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To be totally APPALLED by how Robinson referred to Henry Nowak in his “speech” in Southampton on Tuesday?

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Whereismyjoiedevivre · 04/06/2026 09:22

I’ve just seen a clip of this in a Guardian article on the main agitators in Southampton on Tuesday.
TR refers to Henry Nowak in this way: “White privilege?! Does Henry swear word beginning with F Nowak look as if he had white privilege when he was lying on the floor?”
He then smirks as he looks down, clearly proud of himself for delivering such an eloquent speech [sarcasm].
I’m beyond disgusted by how the name of this beautiful young man, who has lost his life in the most brutal way, was used in such a disrespectful way in order to rouse a rabble and boost TR’s ego.
AIBU to say that over the last two days TR, NF and their ilk are really showing us who they are and what motivates them?

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CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 12:43

BackToLurk · 05/06/2026 12:16

You seem remarkably comfortable with people making derogatory remarks about groups based on their nationality or ethnic background. Those sort of broad brush remarks include everyone with the particular characteristic referenced. They don’t exclude some individuals. That’s why most people find such remarks objectionable. Not you though hey.

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Calling out your demonstrably false claims is not the same as ‘being comfortable with remarks about groups based on their nationality or ethnic background’. What a reach!

This thread is about Tommy Robinson not Nigel Farage btw, there are lots of more relevant threads about him you can contribute to.

BackToLurk · 05/06/2026 12:49

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 12:43

Calling out your demonstrably false claims is not the same as ‘being comfortable with remarks about groups based on their nationality or ethnic background’. What a reach!

This thread is about Tommy Robinson not Nigel Farage btw, there are lots of more relevant threads about him you can contribute to.

Do you honestly not understand that when a public figure, or anyone else, makes sweeping generalisations about a group of people it includes everyone in that group? So when someone talks about Eastern Europeans they mean all Eastern Europeans, including Henry Nowak's relatives. As I said, you'd have to be pretty comfortable with referring to people like that to not see the problem.

ETA I think your defence of TR's remarks also indicate that you are more than comfortable with generalisations about groups of people.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 12:54

BackToLurk · 05/06/2026 12:21

Well let’s say we accept your rather bizarre defence. The guidance you’re referring to is about ‘race’ in general isn’t it? So the question still remains, why did TR use Pakistani Muslims’. Why not say ‘black and brown people’ or ‘non-whites’ or whatever term TR uses. Honestly your desperation to pretend he doesn’t have an agenda is laughable.

I’ve explained that already if you look back.

Why not say ‘black and brown people’ or ‘non-whites’

Why do you think he should lump all ‘black and brown’ people together or call them ‘non white’ on this topic? He’s talking about criminals, two tier policing and the very specific groups that benefit.

Do you realise how extremely racist that would be ? Yet you were the one who said it, and not TR.

Honestly your desperation to pretend he doesn’t have an agenda is laughable.

His ‘agenda’ is calling out two tier policing, grooming gangs and general issues caused by certain types of immigration. I haven’t claimed he hasn’t got an agenda, your desperation to stop people from discussing it is the worrying issue here.

LuckyHazelFox · 05/06/2026 12:57

Shakeoffyourchains · 05/06/2026 12:38

Tbf you change your username so often that even if I did take the time to find a quote I suspect was you I'm sure you'd just deny it 🤷‍♀️

And I wouldn't say the right have no standards, you just have no conviction and your standards change like the wind.

Take your illustrious leader for example, Mr Farage, who in the wake of Sarah Everard's deaths said "We must not allow the tragic murder of a young woman to turn into attacks on men and the police". Fast forward a few years and he's now saying that in the wake of Henry Nowak's murder that he "suggests that the rest of us respond to this with pure cold rage."

So when a woman is raped and murdered by an actual police officer we should remain calm and measured and not blame the police but when a man is murdered by another man and the police response is inadequate we should all respond with pure, cold rage towards the police. A confused message from the right as ever.

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What on earth are you talking about? I didn't get past your opening paragraph!

ChunkyMonkey36 · 05/06/2026 12:57

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 12:54

I’ve explained that already if you look back.

