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Fucking flags

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xmaspud3 · 09/09/2025 15:01

I know this has probably been done to death on here and there will be lots of threads about it already but I cant be bothered to trawl through the site for them so here I am.

I’m so irritated by the England flags popping up everywhere. There has been an influx put up in my area over the last week, it seems to be increasing by the day. I don’t hate the flag, but I hate the fact it is being used to send a clear message by racists. People aren’t doing it to be patriotic they are doing it to be hateful towards those that they don’t feel ‘belong’ in their country.

I don’t want to see all of these flags in my area. If people are entitled to put them up then why am I not entitled to go and cut the fuckers down? And don’t get me started on the spray painting of public roundabouts and road signage by people who allegedly love their country so much that they are vandalising it at the expense of public money.

If I see one more person give a ‘big well done to whoever has erected the flags on xyz street’ on Facebook I will explode. Does anyone else feel ragey over it?

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AlertLimeZebra · 09/09/2025 16:26

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Nestingbirds · 09/09/2025 16:26

greengreyblue · 09/09/2025 16:25

This is how Nazi Germany started. Stop spreading hate!

Dramatic much! 🙄

SleeplessInWherever · 09/09/2025 16:26

Jollyhockeystickss · 09/09/2025 16:25

My neighbour opposite has a HUGE flagpole of the welsh flag no body ever complained why would they, people are making a stand as they have had enough being dictated to since lockdown, this is my country and i am proud to be english, people are sick of being told you cant do this as it offends others , i dont think its about racism i think people have had enough, if you go to Wales its full of welsh flags and dragons and i can assure you no one in Wales is taking their flags or dragons down, im quite loving it as more and more flags go up, the peasants are revolting and about bloody time

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The pheasants? What’s the matter with them?

Also. Imagine referring to yourself or others as a peasant. This isn’t Victorian Britain.

TaupeRaven · 09/09/2025 16:26

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Oh, there was a memo? Gosh, you should have said. Does is say "Oh bore off, LOL"? Because that's been your most insightful input so far

WellThisIsFranklyDreadful · 09/09/2025 16:27

smallpinecone · 09/09/2025 16:22

We have our own problems, no need to import more.

Immigrants are net contributors to our economy. They are paying taxes and putting back in once allowed to work. We have a declining birth rate and a falling population- without immigration, by 2030 there will not be enough tax payers in the UK to sustain our infrastructure needs.

Asylum seekers and undocumented migrants do not claim benefits, they don’t get iPads and they aren’t living in 4 star luxury. They get £48 a week, and whilst some of the buildings may once have operated as 4 star hotels they are now running as basic dormitories - just look at all the former grand and historical buildings that now run as a Wetherspoons. Immigrants make up less than 0.5% of government spending, and pay more than that in in taxes.

So what is the problem? The 0.5% being spent on immigrants and refugees or the billions more being lost to tax dodging billionaires and corporations? Meanwhile Farage has voted for further tax cuts for the rich, and against tax cuts for lower income families. He voted against job security for low income earners, and against protections for low earners like ending zero hour contracts. He voted against legislation to tackle stalking and harassment of women. But sure, he’s on your side…. 🤔

Bloozie · 09/09/2025 16:27

Wynter25 · 09/09/2025 15:07

Proud to be born in England. Makes me happy seeing them :) why shouldn't they be every here. Other countries have them up 🤷‍♀️

Other countries don't have them on every fucking lamp post and motorway bridge and spray painted on traffic roundabouts, level crossings and fucking dog poo bins. This isn't patriotism. It's not about loving our country. It's about hating immigration and I'm sick of the disingenuous justifications for it.

"I'm proud of my country - why aren't you?" I am. I'm not proud of our flag being used as a weapon to divide and intimidate. It's fucking pathetic.
"Why do you hate England so much?" I don't. I hate racism pretending to be patriotism.
"It may well have been initiated and largely funded by ex-members of the EDL as a protest against immigration but that doesn't mean I'm racist if I join in" Just because you can overlook the fact it's a racist movement, doesn't mean you're not amplifying a racist cause by joining in.
"Other countries fly their flags proudly" yes they do, but not overnight at the instigation of far right extremists.
"The left aren't patriotic" Absolute bullshit, and this isn't about left and right, it's about right and wrong, and using our national flag as a symbol of hate is fucking disgusting.

xmaspud3 · 09/09/2025 16:27

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You didn’t answer the question at all. You just started banging on about national pride in response to my question about roundabouts so I put two and two together.

I would strongly advise you taking a bit more notice of the world around you. It’s really worrying that you think this trend is nothing to do with racism. I’m not saying the flag is, I’m saying the current craze of hanging flags off everything and vandalising roundabouts and signage is very clearly a sign of protest.

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InternetPortal · 09/09/2025 16:27

Well, we all know really, don't we, that one of the biggest demographic predictors of putting up the flags is poverty and disempowerment.

I live on a naice middle class road, and we are up in ARMS all over WhatsApp and Facebook, fighting to show our disapproval. Shouting about what we will do if the plebs start encroaching on our privileged liberal utopia. Racism, as we all know, is a scourge. But, you know, I wonder how WE'd all behave if WE were at the very sharp end of all the political/technocratic decisions fucking up our lives and futures.

All this - just fuelling the fires plays right into the hands of those who DO have power, who seek to divide us....

FuckOffWithYourEllipses · 09/09/2025 16:28

Dangermoos · 09/09/2025 15:50

This thread has got the Rotherham victim vibes. Who gives a flying fook about a white girl's feelings.

That’s a false equivalency of the worst kind. Utterly grotesque.

