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To be totally APPALLED by how Robinson referred to Henry Nowak in his “speech” in Southampton on Tuesday?

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Whereismyjoiedevivre · 04/06/2026 09:22

I’ve just seen a clip of this in a Guardian article on the main agitators in Southampton on Tuesday.
TR refers to Henry Nowak in this way: “White privilege?! Does Henry swear word beginning with F Nowak look as if he had white privilege when he was lying on the floor?”
He then smirks as he looks down, clearly proud of himself for delivering such an eloquent speech [sarcasm].
I’m beyond disgusted by how the name of this beautiful young man, who has lost his life in the most brutal way, was used in such a disrespectful way in order to rouse a rabble and boost TR’s ego.
AIBU to say that over the last two days TR, NF and their ilk are really showing us who they are and what motivates them?

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LuckyHazelFox · 04/06/2026 12:58

ChunkyMonkey36 · 04/06/2026 12:55

Were you on here saying the same thing when that profiling wasn’t targeted towards white people?

I did ask..

What part of balance needs to be struck don't you get? Ah, you're from the other thread. Didn't a poster just say certain posters repeat the same things over threads. Works both ways. I've got some work to do so excuse me if I don't get back to you.

QuintadosMalvados · 04/06/2026 12:58

Jellox · 04/06/2026 12:22

No I’m giving statistics and common sense.

If you don’t believe me that TR will get less support on this thread this evening, come back to it and see for yourself.

It seems to me that you're implying that the people disagreeing with the OP are somehow less intelligent than those posting later in the day.

Yet here you are posting at the same time as them. 😁

I'm not saying that those on the left are always solipsistic, nor indeed am I saying that you are left wing, but it does seem to be a trait.

OneTealShaker · 04/06/2026 12:59

Regardless or your view on Robinson, and he’s a shady character, the fact that you have to really scrape the bottom of the barrel and reach in order to find a way to deflect from the issue shows how wokery is fast going out of fashion.

Keep trying to gaslight people into thinking there is no problem with two tier policing, you are losing the argument. Everyone can see what is happening. Two tier policing is real.

olivepicanto · 04/06/2026 13:00

OP. I'm only surprised that you're surprised.

Tommy is a sad, pathetic little man who appeals to the dregs of society.

HobGobblynne · 04/06/2026 13:00

LuckyHazelFox · 04/06/2026 12:48

You need to warm down after that huge stretch. Some people want the balance to finally be smack bang in the middle - no favours or castigation to ANY race or religion.

But if every time there is any violence between two people with different levels of melanin we make it a race issue, we'll never get anywhere.

Henry was failed by the attending officers in this case. Horrendously. But there is no evidence that it's because he was white. The court said it wasn't racially motivated, Henry's parents said the same and yet we're supposed to defer to TR & NF's superior knowledge of the intricacies of the case?

5128gap · 04/06/2026 13:01

PenelopePinkerton · 04/06/2026 12:37

And you are part of the problem. I’m left of centre but need to hear the opinions of those who are further right than me.

Nonsense. My choice of what to engage with on mumsnet has absolutely no influence at all on any problem.
Just because I have no interest in hearing from supporters of SYL on a discussion forum, it doesn't mean I am closed minded or uneducated about the views of others.
And even if I were, that doesn't make me responsible for the actions of murderers, rioters and the police.

ChunkyMonkey36 · 04/06/2026 13:02

LuckyHazelFox · 04/06/2026 12:58

What part of balance needs to be struck don't you get? Ah, you're from the other thread. Didn't a poster just say certain posters repeat the same things over threads. Works both ways. I've got some work to do so excuse me if I don't get back to you.

Balance would involve having been as publicly concerned about the racial profiling of non white people as you are now.

Otherwise, that’s not balance - is it.

You’ve neglected to answer my question on that twice now. Let’s therefore go with not actually balanced.

