments and attention because of the choices the mother is making. She doesn’t need to do these things whilst pregnant she is a millionaire.

Yabu - her body her choice
Yanbu - it’s a social services case

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Fancythatfancyhat · 11/06/2026 09:32

Backedoffhackedoff · 11/06/2026 09:23

I agree with this. Of the men I know well enough to be confident, I am genuinely sure not one of them would want to do this. They’d be embarrassed, ashamed and awkward. And I think that is a normal male response

watching it is one thing-the reality of queuing in a sperm stinking staircase wearing a balaclava and socks and wanking in front of hundreds of men is quite another

Its so designed for media outrage that I don't think it's even sexual to most people, even most men. It's all to get people talking about the idea that hundreds or thousands of men would wait and queue to have 30s of sex with her or Lilly philips or any of the rest of them but it's not real. Sure there are some real life losers who do attend to take part but it's mostly packed out with other professional male only fans/ male porn stars. No one is actually counting that there are 100 or 1000 different men there, it's just a marketing ploy and gross porn headline similar to porn suggesting all the actors are some sort of step-family. It's such old hat tbh! There have been Bonnie Blues before performing shocking and degrading stunts with hundreds of men, she's trying to market herself as some kind of record breaker but it's just her 15 minutes of fame before she is forgotten

SonK · 11/06/2026 09:40

Roaroutthetree · 11/06/2026 00:14

This is an unacceptable statement. People don’t just ‘kill themselves’ because of others. People kill themselves because they’re suffering severe mental illness

Severe mental illness caused by bullying and severe taunting is a cause for suicidal deaths in young people between the ages of 12 -20. It happens a lot actually and I know of one popular case whereby the child of a prostitute / pornstar committed suicide.

InconvenientlyMaterial · 11/06/2026 09:45

Wipeywipey · 11/06/2026 08:54

I completely agree.
What is so hugely concerning is that this disgust turns men on.
It actively sells.
So why are so many beauty products, cleaning products targeted at women if what men are paying for is someone like BB? Why do women spend trillions globally trying to look clean, classy and presentable?

I don't think we need to go into the whole pregnancy thing being a turn on but we also know most men would sleep with a child if they could and not ever be found out (research done several years ago).

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I get what your saying but BB totally follows the same "beauty" fashions that we're told are aspirational. That's probably why so many people refused to believe she wasn't older at first. She's got that identikit filler/highlights/tan look that stops young women looking youthful.

Maybe there's something slightly depersonalising about that aesthetic too, which attracts a certain male? Does it make women look less "real" therefore it's ok to do whatever?

I boak to think what these events must smell like though.

Glowingup · 11/06/2026 09:52

SonK · 11/06/2026 09:40

Severe mental illness caused by bullying and severe taunting is a cause for suicidal deaths in young people between the ages of 12 -20. It happens a lot actually and I know of one popular case whereby the child of a prostitute / pornstar committed suicide.

She will probably raise the sort of kid who will trade on it. I also suspect that if she wants to give motherhood a go, she will move abroad where people don’t give as much of a shit, stick the kid in a private international school and use her real name.

JoCorvid · 11/06/2026 10:49

@InconvenientlyMaterial ”I boak to think what these events must smell like though”
Me too 🤢

Dustifyoumust · 11/06/2026 10:52

Fancythatfancyhat · 11/06/2026 08:45

I find Bonnie Blues line of marketing herself absolutely vile but it's worth remembering outrage is her brand. She's saying and doing these things not just to appeal to the men who watch her videos.but more so to get press attention and this kind of internet speculation because without it she's just a needle in a haystack. She's deliberately made this sound as disgusting as possible so we will all talk about it but it's manufactured. Likewise it's not really thousands of amateur blokes lining up up be in her videos.

This is exactly my point too. To make the mega bucks in the porn world now you need to do some pretty extreme things to get attention. She’s willing to go there and do just that. But there is a lot of smoke and mirrors in it all. This event could have taken place months ago and be being marketed as happening now. Maybe she was faking a pregnancy then and is actually pregnant now, knowing she can’t work whilst pregnant so prepared a load of content in advance.

Backedoffhackedoff · 11/06/2026 10:53

Dustifyoumust · 11/06/2026 10:52

This is exactly my point too. To make the mega bucks in the porn world now you need to do some pretty extreme things to get attention. She’s willing to go there and do just that. But there is a lot of smoke and mirrors in it all. This event could have taken place months ago and be being marketed as happening now. Maybe she was faking a pregnancy then and is actually pregnant now, knowing she can’t work whilst pregnant so prepared a load of content in advance.

