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to think Vernon Kay is a misogynistic idiot...

145 replies

KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 15:20

I mean... it's very clear poor old Vernon 'professional northerner' Kay is not the sharpest tool in even the most meagre box. But I am really fed up with him on Radio 2 constantly referring to Taylor Swift only by reference to her fiancé Travis Kelcie (an American football player for anyone that doesn't know).

He keeps doing it (today an eg) - clearly gets complaints - but dismisses these in the same misogynistic tone as "daft Taylor Swift fans". His excuse is basically, “that’s how I know her, thats my field” — as if a radio DJ somehow doesn’t know the name of the most successful artist in the world. I mean I get he has no music background and is a minor TV presenter not an actual dj but still ...

It just feels misogynistic and really derogatory. He wouldn’t talk about a male artist through the lens of who they’re dating.

It makes him look ridiculous and really grinds my gears (as a feminist rather than any particular TS super fan).

Interesting too that he focuses on the clearly less famous male partner of a very high profile woman too. Wonder why that could be....

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KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 15:48

SamphiretheTervosaur · 27/11/2025 15:46

OK

You've made up your mind

We none of us know him. Any one of us could be right or wrong

You might want to brush up on your own biases though... professional northerner etc.

I am FROM the North .... doesn't mean I don't recognise and get irriated by the professional northernet schtick that a minority of Northern TV and radio presenters employ.

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Starlight1984 · 27/11/2025 15:50

Dreamtitchy · 27/11/2025 15:35

It’s like when Barack Obama used to frequently be introduced as the husband of Michelle!

Yep. And he used to find it funny. As I imagine Taylor Swift does.

Starlight1984 · 27/11/2025 15:50

KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 15:48

I am FROM the North .... doesn't mean I don't recognise and get irriated by the professional northernet schtick that a minority of Northern TV and radio presenters employ.

Why do you listen to him then?

ginasevern · 27/11/2025 15:50

You aren't alone OP. I can't stand the bloke either.

KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 15:50

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 27/11/2025 15:47

Vernon Kay who had such respect and regard for his wife that he was caught exchanging explicit text messages with several other women and his excuse was that he'd "been an idiot". That Vernon Kay?

Yeah that one ... but it was fine as it was only four or five of them and he knew them from work and stuff

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KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 15:51

Starlight1984 · 27/11/2025 15:50

Why do you listen to him then?

I actually don't mind him THAT much ...bizarrely. Except when he does this. Much preferred old Ken mind you. I just have r2 on in the car ... so more habit than active choice

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Dreamtitchy · 27/11/2025 15:52

Get some fresh air op
take big gulps

Coffeeishot · 27/11/2025 15:53

He is obviously joking to wind people up, of course he knows Taylor Swift, i don't think his humour is for you op. Maybe don't listen to him.

InterIgnis · 27/11/2025 15:54

Kelce is far more commonly referred to as ‘Taylor Swift fiancé, Travis Kielce’, due to her fame far exceeding his. I would imagine he’s just making a joke in reversing that.

If he’s an NFL fan than Kelce is going to be more notable to him than Taylor Swift is

WhyamIinahandcartandwherearewegoing · 27/11/2025 15:54
Joking Not Funny GIF

oh dear....

Hendersso · 27/11/2025 15:55

I think he presents some American football he was at a match that I saw. Hence the “joke”op.

Pollqueen · 27/11/2025 15:55

He does it as a joke. It started because of course he's heard of TS but was far more familiar with her fiancé. It became a running joke which you have obviously missed a chunk of

Dreamtitchy · 27/11/2025 15:55

Coffeeishot · 27/11/2025 15:53

He is obviously joking to wind people up, of course he knows Taylor Swift, i don't think his humour is for you op. Maybe don't listen to him.

In short

this

Dreamtitchy · 27/11/2025 15:56

Starlight1984 · 27/11/2025 15:50

Yep. And he used to find it funny. As I imagine Taylor Swift does.

Yup exactly!!

Dreamtitchy · 27/11/2025 15:56

KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 15:48

I am FROM the North .... doesn't mean I don't recognise and get irriated by the professional northernet schtick that a minority of Northern TV and radio presenters employ.