Why not say ‘black and brown people’ or ‘non-whites’

Why do you think he should lump all ‘black and brown’ people together or call them ‘non white’ on this topic? He’s talking about criminals, two tier policing and the very specific groups that benefit.

Do you realise how extremely racist that would be ? Yet you were the one who said it, and not TR.

Honestly your desperation to pretend he doesn’t have an agenda is laughable.

His ‘agenda’ is calling out two tier policing, grooming gangs and general issues caused by certain types of immigration. I haven’t claimed he hasn’t got an agenda, your desperation to stop people from discussing it is the worrying issue here.

I think people should stop discussing both immigration and grooming gangs in this situation, yes.

Neither of them are relevant. There were no immigrants involved (certainly none first generation), and the Sikh murderer has exactly zero to do with Muslim grooming gangs.

Involving either of those two things is just twisting the narrative to suit an agenda, that you at least accept he does have.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 13:00

BackToLurk · 05/06/2026 12:49

Do you honestly not understand that when a public figure, or anyone else, makes sweeping generalisations about a group of people it includes everyone in that group? So when someone talks about Eastern Europeans they mean all Eastern Europeans, including Henry Nowak's relatives. As I said, you'd have to be pretty comfortable with referring to people like that to not see the problem.

ETA I think your defence of TR's remarks also indicate that you are more than comfortable with generalisations about groups of people.

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Yet here you are making racist suggestions on language that would make TR blush.

Whereismyjoiedevivre · 05/06/2026 13:17

LuckyHazelFox · 05/06/2026 12:57

What on earth are you talking about? I didn't get past your opening paragraph!

In that case you understand how some of us feel when we read your posts.

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BackToLurk · 05/06/2026 13:18

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 12:54

I’ve explained that already if you look back.

Why not say ‘black and brown people’ or ‘non-whites’

Why do you think he should lump all ‘black and brown’ people together or call them ‘non white’ on this topic? He’s talking about criminals, two tier policing and the very specific groups that benefit.

Do you realise how extremely racist that would be ? Yet you were the one who said it, and not TR.

Honestly your desperation to pretend he doesn’t have an agenda is laughable.

His ‘agenda’ is calling out two tier policing, grooming gangs and general issues caused by certain types of immigration. I haven’t claimed he hasn’t got an agenda, your desperation to stop people from discussing it is the worrying issue here.

He’s talking about criminals, two tier policing and the very specific groups that benefit.
Do you realise how extremely racist that would be ? Yet you were the one who said it, and not TR.

Your argument is now that the alleged beneficiaries of two-tier policing are just Pakistani-Muslims? Or is that TR’s argument? You said he was responding to a problem that is . “literally written into the guidance”. Is the guidance only about the treatment of Pakistani Muslims?

BackToLurk · 05/06/2026 13:19

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 13:00

Yet here you are making racist suggestions on language that would make TR blush.

I’m going to need to see evidence and an explanation of that accusation.

BackToLurk · 05/06/2026 13:22

ChunkyMonkey36 · 05/06/2026 12:57

I think people should stop discussing both immigration and grooming gangs in this situation, yes.

Neither of them are relevant. There were no immigrants involved (certainly none first generation), and the Sikh murderer has exactly zero to do with Muslim grooming gangs.

Involving either of those two things is just twisting the narrative to suit an agenda, that you at least accept he does have.

I wonder what ‘certain types of immigration’ are.

LuckyHazelFox · 05/06/2026 13:25

Whereismyjoiedevivre · 05/06/2026 13:17

In that case you understand how some of us feel when we read your posts.

Ah the pack mentality. The echo chamber that you want to keep like that. Somebody disagreeing with you means I'm a Reform bot, have changed my name etc. Why don't you try playing the man and not the ball @shakeoffyourchains. Get a grip and try seeing people exist that don't have to have a hate for everything you do and see everything your way. Personal attacks are against community guidelines as you well know. Didn't you have one of my posts deleted? Obviously I meant play the ball and not the man.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 13:25

ChunkyMonkey36 · 05/06/2026 12:57

I think people should stop discussing both immigration and grooming gangs in this situation, yes.

Neither of them are relevant. There were no immigrants involved (certainly none first generation), and the Sikh murderer has exactly zero to do with Muslim grooming gangs.