This is a fair point and I think you could well be right

Dustifyoumust · 11/06/2026 10:59

Wipeywipey · 11/06/2026 08:54

I completely agree.
What is so hugely concerning is that this disgust turns men on.
It actively sells.
So why are so many beauty products, cleaning products targeted at women if what men are paying for is someone like BB? Why do women spend trillions globally trying to look clean, classy and presentable?

I don't think we need to go into the whole pregnancy thing being a turn on but we also know most men would sleep with a child if they could and not ever be found out (research done several years ago).

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Because of the old whore/angel dichotomy. Men want to degrade the dirty whore for their fun but marry the clean, shiny angel.

Fancythatfancyhat · 11/06/2026 11:02

Dustifyoumust · 11/06/2026 10:52

This is exactly my point too. To make the mega bucks in the porn world now you need to do some pretty extreme things to get attention. She’s willing to go there and do just that. But there is a lot of smoke and mirrors in it all. This event could have taken place months ago and be being marketed as happening now. Maybe she was faking a pregnancy then and is actually pregnant now, knowing she can’t work whilst pregnant so prepared a load of content in advance.

This is a very good point, it's worth remembering every porn star / only fans person is an actor and you can never take their content at face value.

Jellysweets13 · 11/06/2026 11:12

It is of course perfectly possible that the whole thing has been faked and was filmed beforehand.

However I’m not sure that is the case she is a slim petite woman and has quite noticeably put on weight not just her bump but her face, arms, hips so you can tell what was filmed beforehand and after.

Of course there’s no way of knowing anything 100%

I do wonder if she has a long term plan. Will she disappear once she’s made enough money. I actually think that she wants to make it into regular influencing and advertising. So I don’t think she’ll be going anywhere, she’s hungry for money and fame.

She’s talking about live streaming the birth and auctioning the babies name.

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Dustifyoumust · 11/06/2026 11:31

The birth livestream thing is very Katie Price/Kardashians.
And she can say she will auction the name and pretend she’s called it whatever grotesque moniker someone comes up with. Doesn’t have to be true.
I still maintain she isn’t pregnant. And that there will be breastfeeding/adult baby content to follow.

DelphinoPlaza · 11/06/2026 14:51

She’s pregnant, she has a YouTube channel showing her in a bikini.

Plus she’s still making porn content right? So the bump will be visible. There’s no way she’s faking a 5 month pregnancy.

She is pregnant this time

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shuggles · 11/06/2026 17:31

@throwawayimplantchat She’s saying “piss all over my pregnant body then fuck me” in the promo videos. You don’t think that is a form of degradation? You don’t think the men who want to “piss all over” a pregnant woman are degrading them?

Degradation exists within our minds.

If you think those acts are degrading, then those acts are degrading for you. Your perspective is completely true and valid for you... and you only.

I don't think urinating on someone, or buying urinated on, or having sex with a woman is degrading to me or the woman. That perspective is true and valid for me, and me only.

I don't really understand the whole "degradation" and "domination / submission" thing, and I've never seen sex that way, Personally, I find it a bit weird.

throwawayimplantchat · 11/06/2026 18:00

shuggles · 11/06/2026 17:31

@throwawayimplantchat She’s saying “piss all over my pregnant body then fuck me” in the promo videos. You don’t think that is a form of degradation? You don’t think the men who want to “piss all over” a pregnant woman are degrading them?

Degradation exists within our minds.

If you think those acts are degrading, then those acts are degrading for you. Your perspective is completely true and valid for you... and you only.

I don't think urinating on someone, or buying urinated on, or having sex with a woman is degrading to me or the woman. That perspective is true and valid for me, and me only.

I don't really understand the whole "degradation" and "domination / submission" thing, and I've never seen sex that way, Personally, I find it a bit weird.

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Fair enough you wouldn’t personally find it degrading for your pregnant bump to be ‘pissed on’ by a stranger. Something she specifically allowed. Horses for courses I guess.

TheTealHiker · 11/06/2026 20:29

Dustifyoumust · 11/06/2026 11:31

The birth livestream thing is very Katie Price/Kardashians.
And she can say she will auction the name and pretend she’s called it whatever grotesque moniker someone comes up with. Doesn’t have to be true.
I still maintain she isn’t pregnant. And that there will be breastfeeding/adult baby content to follow.

I agree that she isn't pregnant.

She said she could only get pregnant by IVF.

