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National Trust & tampons

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oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 10/10/2025 17:37

NT have made free tampons available in the gents' toilets in a castle in the Lake District. Not unisex toilets, but actual gents.

Not just any tampons, but vegan tampons (WTF are they?).
And they're also available in the ladies.

YABU They are demonstrating what a kind, caring organisation they are, & covering their arses.

YANBU They are bonkers, tossers... add your own words.

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MrsJeanLuc · 10/10/2025 18:50

LarryIsMyRomanEmpire · 10/10/2025 18:08

They are wanting to shove men into women's toilets.

Or women into men's toilets?

Rosscameasdoody · 10/10/2025 18:51

MrsJeanLuc · 10/10/2025 18:50

Or women into men's toilets?

This was how I interpreted it.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 10/10/2025 18:52

MrsJeanLuc · 10/10/2025 18:50

Or women into men's toilets?

Neither.
People must use the facilities which align with their biological sex.

An interim update on the practical implications of the UK Supreme Court judgment | EHRC Link

GirlonaCloud · 10/10/2025 18:53

They will lose a lot of members.
Their demography is not people who will tolerate more of this nonsense.
I'd never join them now or buy any of their merchandise.

They have taken WOKE to a whole new level.

LadyKenya · 10/10/2025 18:54

VikaOlson · 10/10/2025 18:40

Hard to believe this has any impact on your life?

It does not, and if it does the OP should really be asking herself why that is.

notthatoldchestnut · 10/10/2025 18:56

Trans men should not be in the gents toilets. They are female and therefore should be using the female or unisex toilets. Appropriate sanitary items can be found there.

men deserve dignity too and there shouldn’t be women in their single sex space.

GirlonaCloud · 10/10/2025 18:57

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 10/10/2025 17:37

NT have made free tampons available in the gents' toilets in a castle in the Lake District. Not unisex toilets, but actual gents.

Not just any tampons, but vegan tampons (WTF are they?).
And they're also available in the ladies.

YABU They are demonstrating what a kind, caring organisation they are, & covering their arses.

YANBU They are bonkers, tossers... add your own words.

Have you been told this by a man using them the gents?
If I were you I'd write to the CEO of the NT and ask a lot of questions.

LemonJellyLegs · 10/10/2025 18:57

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 10/10/2025 17:37

NT have made free tampons available in the gents' toilets in a castle in the Lake District. Not unisex toilets, but actual gents.

Not just any tampons, but vegan tampons (WTF are they?).
And they're also available in the ladies.

YABU They are demonstrating what a kind, caring organisation they are, & covering their arses.

YANBU They are bonkers, tossers... add your own words.

That means trans men can have a tampon. No? At least they are using their correct pretend gender

GirlonaCloud · 10/10/2025 18:58

LemonJellyLegs · 10/10/2025 18:57

That means trans men can have a tampon. No? At least they are using their correct pretend gender

A trans man is supposed to use the women's loos as they are a biological female.

Orangepate · 10/10/2025 18:58

It’s an advertising stunt, and it’s the NT, of course they’re going to push the lack of plastics etc.

GarlicPound · 10/10/2025 18:58

seaelephant · 10/10/2025 18:22

I blame the small boats and Meghan Markle

😂😂

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 10/10/2025 18:58

LemonJellyLegs · 10/10/2025 18:57

That means trans men can have a tampon. No? At least they are using their correct pretend gender

Transmen have to use the ladies.

NapoleonsToe · 10/10/2025 18:59

GameWheelsAlarm · 10/10/2025 18:35

It does not do you any harm. It doesn't do anyone else any harm either. No harm is caused by anyone of either sex using the gents. No harm is caused by making the gents a welcoming place for anyone who wants to use it.

The SC ruling was clear that single sex toilets are exactly that, single sex.

BauhausOfEliott · 10/10/2025 18:59

Bobiverse · 10/10/2025 18:37

A trans man should, by law, be in the women’s toilets.

Where they will get shouted at and verbally abused - possibly physically abused - by women who don’t want to share facilities with someone who has a shaved head, a full beard and a bulge in their pants.

Trans men are much safer in the Gents. If you consider trans men to be women, and you care about women’s safety, you should support them using the Gents.

ERthree · 10/10/2025 18:59

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Saucery · 10/10/2025 19:00

Gives no excuse for men cosplaying as women to go in the Female toilet I suppose. No need to go in there on the pretext of ‘needing to borrow a tampon’ guys, there are some in the Male toilets.
Wonder what Charlie the Sizergh Garden Cat thinks of it all?

Bagsintheboot · 10/10/2025 19:01

seaelephant · 10/10/2025 18:22

I blame the small boats and Meghan Markle

Don't be silly, it's obviously all the single mothers on UC who are to blame!

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 10/10/2025 19:01

Transmen are much safer in the Gents. If you consider transmen to be women, and you care about women’s safety, you should support them using the Gents.

You're not serious.
Women are always safer in the ladies.
It's academic anyway. The Supreme Court has ruled that people must use the facilities which align with their biological sex.

Catsknowbest · 10/10/2025 19:02

Sorry but....even if this is real....who cares!?

Sunflower2461 · 10/10/2025 19:02

Why is everyone taking the OPs word for this? Even if it is true it is highly likely to be due to someone planting them there and there is no official statement by the NT about this.

ObliviousCoalmine · 10/10/2025 19:03

My god why does this matter to you.

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 10/10/2025 19:04

Catsknowbest · 10/10/2025 19:02

Sorry but....even if this is real....who cares!?

It's real, & why are you bothering to read & post if you don't care ?

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I also go to NT places frequently. I've seen free san pro in about 25% of NT locations that I frequently visit (South).

limescale · 10/10/2025 19:04

notthatoldchestnut · 10/10/2025 18:56

Trans men should not be in the gents toilets. They are female and therefore should be using the female or unisex toilets. Appropriate sanitary items can be found there.

men deserve dignity too and there shouldn’t be women in their single sex space.

I do feel for my son’s friend who is a trans man. I met him at 14 and thought he was a smaller lad who hadn’t yet gone through puberty. He is now mid 20s. I had no idea he was born female. He would attract way more attention and be more likely to be asked to leave the Ladies if he went in them.
I don’t know what the answer is (availability of any-gender loos?) but for some people the ruling has changed their life.

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 10/10/2025 19:05

I'm sure that forcing GC women to accept transmen male-presenting women into women's toilets will cause no problems whatsoever.

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