Don’t be silly. Any predator will try their best to access to their intended targets. Goodness, men used to study/train years for the priesthood, teaching, and the rest. Also NGO’s, community organisations, pride organisations (that Stephen Ireland).
So, there are those who think men who someone vouches for as being gentle, or having a troubled mind are not like other men. How about men in wheelchairs, old men, or men who are a bit sad today? Maybe a man who has had penile cancer. Erectile dysfunction? These categories could cascade quite a bit.
I have no doubt there are men who have committed violent and sex offences whose families say they are just lovely.