Men... are u okay? What is the problem?

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I think this will be removed / deleted but i am not saying anything untrue. Or factually incorrect. But here goes...

Since having my little girl just over a year ago I have started resenting men. I dont know why as my partner isnt bad. I just see them in a whole new light.

Firstly, years ago women couldn't vote and it was the done thing that they would look after the children and home and men were the providers. But, many women (not all!) Now have careers, go to work, earn their own money. We can now vote. Aswell as have a career, many women still take on majority of the housework and childcare. Not because men always refuse but they just dont, we do things automatically. Men, just dont think.

The other day I was driving to visit family and saw a car with its hazards on in the slip road... they have broken down i thought. Nope. A man was standing behind his car pissing. It got me thinking, ive never seen a woman pissing at the side of the road. We just wouldn't, so how do men find themselves in this situation? My dog can hold its bladder until "walkies" so what's the issue?

I read that men commit like 91% of murders, most rapes are men and men mostly abuse their partners. Men are more likely to commit suicide, men dont open up and speak about their feelings.. some men transition to become "women" and fight to enter women spaces. I know women transition to men but you dont hear about them!

I just dont understand. Men.. what is the actual problem??? Apart from sperm, what is your actual purpose??

The posts on here today.. oh my man was messaging a coworker inappropriately and he cant get her moved as it'll be suspicious... WHAT!! Nah he has played his part, otherwise it would be as simple as, hey HR this person is being inappropriate and its making me uncomfortable, here are the messages 🤣🤣

Or the other one, my man spent lots of money on my credit card and refusing to pay up... WHAT🤣🤣

What the fuck, we all play our part to with enabling such shit behaviour.

91% of men don't commit crimes.

what has set you off today?

Do they though? Or do you mean men commit most of the crimes recorded?

You’re not “saying anything wrong” , you’re describing a feeling and feelings don’t have to be polite, tidy, or politically balanced - I don’t agree with most of what you’ve said but they are your feelings.

My gran used to have a very old saying - women are raised to maintain the world and men are raised to expect the world to maintain them.

Not every man, but enough that the pattern is visible everywhere.

Most men? Really you think over 50% of men are criminals.

You think men dont do this?! Not heard of Reddit or incels then?! 🤣

I cant get the wording right I'm getting muddled

I mean statistically the crimes reported are done so by men. I am not saying all men. I dont know how to say it clearer. You can probably tell grammar isnt my main point.

Another day, another misandrist post 🙄

@Dollymylove "Nothing about running into burning buildings to rescue babies.
Drive bin lorries emptying your crap (very rarely see a female binman)"

No you don't, and a large part of the reason is due to endemic misogyny. Independent reviews and employment tribunals have exposed widespread, systemic sexual harassment, bullying and misogyny against women in UK fire and rescue services. Several major brigades have faced national scrutiny over toxic workplace cultures. Same goes for Waste Collection Services. In fact Trade Union data has exposed an industry completely "mired in sexism".

Why do you think this post will be deleted? It’s no different from the other hundreds of random man bashing threads on here

Look, you hate men for some reason. Don't come on here hoping to validate your curmudgeonly man hating mindset. Oh, by the way, I was driving to work one Sunday morning, and I passed an idling taxi, and next to it were two drunk girls, squatting down, knickers half way down, pissing in the gutter. Only guys are that crass, eh?

Because it'll be deemed inappropriate esp if people report it.

Yes drunk not sober
Is this really the comparison we are making
Yes men piss in public but so do drunk woman...

91% of crimes being committed by men does not mean 91% commit crimes!

Couldn't agree more. Men could legally rape their wives until the 90s, and many men were outraged when it was made illegal.

Yes, so they're no better.

Meh, go big or go home and all that.

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I think you mean most crimes are committed by men not that most men commit crimes. It’s very different

Most men commit crimes??

no they don't.

men commit most crimes,

Maybe? Not sure of the statistics or even if they are accurate.

but frankly I'm more worried about you right now, you sound very upset. What's happened?

Socialisation across thousands of years. It’s not difficult.

Yes ... thanks

Agreed.

I first experienced sexual harassment at 11 years old. I was walking home from school in my uniform. A van full of men following me beeping and shouting “GET YOUR FANNY OUT”. They would have been someone’s husband, someone’s son, someone’s father etc.

I was about 14/15 walking to meet friends in broad daylight when a man shouted “Do you want to see my helicopter?” And pulled out his dick and started swinging it around. Again, someone’s husband, father, son etc.

I’ve lost count how many similar experiences I’ve endured. Having my arse grabbed or slapped in night clubs. A man asking for my number, and when I’ve said “no” they’ve become abusive calling me a ‘slag’ or squaring up to me.

It still happens and I’m in my 30’s! Men shouting at me from passing vans. Unsolicited dick pics sent to me by complete random men on social media. (I’ve learnt how to adjust my settings now so only friends can message me).

I have a family member, who I thought, was a great man, a great hardworking dad to his kids. Nope. He beat up his (now) ex partner and turned her black and blue. I saw proof.

I know of 2 of my married friends who have experienced their husbands cheating on them in the past year. Nice, “lovely”, family men. Fathers.

Men don’t respect women as a whole. And sadly, I don’t think they ever will.

(edited for spelling)

I bet that's the only time you have seen women pissing in public this century.

Yes yes women are no better than men. 🙄

Good grief. The apologists (for men!) are rife on this thread.

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Go through any town centre on a Friday or Saturday and the women are more noticeable having a piss because they are usually shouting and screeching at each other

So they are drunk, yeah????