Ta very much, enjoy work!

napody · 04/06/2026 13:03

OneTealShaker · 04/06/2026 12:59

Regardless or your view on Robinson, and he’s a shady character, the fact that you have to really scrape the bottom of the barrel and reach in order to find a way to deflect from the issue shows how wokery is fast going out of fashion.

Keep trying to gaslight people into thinking there is no problem with two tier policing, you are losing the argument. Everyone can see what is happening. Two tier policing is real.

Bullshit. Evidence of two tier policing? Because this awful tragedy isn't.

And if by wokery you mean 'not being racist', sadly you're right. Not being racist is definitely going out of fashion. Doesn't make racism OK.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 04/06/2026 13:03

Abhannmor · 04/06/2026 12:51

I must admit to being astonished at how deftly TR - and the far right in general - can flip the narrative to suit the circumstances. His followers either don't notice or don't care. For example Poles and other east European and Balkan people were blamed for all of society's ills less than 10 years ago. And Sikhs were often praised as ' the good brown people '. Fast forward.

Then there's the attitude to the police. After the murder of Sarah Everard , Nigel Farage made a statement calling for calm. It would be wrong to start blaming all police officers or all men he said . Likewise he fully supported the police after the Manchester Airport punch up. But now....they are just a goon squad oppressing white people and it's open season on them. Nauseating levels of hypocrisy.
Of course he is quite right that one should not generalise about people on the basis of their sex , religion or nationality. It's just not his strong suit though.

This! But NF supporters don’t seem to appreciate any level of complexity or nuance.

olivepicanto · 04/06/2026 13:03

IrnBruAndDietCoke · 04/06/2026 09:37

FFS people are getting killed and the left are STILL arguing over semantics. 🤦‍♀️

What about those who are not "the left"? It's quite a childish view to take. Lefties or right.

InOverMyHead84 · 04/06/2026 13:04

Poor taste to use the word like that. But, as vile as TR is. His point is sound here.

Focusing on an offensive word in this context rather than the poor lads death is everything wrong with how we go about things in example.

QuintadosMalvados · 04/06/2026 13:05

secretllama · 04/06/2026 12:41

Exactly.... People being called jobless and inarticulate on this thread when they have different opinions, so mature.

Totally ignoring of course that they are posting at the same time of day! 😁

allthingsinmoderation · 04/06/2026 13:06

Im not a fan of Mr Robinson but if thats what you are "APPALLED" at in the matter of Henry Novaks murder and the police handling of this matter there is something very ,very wrong with you......

Grammarnut · 04/06/2026 13:07

LuckyHazelFox · 04/06/2026 09:23

He's spot on.

Assuming you mean that TR is spot on in debunking any idea about white privilege. Henry Novak was treated as he was by the police because he was white and a brown man accused him of racism. And you can hear that happening on the bodycam footage - if you can bear to watch it.

QuintadosMalvados · 04/06/2026 13:07

allthingsinmoderation · 04/06/2026 13:06

Im not a fan of Mr Robinson but if thats what you are "APPALLED" at in the matter of Henry Novaks murder and the police handling of this matter there is something very ,very wrong with you......

Yep.

Whereismyjoiedevivre · 04/06/2026 13:08

Megifer · 04/06/2026 10:22

Im not a fan of the thug, but I do think you have hugely misunderstood unfortunately. There are so many things that could be used to discredit TR. His use of a swear word to punctuate a sentence is very weak one and just looks like youre grasping at straws.

He used the word Fuck to “punctuate” Henry Nowaks’s name.

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ChunkyMonkey36 · 04/06/2026 13:09

allthingsinmoderation · 04/06/2026 13:06

Im not a fan of Mr Robinson but if thats what you are "APPALLED" at in the matter of Henry Novaks murder and the police handling of this matter there is something very ,very wrong with you......

Can we accept that you can be appalled by Henry Nowak’s death, and the way it happened, and think TR is an opportunistic arsehole?

piscofrisco · 04/06/2026 13:10

LuckyHazelFox · 04/06/2026 12:45

That poster has done the left's cause no favours. Straight out of a 6th form bully girl pack.

