Disgusting neighbour

[BePinkKoala]

So my neighbour pees in his garden everyday instead of using his toilet his garden is right Infront of our front door I walked out at 8 in the morning to take my 7year old daughter to breakfast club and got a full view of his penis in his hand because he has gaps in his fence I did kick off on him and let him know my daughter was with me and he did nothing proceeded to carry on peeing so I've reported him to the council and they aren't doing anything about it he's also been reported to the police who still haven't done anything this was October it's now February I've been told by police I need proof but if I was to get a video or picture of him then I am at risk of going on the sex offenders register

I doubt this would work. I don't think urine is dangerous from an environmental health point of view and surely it is just the same as dogs peeing in the garden.

Knock his block off?
Punch his lights out?
Smash his grid in?
Chop his chopper off 😆

Not that I advocate violence mind.....🤣

You need to fill the gaps in his fence. Peeing outside MIGHT break some sort of code, but being naked wouldn't. It's his garden.

@BePinkKoala can you not put a better fence up with no gaps? That would be an obvious solution.

Are you complaining to the housing provider, typically a housing association now. Also is there a fence which is more than waist high in which case are you looking over at him deliberately. Don’t think there is a law against weeing in your garden per se so it’s down to if he’s doing it to upset others

No, sorry, you're going to have to give me more than that.

In what sense exactly?

You appear to be assuming anyone who considers/wonders what the law actually says on this, has 'something wrong' with them?

😆

Let's just say my mind initially went to something more x-rated....

How do you know it’s not sexual? Certain paraphilias involve urination where they can be seen by others

Well yes quite.

But if it is, he's not going to tell that to the police or the council is he?

He's obviously going to stick with 'I'm peeing in my own garden and not asking anyone to look through the gaps in the fence at me'.

Anti social task force. I'm a council tenant and if I started peeing in my garden they would have something to say about it - plus contact a local councillor as well. Sorry - if this man has a toilet in his house why does he need to pee in the garden?

if this man has a toilet in his house why does he need to pee in the garden?

To save on water costs?
To deter foxes? (Yes this works!)

As I said above - I'm a council tenant and it would not be tolerated by my landlord - it would be seen as anti social behaviour.

Surely you don't need to pee in a garden to deter foxes - there must be other ways if that's what you want to do. Id rather feed a fox than deter them but that's just me

No water meters in Scotland so I've never felt the need to pee in my own garden to save costs. The bigger issue is that people including young kids can see this mans genitals - and that's concerning in my view

He's in a council property and that comes with conditions.

I might have been on terf twitter too long but he sounds like an obvious nonce to me

Disgusting 🤮

Two things either use the good advice on here or move.

I really feel for you.

That's possible. I'm not aware of those. But as standard, public nudity, legally on your own property, isn't an issue.

I doubt what he is doing is illegal.
He’s not exposing himself, you’re looking through the fence at him.

I’d simply attach some tarpaulin, or fine mesh green netting to the fence on your side.
Problem solved.

My neighbour did this but it’s because it took him so long to get to the toilet (sciatica, which you wouldn’t necessarily know if you looked at him), could it be something like this? He always went behind his shed though, I only know because I spent a lot of time in his garden with him. It’s not illegal to be totally nude in your garden as long as his intention is not to be seen.

It's not possible - it's fact. I can assure you that if I peed in my garden as a council tenant my landlord would not be happy about it and I would expect an anti social complaint to be made about me

He is exposing himself. He's standing outside with his penis in his hand

Fucking men.
All of them.
Sorry.

He’s not though, they saw him through a gap in the fence. Just cover the gap.

Yes, I think peeing outside is the crime here. Not the nudity. Although nudity on social housing land may well be against the rules too. I'm only aware of the situation on private property.

Don't waste your time.
Our ex (we were very happy to find out he died!) neighbour used to pee, wank, wash himself naked in the middle of his garden. We (+ neighbours next door) spent almost 3 years reporting every single day for Police and Council and we were told off by both. As long as he is in his garden, even completely naked, nothing what they can do.

I honestly don't know why people are trying to make excuses for this. We are talking about someone pissing in a garden and a female and their young child being exposed to it.

Why should she have to put up a fence - just use the fucking toilet like normal people do

For context - my neighbours reported me to the housing for feeding a crow in my garden and to the task force for taking a washing in late at night and both complaints were taken up so if I pissed in my garden there's no way they would tolerate it.