Involving either of those two things is just twisting the narrative to suit an agenda, that you at least accept he does have.

I mean, you can’t discuss two tier policing without acknowledging that a key driver of the policies is immigration of people of colour, and many with specific religious practices incompatible with our society and laws. If there weren’t poc/specific religions immigrating to this country (at some point) you wouldn’t have the second tier for the different treatment by police in this context.

But I guess that’s your aim isn’t it. Do you work for Kier Starmer by any chance?

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 13:28

BackToLurk · 05/06/2026 13:19

I’m going to need to see evidence and an explanation of that accusation.

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Try reading your post at 12.21 if you’ve forgotten

BackToLurk · Today 12:21
Well let’s say we accept your rather bizarre defence. The guidance you’re referring to is about ‘race’ in general isn’t it? So the question still remains, why did TR use Pakistani Muslims’. Why not say ‘black and brown people’ or ‘non-whites’ or whatever term TR uses. Honestly your desperation to pretend he doesn’t have an agenda is laughable.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 13:32

BackToLurk · 05/06/2026 13:18

He’s talking about criminals, two tier policing and the very specific groups that benefit.
Do you realise how extremely racist that would be ? Yet you were the one who said it, and not TR.

Your argument is now that the alleged beneficiaries of two-tier policing are just Pakistani-Muslims? Or is that TR’s argument? You said he was responding to a problem that is . “literally written into the guidance”. Is the guidance only about the treatment of Pakistani Muslims?

Oh dear. Do you understand what an example is? Did you want him to lift the country of origin and religion of all cards he knows debut? It might have made his speech a bit long and far less impactful.

Did you miss the bit where you made an utterly racist suggestion? Are you just glossing over that bit or are you going to acknowledge it? I shared it for you just now as a reminder.

Whereismyjoiedevivre · 05/06/2026 13:32

LuckyHazelFox · 05/06/2026 13:25

Ah the pack mentality. The echo chamber that you want to keep like that. Somebody disagreeing with you means I'm a Reform bot, have changed my name etc. Why don't you try playing the man and not the ball @shakeoffyourchains. Get a grip and try seeing people exist that don't have to have a hate for everything you do and see everything your way. Personal attacks are against community guidelines as you well know. Didn't you have one of my posts deleted? Obviously I meant play the ball and not the man.

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I’m not @Shakeoffyourchains

Keep up!

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LuckyHazelFox · 05/06/2026 13:34

Whereismyjoiedevivre · 05/06/2026 13:32

I’m not @Shakeoffyourchains

Keep up!

I know that. I was addressing both of you at the same time. Is that OK? I think that's fairly obvious as I put a tag in my post.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 14:01

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 13:32

Oh dear. Do you understand what an example is? Did you want him to lift the country of origin and religion of all cards he knows debut? It might have made his speech a bit long and far less impactful.

Did you miss the bit where you made an utterly racist suggestion? Are you just glossing over that bit or are you going to acknowledge it? I shared it for you just now as a reminder.

*list all cases he knows about 🙄

my stupid autocorrect is getting above itself.

BackToLurk · 05/06/2026 14:17

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 13:28

Try reading your post at 12.21 if you’ve forgotten

BackToLurk · Today 12:21
Well let’s say we accept your rather bizarre defence. The guidance you’re referring to is about ‘race’ in general isn’t it? So the question still remains, why did TR use Pakistani Muslims’. Why not say ‘black and brown people’ or ‘non-whites’ or whatever term TR uses. Honestly your desperation to pretend he doesn’t have an agenda is laughable.

You argued that he brought Pakistani Muslims into a protest about the policing around the death of Henry Nowak because of a problem “literally written into the guidance”. Your explanation. The arguments around that guidance are that they prioritise people who are not white over people who are white. I suggested some terms that TR might have chosen to use to highlight that. That he might of used in order to show that.

You asked "Why do you think he should lump all ‘black and brown’ people together or call them ‘non white’ on this topic?". The criticism of the guidance, as I understand it, is precisely that it does 'lump all' people together according to the colour of their skin. That is, supposedly, the problem. That people who are white (regardless of whether or not they are criminals) are treated less favourably than people who are not white (again regardless of any criminality on their behalf). Therefore if TR is in fact criticising two-tier policing on those grounds then it would be perfectly logical for him to lump them all together.