Dunno. Maybe to quote the right, ‘enough is enough’ and we ‘need to start calling things out as what they are’. After all, ‘You can’t say anything without people being offended these days’ and it’s gone too far.

Id say people lobbing bricks and failing to respect the wishes of the family of a murder victim, whilst conflating the actions of two very sub standard police officers and one vile Sikh murderer, with society in general and Sikhs in general, probably aren’t very bright at best, are unlikely to be employed at senior leadership level and at worst are actually our biggest problem. In fact in my view anyone rioting outside police stations is a scum bag whatever they think they are doing it for.

Just my opinion and as we have free speech in this country (which my grandad fought for etc etc) then surely it’s fine for me to say it and hold these prejudices as if they are fact?

KeepPumping · 04/06/2026 13:11

secretllama · 04/06/2026 12:41

Exactly.... People being called jobless and inarticulate on this thread when they have different opinions, so mature.

But like calling people "racist" because they want proper border control for example, no one really cares anymore, the agenda and danger of those who seek to ban others they deem "thick" from taking part in democracy is well flagged up now, they know they are being watched and called out at every step.

Screamingabdabz · 04/06/2026 13:12

Unfortunately the liberal left are to blame for the rise of these unsavoury right parties. When the educated and privileged classes shut down debate and gaslight ordinary people, like they have for decades, the anger and frustration only goes one way.

The left have always said that uncontrolled mass immigration was great, the EU was great and that the country was benefitting, but ordinary hard working people just saw their towns degrading, their services degrading, British life being eroded and seeing more unfettered and unhealthy cultural influx but no politicians addressing it satisfactorily.

When politicians and people in authority lie and whitewash what people are seeing with their own eyes, in their own communities, they will turn to extreme parties and anyone speaking honestly who echo their frustrations and feelings.

Grammarnut · 04/06/2026 13:12

I have no time for Nigel Farage and so little for T. Robinson it would fit on a pinhead. However, it is very obvious that Henry Novak died as he did because the police are steeped in the idea that white privilege exists and that accusations of racism must always be believed. I am not sure where in the minutes when Henry Novak's life ended that the police realised he was bleeding to death, but a by-stander points out to them that his mouth is full of blood and the officers take no notice, whilst agreeing with Digwa's brother (or Digwa, not entirely clear) that Henry Novak has NOT been stabbed - though how they can know that or know that he knows that is obscure.

Whereismyjoiedevivre · 04/06/2026 13:13

allthingsinmoderation · 04/06/2026 13:06

Im not a fan of Mr Robinson but if thats what you are "APPALLED" at in the matter of Henry Novaks murder and the police handling of this matter there is something very ,very wrong with you......

I’m appalled by everything but that’s not what my post is about. Do you understand that?

Some posters don’t understand that there’s a particular aspect of this tragedy I wanted to raise - they just seem to have spotted the key words and had a kneejerk response to it.

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KeepPumping · 04/06/2026 13:14

Grammarnut · 04/06/2026 13:07

Assuming you mean that TR is spot on in debunking any idea about white privilege. Henry Novak was treated as he was by the police because he was white and a brown man accused him of racism. And you can hear that happening on the bodycam footage - if you can bear to watch it.

Maybe the police involved should be jailed as well as sacked?

Owlsintheforest · 04/06/2026 13:14

Whereismyjoiedevivre · 04/06/2026 13:08

He used the word Fuck to “punctuate” Henry Nowaks’s name.

why are you wasting your energy on nitpicking what TR has said? Don’t you think it’d be more productive to be complaining to Hampshire Police and other governing bodies about their appalling treatment of Henry?

RestlessSnail · 04/06/2026 13:14

I've not seen this, but it does sound awful.

The march was never about Henry Nowak though. His parents have released a statement saying that they don't want his murder to fuel division and asking for there not to be protests.

To me, going ahead against the wishes of his grieving parents shows the motives more than any language. It's thay which disgusts me most.