Her problem now is that she is running out of outrageous and disgusting sexual events to promote.(Although she hasn't done a "back door" event as far as I know)

So she is moving on to fetishes.😮

TheStepboardisfullofbitteroddos · 11/06/2026 22:00

Ponoka7 · 10/06/2026 20:40

@TheStepboardisfullofbitteroddos you don't understand risky sexual behaviour? The fact that she is having sex with men who also indulge in risky sexual behaviour? You honestly see no difference between being in a relationship and going into a room with dozens of men, who are happy to use a woman as a piece of meat, while heavily pregnant?

She has security and is in control of what's allowed.

Women are more likely to be abused by someone they know aren't they?
Domestic violence soars during pregnancy.

So I'm not sure you can say hers is a bigger risk. A bigger risk of future prolapses maybe, bigger risk of stds yes but actual big risk, I'm not sure. Sex doesn't harm foetuses. One husband penis is no different to 10 random ones.

I think what she's doing is gross but people calling her a pedo is a bit much.

AnneShirleyBlythe · 11/06/2026 22:07

Samysungy · 10/06/2026 18:58

So women who have sex when pregnant all need reporting to social services? Why?

Come on! How is this remotely like normal pregnant women having sex? Or did you have strangers pissing on you when pregnant?

WhatWouldDianeLockhartDo · 12/06/2026 07:18

shuggles · 11/06/2026 17:31

@throwawayimplantchat She’s saying “piss all over my pregnant body then fuck me” in the promo videos. You don’t think that is a form of degradation? You don’t think the men who want to “piss all over” a pregnant woman are degrading them?

Degradation exists within our minds.

If you think those acts are degrading, then those acts are degrading for you. Your perspective is completely true and valid for you... and you only.

I don't think urinating on someone, or buying urinated on, or having sex with a woman is degrading to me or the woman. That perspective is true and valid for me, and me only.

I don't really understand the whole "degradation" and "domination / submission" thing, and I've never seen sex that way, Personally, I find it a bit weird.

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Our minds and the minds of those doing it to her. She may not find it degrading but I’d comfortably bet the man urinating on her thinks he is degrading her and is getting off on it. All fair game if you’re into it… until a baby is involved and it’s public fodder.

InconvenientlyMaterial · 12/06/2026 09:36

WhatWouldDianeLockhartDo · 12/06/2026 07:18

Our minds and the minds of those doing it to her. She may not find it degrading but I’d comfortably bet the man urinating on her thinks he is degrading her and is getting off on it. All fair game if you’re into it… until a baby is involved and it’s public fodder.

Totally.

Misogyny (much like ableism, homophobia or racism) is still a thing regardless of the existence of one woman (or disabled person/ gay person/ person of colour) who makes money out of people abusing them.

You can't completely remove this scenario from the societal context it sits within.

SilverPink · 12/06/2026 09:52

TheTealHiker · 11/06/2026 20:29

I agree that she isn't pregnant.

She said she could only get pregnant by IVF.

Her problem now is that she is running out of outrageous and disgusting sexual events to promote.(Although she hasn't done a "back door" event as far as I know)

So she is moving on to fetishes.😮

I think she’s absolutely pregnant. There’s a video online of her posing for pictures with two blokes in a hotel lobby or something abroad. She’s got a massive baby bump and her arms, breasts and face are all very pudgy, obvious pregnancy symptoms. She’s always been very slim and slight, you can see her body has changed from, say, six months ago.

Letsgetthiswrongagain · 12/06/2026 10:52

Her mom was posing in a “nanna to be” T-shirt in March.

throwawayimplantchat · 12/06/2026 11:03

On her Twitter page there is a video of a man dressed as a kids tv character rubbing her bump and then having sex with her while choking her.

She is also planning to live stream the birth to her fans, who she knows follow her specifically to masturbate to her content.

She is planning to ‘sell off’ the baby’s name to her fans, who she knows follow her specially to masturbate to her content.

She is making the baby the central theme of her content now. I hope as soon as it’s born (if nothing can be done before) there are some serious assessments by SS.

She is definitely pregnant, her face and the rest of her body have changed noticeably she hasn’t just got a bump.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/06/2026 11:22

God help us all.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/06/2026 11:26

throwawayimplantchat · 11/06/2026 18:00

Fair enough you wouldn’t personally find it degrading for your pregnant bump to be ‘pissed on’ by a stranger. Something she specifically allowed. Horses for courses I guess.

Horses for courses 🤣

Everytime I come online and think I’ve read all there is to read I find something else that sinks humanity just a bit further into oblivion. Let’s monetise our kids by allowing strangers to piss on them whilst in utereo. Horses for courses!