Of course it is not an anomaly for TR to shoehorn Pakistani Muslims, to the exclusion of any other group, into every conversation. It's absolutely standard. Though why he's concerned with people who aren't British nationals in relation to the killing of one British man by another is quite the conundrum.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 05/06/2026 15:33

BackToLurk · 05/06/2026 14:17

You argued that he brought Pakistani Muslims into a protest about the policing around the death of Henry Nowak because of a problem “literally written into the guidance”. Your explanation. The arguments around that guidance are that they prioritise people who are not white over people who are white. I suggested some terms that TR might have chosen to use to highlight that. That he might of used in order to show that.

You asked "Why do you think he should lump all ‘black and brown’ people together or call them ‘non white’ on this topic?". The criticism of the guidance, as I understand it, is precisely that it does 'lump all' people together according to the colour of their skin. That is, supposedly, the problem. That people who are white (regardless of whether or not they are criminals) are treated less favourably than people who are not white (again regardless of any criminality on their behalf). Therefore if TR is in fact criticising two-tier policing on those grounds then it would be perfectly logical for him to lump them all together.

Of course it is not an anomaly for TR to shoehorn Pakistani Muslims, to the exclusion of any other group, into every conversation. It's absolutely standard. Though why he's concerned with people who aren't British nationals in relation to the killing of one British man by another is quite the conundrum.

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You argued that he brought Pakistani Muslims into a protest about the policing around the death of Henry Nowak because of a problem “literally written into the guidance”. Your explanation.

Yes, to evidence some very well documented issues with this guidance - I hope we can all agree that the cases specifically involving Pakistani Muslim men are particularly egregious. There are obviously other cases involving people from other countries of origin and religions (like Digwa) but if you are trying to illustrate how widespread the problem is, the many cases of repeated rapes of thousands of white girls over many years, many of which remain uninvestigated or prosecuted to this day because of who the perpetrators are is a glaring example of two tier policing.

The issue with using your suggestion of non specific, generalised language like ‘black and brown people’ or ‘non white’ is, as we agree, lumping everyone in together. That would usually and understandably be called out as racist language, especially if TR made such an unnecessarily wide generalisation when talking about criminal activity and police behaviour. Everyone would be yelling ‘not all black, brown, non white people you racist’ like they do on here frequently.

Also I think some organisations would have a serious issue with your suggestion of calling people ‘non white’ - it’s like the trans activists calling women ‘non men’.

TR was referencing very specific, very well evidenced examples to demonstrate the issues with the guidance and two tier policing where the main problem is not ‘lumping people in together’ as you suggest but treating people differently based on the colour of their skin or religion.

Imo, your suggestion that TR should have used more generalised language which unnecessarily lumps brown and black people (you might have forgotten about the religious aspect) in together and also refers to them as ‘non white’ is actually more racist than the very specific language he did use.

An interesting development that I didn’t see coming.

BackToLurk · 06/06/2026 08:58

the main problem is not ‘lumping people in together’ as you suggest but treating people differently based on the colour of their skin or religion

Treating people differently based on the colour of their skin is precisely ‘lumping people together’. I thought TR and you were arguing that’s what the guidance leads to. That when the police come across a scene where a person is white they treat them less favourably than people who aren’t. Everyone lumped in together rather than treated as individuals. Isn’t that what TR’s ‘example’ is meant to demonstrate? Are you now arguing that doesn’t happen. That the police don’t lump together all white people and treat them less favourably than people who aren’t white?

As for the choice of language. It was a suggestion of the language that TR might choose. But yea, I’m sure he’d probably be more likely to use something like people of colour. I guess we’ll never know as he decided only to talk about non-British Muslims for some reason.

Shakeoffyourchains · 06/06/2026 11:19

LuckyHazelFox · 05/06/2026 12:57

What on earth are you talking about? I didn't get past your opening paragraph!

Ah, that's probably why you're struggling to understand things tbh.

