Should we be paying for both brides?

[ohbaby70]

Friend getting married next year. Both women. They want a joint hen do abroad. They have asked us not to cover their costs because there are two of them. Maid of Honour wants us to pay anyway. Everyone else agrees. AIBU to think it’s a bit much? It’s an extra £100.

If it matters, there are 20 of us going and it’s for three nights in Greece.

There’s a middle ground between £1,000 in Greece and a pint in their local.

I agree, but there are multiple posts asking why people don’t just have a pint in their local.

Paying a lot of money for your wedding doesn't entitle a couple to their friends and guests being similarly extravagant.

I'd be quite concerned if I was Bride A that the woman I'm marrying has no friends. How does that even happen?

And I really do agree that the whole hen/stag thing has got seriously out of hand.
There are lots of options that don't include flying abroad and spending £100s , plus paying for the hen.

I'd definitely dip out of this one OP.