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Is this too big a portion?

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fishfingergate · 05/02/2026 19:16

Context that my dad said he couldn’t believe I was eating “all that”
don’t judge the oven food, it’s Thursday and I’m tired!

Is this too big a portion?
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99pwithaflake · 05/02/2026 19:45

All these people saying "half of that at most" - are you really going round eating less than half of the recommended portion sizes?

Even primary schools serve 2-3 fish fingers per kid.

maras2 · 05/02/2026 19:45

cardibach · 05/02/2026 19:19

Really? Less than 2 fish fingers, a few bits of potato and sone veg?,

Yeah but with a mahhhooosssiivve salad, should be ok. 😋

Knittedanimal · 05/02/2026 19:46

fishfingergate · 05/02/2026 19:43

I hate these plates. Got them in my first house and I keep TRYING to break them to justify buying more as they’re brown and ugh
annoyingly not a single one has broken in 20 years Angry

Also, they make your dinner look bigger than it is 😊

Icecreamandcoffee · 05/02/2026 19:46

Place marking for when the posters who have only eaten a teaspoon of dust and 3 ice cubes since January 1st to turn up.

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Why do you think I couldn't handle it?

I just happen to think it's daft 😂

murasaki · 05/02/2026 19:47

fishfingergate · 05/02/2026 19:44

Exactly! I can’t buy more as I’m trying to run the freezer down so I thought well I can’t do 3 or 4 as it’ll leave the wrong amount

I was literally forced to buy another box the other day as I had 2 left in the old one. That's no use to anyone.

AirborneElephant · 05/02/2026 19:47

Another competitive undereating thread! Fishfingers are about 60 calories each, so 300 calories for them. By the looks of it no more than about 200-300 calories for the potatoes, and less than 100 for the veg. That’s a light to perfectly normal main meal unless you’re very short, very sedentary, or choose to eat all your calories in wine and chocolate. I’d have 4 fish fingers with two slices of bread and butter for lunch.

lalaloopyhead · 05/02/2026 19:47

Looks fine to me...I've been known to have 6 fish fingers (but obviously only when bought in box with multiples of 3) but I bloody love fish fingers and would probably have with just salad and lashings of tartar sauce or garlic mayo.
2 fish fingers is just silly.

HotdogMacaroniCheese · 05/02/2026 19:48

99pwithaflake · 05/02/2026 19:45

All these people saying "half of that at most" - are you really going round eating less than half of the recommended portion sizes?

Even primary schools serve 2-3 fish fingers per kid.

The OP has 5! What exactly is the issue with saying that some of us would only eat 2 or 3? Who cares??

Or is the only acceptable reply to this thread that we can eat all of it and more. Hmm

ChangeAgainAgainAgain · 05/02/2026 19:48

I'd have 3 fishfingers, a portion the size of your veg of peas & sweetcorn, another portion of the same size of brocolli and no waffle chips.

But that's me. You do you.

99pwithaflake · 05/02/2026 19:48

Icecreamandcoffee · 05/02/2026 19:46

Place marking for when the posters who have only eaten a teaspoon of dust and 3 ice cubes since January 1st to turn up.

Oh, they're here already. Apparently this is a ridiculously huge portion and they'd all eat 2 fish fingers, 4 fries and some veg and be stuffed 😂

fishfingergate · 05/02/2026 19:48

At least there’s not been much bickering. I live alone so was wondering if my portions were off as I don’t really eat with anyone often

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StrawberryJamAndRaspberryPie · 05/02/2026 19:48

That completely depends on what else you have eaten throughout the day. The diet is a whole picture not just a snapshot.

HotdogMacaroniCheese · 05/02/2026 19:49

99pwithaflake · 05/02/2026 19:46

Why do you think I couldn't handle it?

I just happen to think it's daft 😂

I really couldn’t give a shit. Who cares what other people eat.

PopVix · 05/02/2026 19:50

cardibach · 05/02/2026 19:28

I wouldn’t ’shovel it down’. But that’s probs because I don't demonise eating and make it feel horribly over indulgent. I’d eat it. Except the peas. Peas are the devil’s veg along with sprouts.

So if I am hungry and shovel it down quickly, that means I demonise eating? Have I misunderstood?

Makingadecision · 05/02/2026 19:50

Too big

99pwithaflake · 05/02/2026 19:50

HotdogMacaroniCheese · 05/02/2026 19:48

The OP has 5! What exactly is the issue with saying that some of us would only eat 2 or 3? Who cares??

Or is the only acceptable reply to this thread that we can eat all of it and more. Hmm

You can say whatever you like - other people are allowed to find it ridiculous though.

EdinaTheConfessor · 05/02/2026 19:50

lol at some of you saying you only have 2 fish fingers.
I see the competitive undereaters are at it again.

LifeisLemons · 05/02/2026 19:51

It looks fine to me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

bigboykitty · 05/02/2026 19:51

AlexandraJJ · 05/02/2026 19:17

A third of that would be enough for me but we’re all different

A third of it? OMG I couldn't possibly force that much down myself 🙃

99pwithaflake · 05/02/2026 19:51

HotdogMacaroniCheese · 05/02/2026 19:49

I really couldn’t give a shit. Who cares what other people eat.

For someone who "doesn't give a shit" and keeps telling me to bore off, you're very quick to reply to all my posts 😉

G00dnightJimBob · 05/02/2026 19:51

It's fine

catsarethefuture · 05/02/2026 19:51

nah, i dont eat fish but size wise my portion would be bigger. I’m on like min 2200 calories a day though 😅

Mumwithbaggage · 05/02/2026 19:52

I normally just have the one fish finger. With lots and lots of steamed broccoli and some salad with light dressing.

TootToot2020 · 05/02/2026 19:52

That’s a pretty standard meal size to me. I’d probably eat that but with more veg. I’m normal BMI, healthy appetite. Hope you enjoyed it.

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