And in response to your other post where you've tagged me. You've changed your name cause you've referred to commenting on threads from years ago while your current username's oldest post is just a few months old. It's not a personal attack to point out facts. 🤷‍♀️

And no, I've never had any of your posts removed, I don't tend to report people on here. Better to leave the posts up so everyone can see what you've said in perpetuity...or at least till the next name change anyway 😅

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 06/06/2026 18:06

BackToLurk · 06/06/2026 08:58

the main problem is not ‘lumping people in together’ as you suggest but treating people differently based on the colour of their skin or religion

Treating people differently based on the colour of their skin is precisely ‘lumping people together’. I thought TR and you were arguing that’s what the guidance leads to. That when the police come across a scene where a person is white they treat them less favourably than people who aren’t. Everyone lumped in together rather than treated as individuals. Isn’t that what TR’s ‘example’ is meant to demonstrate? Are you now arguing that doesn’t happen. That the police don’t lump together all white people and treat them less favourably than people who aren’t white?

As for the choice of language. It was a suggestion of the language that TR might choose. But yea, I’m sure he’d probably be more likely to use something like people of colour. I guess we’ll never know as he decided only to talk about non-British Muslims for some reason.

So you criticised him for referencing a specific group that is a very well evidenced and extensive example of two tier policing and then suggested he should have used language that would have led to vociferous accusations of racism from his detractors but now are backtracking by trying to suggest it was the sort of language he might have used but didn’t - have I got that right?

I guess this exchange demonstrates your lack of actual grounds for criticism of the actual points being made by TR.

BackToLurk · 06/06/2026 18:24

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 06/06/2026 18:06

So you criticised him for referencing a specific group that is a very well evidenced and extensive example of two tier policing and then suggested he should have used language that would have led to vociferous accusations of racism from his detractors but now are backtracking by trying to suggest it was the sort of language he might have used but didn’t - have I got that right?

I guess this exchange demonstrates your lack of actual grounds for criticism of the actual points being made by TR.

Where is the evidence of race gangs of foreign nationals (the group he used) attacking white men and the police ‘jumping on the white boy. As you claim this specific type of attack is well evidenced, you presumably have the evidence.

Oblomov26 · 01/07/2026 11:32

Pleased to see today that :
"Officers who arrested Henry Nowak investigated for gross misconduct."

Good.

"Two police officers who arrested Henry Nowak before his death are being investigated for gross misconduct.
The university student was handcuffed by police as he lay dying from stab wounds while Vickrum Digwa, his Sikh killer, was treated as a victim of racist abuse.
The 18-year-old pleaded with the officers, telling them he had been stabbed, to which one of them replied: “I don’t think you have, mate.”

The police watchdog said on Wednesday that this officer and another who had initially attended the scene were both under investigation for gross misconduct.
The Independent Office for Police Conduct (IOPC) said it had expanded its investigation following discussions with Nowak’s family, who had made formal complaints against Hampshire and Isle of Wight Constabulary."

Hopefully the investigation will now move forward.

5MinuteArgument · 01/07/2026 17:39

Oblomov26 · 01/07/2026 11:32

Pleased to see today that :
"Officers who arrested Henry Nowak investigated for gross misconduct."

Good.

"Two police officers who arrested Henry Nowak before his death are being investigated for gross misconduct.
The university student was handcuffed by police as he lay dying from stab wounds while Vickrum Digwa, his Sikh killer, was treated as a victim of racist abuse.
The 18-year-old pleaded with the officers, telling them he had been stabbed, to which one of them replied: “I don’t think you have, mate.”

The police watchdog said on Wednesday that this officer and another who had initially attended the scene were both under investigation for gross misconduct.
The Independent Office for Police Conduct (IOPC) said it had expanded its investigation following discussions with Nowak’s family, who had made formal complaints against Hampshire and Isle of Wight Constabulary."

Hopefully the investigation will now move forward.

Interesting that Henry's family have made a formal complaint against the Hampshire and IOW plods. I hope they win it.

I've just seen the video of police arresting Vikram Digwa: all very polite and apologetic and no handcuffs in site. Compare and contrast to their treatment of Henry: handcuffed behind his back while he lay limp as a lettuce.

I really hope this case causes a massive rethink amongst the police high-ups and not just sacking a few lowly plods carrying out what their training told them (ie ALWAYS believe accusations of racism and act accordingly, no matter what evidence is in front of them).

Unfortunately I don't think there will be a change of direction.

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