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to think Vernon Kay is a misogynistic idiot...

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KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 15:20

I mean... it's very clear poor old Vernon 'professional northerner' Kay is not the sharpest tool in even the most meagre box. But I am really fed up with him on Radio 2 constantly referring to Taylor Swift only by reference to her fiancé Travis Kelcie (an American football player for anyone that doesn't know).

He keeps doing it (today an eg) - clearly gets complaints - but dismisses these in the same misogynistic tone as "daft Taylor Swift fans". His excuse is basically, “that’s how I know her, thats my field” — as if a radio DJ somehow doesn’t know the name of the most successful artist in the world. I mean I get he has no music background and is a minor TV presenter not an actual dj but still ...

It just feels misogynistic and really derogatory. He wouldn’t talk about a male artist through the lens of who they’re dating.

It makes him look ridiculous and really grinds my gears (as a feminist rather than any particular TS super fan).

Interesting too that he focuses on the clearly less famous male partner of a very high profile woman too. Wonder why that could be....

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ranoutofquinoaandprosecco · 27/11/2025 18:26

He’s joking the same as he refers to Strictly Dancing’s Tess Daley! Not just Tess.

RaininSummer · 27/11/2025 18:48

It seems a very dickish and wholly unnecessary diminishing thing to say.

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My “tea” …

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Coffeeishot · 27/11/2025 18:56

KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 18:52

My “tea” …

That's maybe a bit too "northern" for you, the pp meant your dinner.

Pollqueen · 27/11/2025 19:00

KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 16:47

I have zero concern about Taylor Swift self-esteem levels either generally or relating to some comments made by an English DJ.

I do have issues with a man on mainstream media feeling the need to constantly introduce references to the career and achievements of the male partner of the woman whose music he is playing every single time under the guise of a "joke". It's that simple. It's irrelevant at best but in my view reductive and misogynistic.

It's a joke OP that regular listeners are aware of. A joke! There is absolutely nothing misogynistic about it at all. In fact you seem to be the only person taking offence. Chill 😎

Crosorbled · 27/11/2025 19:01

I can’t bear his dreadful accent & he comes across as being very unintelligent . When he comes on the radio , both my husband & I immediately change stations !

Pollqueen · 27/11/2025 19:09

Crosorbled · 27/11/2025 19:01

I can’t bear his dreadful accent & he comes across as being very unintelligent . When he comes on the radio , both my husband & I immediately change stations !

🤣 blatant tautology and snobbery going on there

lazyarse123 · 27/11/2025 19:11

I don't listen to the radio because I prefer music to inane chatter. But I am in complete agreement about him being a professional northerner like that other twat Paddy Mcguinness.
I'm allowed to call them that especially as I'm from the right side of the Pennines.
Neither know how to treat their wives.

Pollqueen · 27/11/2025 19:14

Thankyourose · 27/11/2025 17:06

Totally agree OP, I switch off now… can’t believe we lost Zoe Ball for Scott Mills and Vernon Kay! And then bloody Jeremy Kyle. there no women out there for Radio 2???

Jeremy Kyle 🤣🤣 this whole thread is hilarious

latetothefisting · 27/11/2025 19:20

KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 15:28

So her song The Fate of Ophelia is played constantly at the moment and he will introduce it as "and that was Travis Kelcie's fiance who is a (blah bah) for the kansas chiefs with fate of Ophelia. And then some bloody waffle about some american football game at the weekend.

Clearly a very minor thing to be annoyed about but its so irrelevant (at best). He is so stupid he doesn't even realise he is being misogynistic. I've heard him do it a few times and today he did it again - and then said - ah I get complaints about this from the Swifties but this is my field and how I know her. Every single time. Its not a radio show about american football you a**hole.

Yeah that's really weird. Even ignoring the misogyny aspect it's just odd to announce an artist whose song you are playing via their partner. By all means throw it in as an aside once but to refer to her solely/primarily as 'Travis Kelcie's fiancee' is just bizarre.

TS has had songs played on UK radio for nearly two decades, he will have been playing them, and presumably naming her, for years before she even met TK.

I'm assuming when he plays a Jay Z record he doesn't refer to him as 'Beyonce's husband,' or Kanye West as 'Kim Kardashian's ex.'

NewGoldFox · 27/11/2025 19:30

Are you talking about Tess Daley’s’ husband?

