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To be so scared and horrified about ICE?

379 replies

BarbaraVineFan · 14/01/2026 23:03

Sorry, I know there must be other threads about this, but I’m lying in bed alone , feeling really terrified about what’s going on in the US right now and what it will lead to. I keep seeing videos saying that Trump’s administration is behaving as though they don’t have to worry about winning an election because they will just seize power. I also saw a couple suggesting that this is the start of civil war. I think it’s such a dark time for the world and I am genuinely worried for my 6 year old DD’s future.

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MeltedSunshine · 15/01/2026 09:14

EverythingGolden · 15/01/2026 09:10

Exactly why nobody should be accepting or normalising fascistic behaviour or any other authoritarian abuse of power. There are elements of both left and right who would love a police state, and no rule of law except their own. Any group of people could become targets.

But why so much concern about America when there is sufficient examples of authoritarian overreach by our own government and only this week further examples of how a police force made up evidence against Jews in order to appease Islamists threatening violence towards them?

ZeppelinTits · 15/01/2026 09:21

FloorWipes · 15/01/2026 08:28

Watching what is happening in America right now is helping to answer the questions everybody has after learning about the Nazis and WWII: how could this happen and how could people go along with this? And we can even see people on this thread demonstrating those psychological mechanisms that enable horrible atrocities to proceed. The American regime are using Nazi imagery and Nazi tactics currently. Literally. Even if you've been against immigration etc. you would hope that for many there comes a point where a person should stop and think "no I don't want to support actual Nazis". However, it's hard to admit you've been wrong, obviously, or to accept the evidence of your own eyes when it's as horrific as this. But please people. Please let yourself see it.

Yes, this x1000.

Swiftie1878 · 15/01/2026 09:26

BarbaraVineFan · 14/01/2026 23:03

Sorry, I know there must be other threads about this, but I’m lying in bed alone , feeling really terrified about what’s going on in the US right now and what it will lead to. I keep seeing videos saying that Trump’s administration is behaving as though they don’t have to worry about winning an election because they will just seize power. I also saw a couple suggesting that this is the start of civil war. I think it’s such a dark time for the world and I am genuinely worried for my 6 year old DD’s future.

Unless you live in the U.S., YABU.
Calm down - you can’t stay sane when you are so hypersensitive to things happening that are so far removed from you and your life.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 15/01/2026 09:29

PermanentTemporary · 14/01/2026 23:17

I agree with you that there are a lot of Brits who would absolutely love to be watching back to back clips of a British Ice tasing and manhandling brown people, plus a fiercely competitive scrap to be employed by them. I just hope there are an awful lot more who are poleaxed with horror at the idea.

God that’s a horribly worded post. I find reading that stuff depressing.

MeltedSunshine · 15/01/2026 09:33

ZeppelinTits · 15/01/2026 09:21

Yes, this x1000.

Have you looked at what is happening in the UK? Seen what the West Midlands Police are up to?

WalkDontWalk · 15/01/2026 09:36

GinAndJuice99 · 15/01/2026 00:30

Why are you scared? It's bad but America is just another foreign country at the end of the day. It has nothing to do us in the UK at all.

....I despair....

GCSEBiostruggles · 15/01/2026 09:36

Agree with the others that stopping looking online for news is the answer. I often find the comments sections are filled with bots which make you despair for humanity. I honestly don't think the internet will last very long if it continues this way. I have screen breaks for hours of the day and pick up a book now when I find myself scrolling. Knowing all the men causing issues in the world are roughly 80 is giving me a sense of perspective though...

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 15/01/2026 09:38

I think we really need to accept the world order is starting to change and the three superpowers will be taking the countries they want and there’s really very little any of us can do about it.

I honestly couldn’t give a shiny shit about ICE, I’m not American and I don’t live there. I do REALLY care about this country though and would like a government who wasn’t happy to watch it slowly tank economically. I wish Labour pull just get some control of the bloody ship. They’ve u-turned on welfare, u-turned on I’d-cards and also now u-turning on business rates as they didn’t realise it was going to cause thousands/tens of thousands of businesses to cease trading. Why do they seem so bloody incompetent? It drives me mad.

