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1 year old exploring front gardens and Xmas decs decd

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FamilyofTrees · 13/12/2025 19:16

When we've been out walking recently in our fairly small village, my 22 month old has been wandering into front gardens and having a look around. Especially if they have Christmas decorations up, like reindeer or a Santa.

I say to him not to touch and that it's not our stuff, but beyond carrying him away or putting him in his trike (I'm 8 months pregnant so can't carry him if he refuses to walk so we always bring his trike with us, but I give him the option to walk) there's not much I can do to stop him and I'm not particularly inclined to cause a screaming meltdown over a quick little detour that I personally wouldn't be bothered by. He isn't causing any damage.

YABU - You shouldn't let him go into front gardens at all

YANBU - As long as he doesn't break anything or stay too long it's fine

OP posts:
lucyloo25 · 16/12/2025 21:28

YABU

pinkypoo8 · 16/12/2025 21:29

Jeezus use your common sense you come on Mumsnet to ask this🙄

lucyloo25 · 16/12/2025 21:30

Why cant you do anything about it? Hold onto them,use reins,say NO??

SleeplessInWherever · 16/12/2025 22:44

Personally I don’t think it’s that deep. You’d have to be a special kinda person to be offended by a toddler.

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