Pollqueen · 27/11/2025 19:34

NewGoldFox · 27/11/2025 19:30

Are you talking about Tess Daley’s’ husband?

🤣🤣

Pollqueen · 27/11/2025 19:35

latetothefisting · 27/11/2025 19:20

Yeah that's really weird. Even ignoring the misogyny aspect it's just odd to announce an artist whose song you are playing via their partner. By all means throw it in as an aside once but to refer to her solely/primarily as 'Travis Kelcie's fiancee' is just bizarre.

TS has had songs played on UK radio for nearly two decades, he will have been playing them, and presumably naming her, for years before she even met TK.

I'm assuming when he plays a Jay Z record he doesn't refer to him as 'Beyonce's husband,' or Kanye West as 'Kim Kardashian's ex.'

Lordy, it's joke! Go back and read the thread

KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 19:38

Pollqueen · 27/11/2025 19:00

It's a joke OP that regular listeners are aware of. A joke! There is absolutely nothing misogynistic about it at all. In fact you seem to be the only person taking offence. Chill 😎

Apart from the other listeners that have complained (to whom he referred today). And the 70% in agreement here 🤔

That it is Taylor Swift is neither here nor there. I am not a particular fan. It's the fact that she is a successful woman that he insists on referring to in this way that irritates me.

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AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 27/11/2025 20:10

Pollqueen · 27/11/2025 19:14

Jeremy Kyle 🤣🤣 this whole thread is hilarious

I did have to read that twice before I worked out the PP meant Jezza Vine. I think a whole show of JK reading out DNA test or lie detector results live on the radio would be a step down for R2.

Pollqueen · 27/11/2025 20:11

Give up. Why do people have to find offence in the most innocuous things? Does no one have a sense of humour any more? 🫩

CrabbMcCrab37 · 27/11/2025 20:25

Very much dislike Vernon. Sleaze pest. Disappeared for years then broke through with a career relaunch after I'm a Celeb.

chloeriver · 27/11/2025 20:48

Don't like Vernon but he is making a joke, which is getting a bit old.

olderandnonthewiser · 27/11/2025 20:52

I like him. I’ve warmed to him. He doesn’t pretend to be what he’s not, and hes often spoken out about issues that concern women.. period pain and society’s intolerance of menstruation being one of them.

Crosorbled · 27/11/2025 21:02

I love Jeremy Vine , aka Jeremy Kyle. Most of the rest of radio 2 presenters are pretty useless. I now prefer Radio 4 or Radio 3 with classical music .

soupyspoon · 27/11/2025 21:03

KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 15:28

So her song The Fate of Ophelia is played constantly at the moment and he will introduce it as "and that was Travis Kelcie's fiance who is a (blah bah) for the kansas chiefs with fate of Ophelia. And then some bloody waffle about some american football game at the weekend.

Clearly a very minor thing to be annoyed about but its so irrelevant (at best). He is so stupid he doesn't even realise he is being misogynistic. I've heard him do it a few times and today he did it again - and then said - ah I get complaints about this from the Swifties but this is my field and how I know her. Every single time. Its not a radio show about american football you a**hole.

I dont know anything about Taylor Swift, or the boyfriend and I dont listen to VK as Im at work,,,, but from what you have written it would seem blindingly obvious that he is taking the mickey.

CallmePaul · 27/11/2025 21:12

Crosorbled · 27/11/2025 21:02

I love Jeremy Vine , aka Jeremy Kyle. Most of the rest of radio 2 presenters are pretty useless. I now prefer Radio 4 or Radio 3 with classical music .

Trevor Nelson in his daytime slot is awesome. Some different music, not my favourite genre but I quite like it, used to like his evening shows too, i find him a likeable chap.

Mills, Cox, Vine uggg. He's getting a slagging here but I can cope with sex pest Kay, but Mcguiness I struggle with, Rylan also, although apparently he's one of the nicest people in showbiz to deal with say those who I know who have dealt with him.

I like when Gary Davies covers in daytime, plus his 80s show, Fearn Cottons show too I'm a fan.

latetothefisting · 27/11/2025 22:50

Pollqueen · 27/11/2025 19:35

Lordy, it's joke! Go back and read the thread

if it's a joke, where's the funny part?

I get he might be riffing off the fact TK is often referred to as TS's boyfriend. Or he might be using that as an excuse as OP thinks. Even if he is genuinely just playing around with that, it's not exactly rolling on the floor witticism, is it?