TheMorgenmuffel · 15/01/2026 09:39

ilovepuppies2019 · 15/01/2026 03:00

I'm surprised at the people saying stop watching the news and do something more productive with your time. Understanding what's happening in the world is very important so that you can use the influence you do have in a positive way. Voting is one example. Videos can be one sided or made by conspiracy theorists so they alone are probably not helpful but don't stop engaging with the news.

I'm not surprised it's upsetting you OP because it's a very upsetting situation. It feels like the world is inching backwards towards the dark days of World War II. Focus on what you can do to help the situation. Little things like being a positive part of your community or volunteering to help immigrants through a charity can make a big difference in combating Trump's hate.

Indeed. When people look back through history one of the questions that always gets asked is how could people let it happen.

This is how.
We're seeing 'how' happen in real time.
It doesn't affect me
Its got nothing to do with us
What can we do anyway.

Its always the same

GCSEBiostruggles · 15/01/2026 09:40

MeltedSunshine · 15/01/2026 09:14

But why so much concern about America when there is sufficient examples of authoritarian overreach by our own government and only this week further examples of how a police force made up evidence against Jews in order to appease Islamists threatening violence towards them?

You mean AI made it up. There is the issue. AI is only as good as the data going in. If that is anti women, anti Jew, anti brown skin because the data all going in says they are the problem that is what comes out. This is why the internet has become flawed, we've set rules on something and effectively told it the answer by confining what data goes in while pretending it has "intelligence"

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 15/01/2026 09:40

TheMorgenmuffel · 15/01/2026 09:39

Indeed. When people look back through history one of the questions that always gets asked is how could people let it happen.

This is how.
We're seeing 'how' happen in real time.
It doesn't affect me
Its got nothing to do with us
What can we do anyway.

Its always the same

What would you like our skint wretched little country to do exactly? We are no longer a rich power. Literally all we can do is watch it happen.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 15/01/2026 09:42

GCSEBiostruggles · 15/01/2026 09:40

You mean AI made it up. There is the issue. AI is only as good as the data going in. If that is anti women, anti Jew, anti brown skin because the data all going in says they are the problem that is what comes out. This is why the internet has become flawed, we've set rules on something and effectively told it the answer by confining what data goes in while pretending it has "intelligence"

So AI is now some autonomous system that doesn’t need any human interaction? The police CHOSE to use it. Ai didn’t turn up at the door and demand to be let in. They fucked up and should be held accountable.

DdraigGoch · 15/01/2026 09:48

scorpiogirly · 15/01/2026 01:44

He's a liar, dangerous man. Heading toward a nanny state. Free speech going down the pipe. Net zero and climate con. I could go on and on but I'm tired. Just my two penneth.

Between a "nanny state" and a fascist one, I know which I'd rather have.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 15/01/2026 09:50

DdraigGoch · 15/01/2026 09:48

Between a "nanny state" and a fascist one, I know which I'd rather have.

Me too. Neither.

GoodStuffAnnie · 15/01/2026 09:51

Clinton deported 12 million people.
Obama deported 8 million people.
Trump has deported 2.5 million people.

stop worrying.

MeltedSunshine · 15/01/2026 09:52

GCSEBiostruggles · 15/01/2026 09:40

You mean AI made it up. There is the issue. AI is only as good as the data going in. If that is anti women, anti Jew, anti brown skin because the data all going in says they are the problem that is what comes out. This is why the internet has become flawed, we've set rules on something and effectively told it the answer by confining what data goes in while pretending it has "intelligence"

It is irrelevant what AI did. That is a bit like asking a violent sex offender to write what he thought should happen to his victim, repeating what he said then blaming him when people are outraged. Or getting a toddler to do your homework and trying to absolve yourself of responsibility for it.

He also admitted he met with the local mosque and banned Jewish fans on the basis of them saying that Islamist would attack them - rather than arresting those threatening violence and protecting the Jewish fans.

