Men... are u okay? What is the problem?

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I think this will be removed / deleted but i am not saying anything untrue. Or factually incorrect. But here goes...

Since having my little girl just over a year ago I have started resenting men. I dont know why as my partner isnt bad. I just see them in a whole new light.

Firstly, years ago women couldn't vote and it was the done thing that they would look after the children and home and men were the providers. But, many women (not all!) Now have careers, go to work, earn their own money. We can now vote. Aswell as have a career, many women still take on majority of the housework and childcare. Not because men always refuse but they just dont, we do things automatically. Men, just dont think.

The other day I was driving to visit family and saw a car with its hazards on in the slip road... they have broken down i thought. Nope. A man was standing behind his car pissing. It got me thinking, ive never seen a woman pissing at the side of the road. We just wouldn't, so how do men find themselves in this situation? My dog can hold its bladder until "walkies" so what's the issue?

I read that men commit like 91% of murders, most rapes are men and men mostly abuse their partners. Men are more likely to commit suicide, men dont open up and speak about their feelings.. some men transition to become "women" and fight to enter women spaces. I know women transition to men but you dont hear about them!

I just dont understand. Men.. what is the actual problem??? Apart from sperm, what is your actual purpose??

The posts on here today.. oh my man was messaging a coworker inappropriately and he cant get her moved as it'll be suspicious... WHAT!! Nah he has played his part, otherwise it would be as simple as, hey HR this person is being inappropriate and its making me uncomfortable, here are the messages 🤣🤣

Or the other one, my man spent lots of money on my credit card and refusing to pay up... WHAT🤣🤣

What the fuck, we all play our part to with enabling such shit behaviour.

100% yes, the 'nature of the beast' is very, very different. To me, it is so obvious. It is right there to be clearly seen. I don't know why everyone tries to deny it.

I know this is extreme/OTT but I won't even get a male pet because I don't want any masculine vibes in my home at all. I feel like I couldn't love a boy pet as much as I can love a girl pet.

🤣🤣🤣

It's not "either/or" at all. Over a 40-year period I had a succession of abusive relationships with awful men - including two who attempted murder, one who was convicted for CSA images, and a smackhead. They all drained me completely.

Eventually I grew up (four words that do not convey how complicated this process was!) and stopped making shit choices in life based on my preconceptions about men. And guess what? Life looks very different now.

You can dismiss me as a smug happily married woman with no exposure to reality, or you can consider that your own warped view is actually negatively impacting your quality of life.

I don't know - wet wipes, bottle of water and some leaves, put your socks back on and wash them when you get home?!! I haven't really thought about it in depth!!

Men are pigs. End of.

Good god! I must tell the surgeon and oncologist that saved my life that! Both men.

Fill your boots! They’re also egotistical AF, so they’ll love the feedback, no doubt 🥳

Your lack of comprehension is astounding. No one is saying ALL. Most people do not commit crime. The ones that do though are mostly men. I’m not sure why this is difficult to understand or that it somehow equates to ALL men are bad.

Oh they got fabulous feedback, and they’d get it many times over! I will forever be grateful.

I'm thinking the same about you, so probably best to leave it there and we agree to disagree.

Did you go to sleep then? You stopped replying when you were called out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you gave me a good giggle before bed, thank you xxxxxxx

I don't think it's healthy to engage with posters such as this, with these issues. Nothing good will come if it..

I think it'd be a better use of your time to get your dildo out and solve whatever pent-up frustration it is that has caused you to decide to post this, tbh. Raging misandrist.

Can you please provide evidence that women cannot do these jobs?? Its 2026 not 1916.....

so why are you with him? you're contemptuous of him, you feel superior to him, he's clearly useless in your opinion. why cling into a man you clearly don't seem to respect or like?

I didn't say they can't do these jobs. I said they don't do them.

The data is available online which shows that they don't.

@Yellowworm45 For the people saying it's not all men
If you had a box of chocolates all looking the same
But one of them was dog poo inside the chocolate shell
Would you risk eating any ?
Or would you say no thanks to them all.
Honestly it would massively put me of choosing any of them .
To high a risk as you don't know which is dog poo

If I substitute "men" in this analogy with specific ethnic or religious groups, is this analogy still valid?

It’s such a stupid analogy. It could be applied to pretty much anything.

There are plenty of toxic, horrible women around. Maybe men should steer clear of women, if you’re going to live your life by the chocolate analogy. Or women avoid being friends with women. Or men avoid being friends with other men.

That’s because they’d all be lying!

Yes, good point! The particular poster then reacted with a heart ❤️ on my last comment, odd indeed!

Have you told your dad this ? Or your son or your male cousin or boss ?

I’d hazard a guess she’s made them aware ….

The older I get the more I agree. What is the point of them?

@Witchonenowbob yes I expect they've worked it out somehow !. I'm annoyed at myself for not taking the advice I gave you but can't imagine having that much hatred inside me . So weird .Ah well.

Ah Petrolheads, that well known man’s forum 🤣 Unless this is deliberately incorrect to mock it, if so fair play!

Where’s the edit function, before a grammar pedant gets me 😬