Sure you are op 😆

Starlight1984 · 27/11/2025 15:57

KidsDoBetter · 27/11/2025 15:46

Yeah - he's a real gent. This is only what he has been caught doing. The repeated behaviour and minimising is astonishing.

"Some years after they married, the couple were rocked by claims that Vernon had been sending saucy messages to four other women as well as glamour model Rhian Sugden. He and Tess had been married for seven years at the time and had their two young girls at home.
Tess was obviously heartbroken by the shocking news and what followed were several grovelling apologies from her husband as he desperately tried to save his marriage. In an interview with The Sun at the time, he confessed: "Tess is extremely upset about this and we're working through it... I've been stupid and daft but I'm not a sex pest. I've only done this with four or five girls and I've known them all well – they've been friends or work colleagues.

"I know a single guy can get away with things like that but I'm married and I understand this is off limits." Following the explosive 2010 revelations, the couple were able to eventually put the drama behind them and move on with their romance.
However, five years later it was claimed that Vernon and Rhian had been exchanging messages once again. Vernon was forced to publicly address the claims and denied that there had been anything "inappropriate" about their messages. He insisted the pair were merely discussing information about the 2010 incident."

Fucking hell you really dislike the man don't you 😂

It was15 years ago. He apologised and admitted he was in the wrong. His wife has forgiven him and they seem far happier now. Men on here do far worse EVERY SINGLE DAY!

nomas · 27/11/2025 15:57

YANBU. I'm not a fan of Taylor Swift's music at all (like nails on a blackboard to me) but she is by far the bigger global star.

He has typical 'a woman is richer and more successfull than I'll ever be and I can't shag her or be on her radar' syndrome.

nomas · 27/11/2025 15:59

Starlight1984 · 27/11/2025 15:57

Fucking hell you really dislike the man don't you 😂

It was15 years ago. He apologised and admitted he was in the wrong. His wife has forgiven him and they seem far happier now. Men on here do far worse EVERY SINGLE DAY!

I enjoyed the reminder of his debauchery and his non-apology.

Dreamtitchy · 27/11/2025 15:59

Always odd when someone is so angry and indignant about an affair that his wife forgave and moved on from 15 years ago!!!

I bet if Tess was to read this she’d think “fuck off @KidsDoBetter and don’t patronise me”

Starlight1984 · 27/11/2025 15:59

nomas · 27/11/2025 15:57

YANBU. I'm not a fan of Taylor Swift's music at all (like nails on a blackboard to me) but she is by far the bigger global star.

He has typical 'a woman is richer and more successfull than I'll ever be and I can't shag her or be on her radar' syndrome.

Oh FFS 😂

I think Vernon Kay (and the rest of the world) knows that Taylor Swift is a bigger star than Travis Kelce (who is only really known to those who follow American Football).

That's the whole point of the fucking joke.

mullers1977 · 27/11/2025 16:00

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nomas · 27/11/2025 16:01

Starlight1984 · 27/11/2025 15:59

Oh FFS 😂

I think Vernon Kay (and the rest of the world) knows that Taylor Swift is a bigger star than Travis Kelce (who is only really known to those who follow American Football).

That's the whole point of the fucking joke.

Where in the OP is it presented as a joke?

Why are you 'FFS'ing everyone's opinions? Chill, it's not that deep.

Pancakeflipper · 27/11/2025 16:06

In fairness Vernon Kay did train to do American Football for alot of years in his.youth. He probably knows more about Travis than the average Radio 2 listener.

Bit of a mean targeted attack to then bring up stuff from.his marriage from.over a decade ago.

I'm no devote fan of Vernon,but I admire his hair.

Perhaps Ken Bruce is more your type?

Dreamtitchy · 27/11/2025 16:06

nomas · 27/11/2025 16:01

Where in the OP is it presented as a joke?

Why are you 'FFS'ing everyone's opinions? Chill, it's not that deep.

You are struggling @nomas

Crushed23 · 27/11/2025 16:11

I’m sure the multi-billionaire Taylor Swift is devastated that a second-rate DJ in the UK is being demeaning or telling bad jokes at her fiancé’s expense. Devastated.