DdraigGoch · 15/01/2026 09:54

scorpiogirly · 15/01/2026 01:44

He's a liar, dangerous man. Heading toward a nanny state. Free speech going down the pipe. Net zero and climate con. I could go on and on but I'm tired. Just my two penneth.

Come to think of it, has anyone else noticed that whenever someone finishes a comment with "just my opinion" or in this case "just my two penneth" you can reliably dismiss the preceding text as ill-informed drivel?

It's almost as if they know that they're going to be called out on it so feel obliged to caveat it.

MeltedSunshine · 15/01/2026 09:54

DdraigGoch · 15/01/2026 09:48

Between a "nanny state" and a fascist one, I know which I'd rather have.

Labour is becoming authoritarian not a ‘nanny state’.

FlyingApple · 15/01/2026 10:04

Stop reading the news.

WeirdyBeardyMarrowBabyLady · 15/01/2026 10:05

All of the ‘just turn it off, the US is miles away from us’ people. Will you watch the news about European forces being deployed to defend Greenland from Trump’s next unchecked ambition?

FlyingApple · 15/01/2026 10:07

WeirdyBeardyMarrowBabyLady · 15/01/2026 10:05

All of the ‘just turn it off, the US is miles away from us’ people. Will you watch the news about European forces being deployed to defend Greenland from Trump’s next unchecked ambition?

No I won't.

DdraigGoch · 15/01/2026 10:08

MeltedSunshine · 15/01/2026 09:54

Labour is becoming authoritarian not a ‘nanny state’.

Don't be ridiculous. How on earth are they "authoritarian"?

Last time that I checked, there weren't masked government thugs abducting children from the streets, beating them up, and nicking their phones for good measure. That's not something that we do in the UK.
www.hindustantimes.com/world-news/us-news/arnoldo-bazan-texas-teen-says-ice-agent-choked-him-sold-his-phone-for-filming-unlawful-arrest-101768442875881.html

DdraigGoch · 15/01/2026 10:12

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Where does beating up children (who have committed no crimes and who are citizens, not that it should matter) come into ICE's job description?

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/jan/13/ice-immigration-target-minnesota

MeltedSunshine · 15/01/2026 10:20

DdraigGoch · 15/01/2026 10:08

Don't be ridiculous. How on earth are they "authoritarian"?

Last time that I checked, there weren't masked government thugs abducting children from the streets, beating them up, and nicking their phones for good measure. That's not something that we do in the UK.
www.hindustantimes.com/world-news/us-news/arnoldo-bazan-texas-teen-says-ice-agent-choked-him-sold-his-phone-for-filming-unlawful-arrest-101768442875881.html

Proposed laws for Digital ID, removal of juries, removing right to appeal at magistrate courts, blasphemy, ‘assisting’ the death of poor people…. They are arresting thousands of people for social media posts. Encouraging almost universal law breaking by the public sector in terms of the laws that protects women and girls. Stacking the Lords. Manipulating procedures in the Lords to prevent them killing the Chagos bill to give away our sovereignty at huge cost. Allowing antisemitism to developed unchecked through regular hate marches. Two tier policing. Refusing to proper independent inquiry into the grooming and rape of tens of thousands of girls. It just goes on and on.

Goldenbear · 15/01/2026 10:25

MeltedSunshine · 15/01/2026 10:20

Proposed laws for Digital ID, removal of juries, removing right to appeal at magistrate courts, blasphemy, ‘assisting’ the death of poor people…. They are arresting thousands of people for social media posts. Encouraging almost universal law breaking by the public sector in terms of the laws that protects women and girls. Stacking the Lords. Manipulating procedures in the Lords to prevent them killing the Chagos bill to give away our sovereignty at huge cost. Allowing antisemitism to developed unchecked through regular hate marches. Two tier policing. Refusing to proper independent inquiry into the grooming and rape of tens of thousands of girls. It just goes on and on.

Is this the Reform propaganda machine- Goebbels style! Since when did Reform care so much about anti-semitism. What a pile of crap!

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