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To ask how much you think I weigh?

373 replies

ThatLadyLady · 12/10/2025 09:44

I’m genuinely just curious. My hairdresser said she thought I’m a good 2-3 stone lighter than I actually am, so it got me thinking!

To ask how much you think I weigh?
To ask how much you think I weigh?
OP posts:
Glowingup · 12/10/2025 11:00

Newsenmum · 12/10/2025 10:53

Im 73kg and a 14 it’s nuts

Really bad quality photo but in this one I was 92.4 kgs and also in a size 14. 😂

To ask how much you think I weigh?
IainTorontoNSW · 12/10/2025 11:04

Without knowing your height or seeing the definition of your upper torso, I'd hazard a bid of 71kg to 74kg

27pilates · 12/10/2025 11:04

13.5 to 14 stone

tiresomee · 12/10/2025 11:08

Well done on your weight-loss Op! I guessed about 14 to 15 stone. I think you look your weight. I was 14 stone and now I’m just under 13 , 5’2, size 14-16, obese BMI of 34 and look smaller than this. Goal of 10 stone ish (I was a size 10 last time I was 10 stone) People on MN have a very skewed idea of what weight really looks like on women. I’m glad you got mostly positive comments though as MN is quite often very fatphobic.

I’ve had similar comments from colleagues like ‘surely not, you’re not that big!’ Many people who haven’t lived as an overweight woman aren’t very good at judging what size others are.

Dogaredabomb · 12/10/2025 11:08

14 stone

Crunchymum · 12/10/2025 11:08

Well done on your weightloss so far. 10st is absolutely phenomenal.

You should be very proud of yourself.

I hope the rest of your journey continues in the same way.

Sunshineandgrapefruit · 12/10/2025 11:09

75kg if I am guessing at 165 cm....

ParmaVioletTea · 12/10/2025 11:09

About 79 or 80 kilos?

Mamabear487 · 12/10/2025 11:10

arcticpandas · 12/10/2025 09:46

I would say 65 kg but it depends on your height.

I’m 60 kg and a size 8 - 5ft 5

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 12/10/2025 11:10

I was going to say 14 stone 👌

tiresomee · 12/10/2025 11:11

Imissgoldengrahams · 12/10/2025 10:49

I'm 63kg 5'2 and in a size 14 Hmm

I’m 5’2 and was a size 10 to 12 and 10 stone. I’m currently a 14 now at 12.12. Body composition is different on everyone.

zingally · 12/10/2025 11:15

ThatLadyLady · 12/10/2025 09:49

I’m 162cm (I think!), haven’t ever been measured properly

About the same as me. I've got a similar body shape, but I'm probably a bit bigger.
I don't know my exact weight, but I'd guess I'm around 12 stone. So I'd guess you were around 11 stone.

WeeGeeBored · 12/10/2025 11:18

whispycloud · 12/10/2025 09:49

15/16 stone?

This is my guess too.

LavenderBlue19 · 12/10/2025 11:18

I think when you have been 15/16 stone you know what that looks like, whereas someone who's never strayed about 12 stone would think of it as enormous.

I'm slightly taller than you and looked very much like you when I was 15/16 stone, so that's what I would have guessed. Massive congrats on your weight loss.

WeeGeeBored · 12/10/2025 11:20

thisishowloween · 12/10/2025 10:39

...except she's said she's actually only a few pounds off 16 stone, so it's hardly an outlandish guess!

So I was right. I thought 15 stone something.

Puzzledtoday · 12/10/2025 11:22

I'd say about 13 stone, so around 82kg. But those are very unflattering photos. With different clothes and from a different angle you might look much slimmer.

Nicebiscuitsarenice · 12/10/2025 11:23

wow, I wouldn't have said 15 stone, more like around 13. Big cheers on the massive weight loss, I know what an achievement that is.

Autumnsunnyday · 12/10/2025 11:24

80kilos

TorroFerney · 12/10/2025 11:24

Charlenedickens · 12/10/2025 09:55

I’d really stop doing that, telling people. No one is staggered, people do that to be kind. Like guessing someone’s age. You always aim low and then act stunned when they say their age.

This in spades. It is also really odd to be even having a conversation where you ask someone to guess your weight. I would also refuse. It's a bit like people who say "oh people always say I should write a book". They don't mean it.

FlowersFawb · 12/10/2025 11:25

18 stone?

WeeGeeBored · 12/10/2025 11:26

ThatLadyLady · 12/10/2025 10:06

I’m 15 stone 8!!!

really shocked by all the low guesses, but I’m guessing I carry it quite well!

Many of us guessed correctly. Not sure what you make of that. Or why it even matters. As another poster said some of us are fat/obese. It is what it is.

Perhaps What the hairdresser was really saying is that you looked nice that day. Perhaps she is ignorant of the fact that fat people can look as well put together as thin people.

Orpheya · 12/10/2025 11:28

70 to 80 kg

WaryHiker · 12/10/2025 11:28

ThatLadyLady · 12/10/2025 10:43

I was an obese kid at school, whatever is said here doesn’t bother me! I’m just genuinely curious because I’m very bad at looking at my own body objectively. I still see myself as the 25 stone person I was at the start of last year and don’t see a difference in my body at all.

A ten stone weight loss is a fantastic achievement. Really well done on that!

You carry your current weight incredibly well. I am your height and would weigh between 13 and 13 and 1/2 stone if I looked like you.

It would be great if you came back and posted on this thread once you've reached whatever weight you decide is best for you. I'm sure lots of us will want to congratulate you.

EasternStandard · 12/10/2025 11:34

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 12/10/2025 10:38

The OP doesn't look 16 stone! 😂

Why the laugh, she is close to that.

nutbrownhare15 · 12/10/2025 11:36

85 kg