AlertLimeZebra · 09/09/2025 16:28

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Dangermoos · 09/09/2025 16:28

FrippEnos · 09/09/2025 16:23

Did you miss "girl power" and the spice girls and how the Union Flag dress became part of British culture?

Let me guess- change Ginger Spice to a rap artist and it would be a different ball game. As I said, predictable. You crack on with thinking it's fine to make a girl feel ashamed to be British. I don't.

incognitomouse · 09/09/2025 16:29

Greysowhat · 09/09/2025 16:21

Proud of an accident of birth? Aren't you lucky you weren't born in Syria or Sudan

Why is it okay for people to be proud of being from other countries, but if you're English you're not allowed?

Dangermoos · 09/09/2025 16:29

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See you on the next bout of predictability x

Autumnleaves73 · 09/09/2025 16:29

Every country you go to , proudly has flags
Why not Britain
It's not racist to be proud to be British
Let people wave their flags if it makes them happy
Much better than waving their willies

WellThisIsFranklyDreadful · 09/09/2025 16:29

Dangermoos · 09/09/2025 16:23

What would you call the humiliation dished out at the hands of a teacher, just because you exhibited being British?

Except that’s also not true, is it? That particular individual wore a flag dress when the rules of the day were quite literally “students are free to wear national dress but no flags”. She broke the dress code rules, and was sent home. Simple as that. But don’t let the facts get in the way of your racism.

Labradorlover987 · 09/09/2025 16:29

mummabubs · 09/09/2025 15:14

It's so depressing. I thought in Wales we were a little safer (saw a million flags driving around South of England last week) but in the last week I've noticed the Welsh flag popping up on every flyover as well. Agree that it's not about patriotism, it's about spreading fear and xenophobia.

(Also as a side but this also irritates me, why are they being hung in twos on the same side of the road, so not even like one facing each direction? Least of the issues but it adds to how much they bug me!)

I live in wales too and two of my neighbours have Welsh flags, my son loves seeing them - thinking of getting one myself!

LipglossAlly · 09/09/2025 16:30

I genuinely think that POC and immigrants should also fly the flag, that would send a clear message that we belong here and will not be intimidated by this passive aggressive behaviour. I'm m sure it would confuse and send those who are flying it for racist purposes into a frienzy😆. Please don't let these kind of people win. You belong here like anybody else.

saltylindor · 09/09/2025 16:30

So I'm really a lefty and not opposed to migration or migrant hotels, we have one near us and it's fine but I don't feel flying a national flag in the country it belongs to should be a big deal. I know it is within the context people are doing it in but in Denmark people are crazy about their flag and have it all over the shop.

In effect we shouldn't let the right wing looneys have all the flag fun to themselves.

AlertLimeZebra · 09/09/2025 16:30

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nevernotmaybe · 09/09/2025 16:31

YouMightThinkThat · 09/09/2025 15:13

I don't think you've quite grasped the wider picture which kind of makes you look a bit foolish.

That crazies as extremist and bad as racists, are insulting and attacking people who havr flags out during the women's England run and just in general and using it for their own twisted agenda just like racist try and do as well sometimes?

We get it don't worry.

SleeplessInWherever · 09/09/2025 16:31

InternetPortal · 09/09/2025 16:27

Well, we all know really, don't we, that one of the biggest demographic predictors of putting up the flags is poverty and disempowerment.

I live on a naice middle class road, and we are up in ARMS all over WhatsApp and Facebook, fighting to show our disapproval. Shouting about what we will do if the plebs start encroaching on our privileged liberal utopia. Racism, as we all know, is a scourge. But, you know, I wonder how WE'd all behave if WE were at the very sharp end of all the political/technocratic decisions fucking up our lives and futures.

All this - just fuelling the fires plays right into the hands of those who DO have power, who seek to divide us....

I’m from a working class town in the North East, and still think the flags are ridiculous.

Anyone who thinks otherwise is looking in the wrong direction.

The enemy of the working class arrives by private jet, not dinghy.

thepariscrimefiles · 09/09/2025 16:31

Dangermoos · 09/09/2025 15:57

You could do with some new material yourself. That's twice you've told somebody to grow up.

You've called posters you disagree with 'pearl clutchers' and 'virtue signallers' on here and on other similar threads. Maybe you need new material too.

TaupeRaven · 09/09/2025 16:31

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If no one replied to you, you wouln't have the opportunity to show off your intellectual prowess and superior debating skills. And @Dangermoos wouldn't get to leap to your defence and leave cute little kisses at the end of posts for you. So really, I'm doing you a favour 😁

FrippEnos · 09/09/2025 16:31

CunningLinguist2 · 09/09/2025 16:20

Oh, you mean like "Nobody respecting the flag would be that dumb"? Nope - no proof, just solid belief in the fact that they are exactly that dumb (and racist, vile and deluded). (Let the pile-on commence from the shrillers then)

Why would there be a pile on?
You believe that they are stupid enough to do it.
I believe that it was done for clicks.

smallpinecone · 09/09/2025 16:31

WellThisIsFranklyDreadful · 09/09/2025 16:27

Immigrants are net contributors to our economy. They are paying taxes and putting back in once allowed to work. We have a declining birth rate and a falling population- without immigration, by 2030 there will not be enough tax payers in the UK to sustain our infrastructure needs.

Asylum seekers and undocumented migrants do not claim benefits, they don’t get iPads and they aren’t living in 4 star luxury. They get £48 a week, and whilst some of the buildings may once have operated as 4 star hotels they are now running as basic dormitories - just look at all the former grand and historical buildings that now run as a Wetherspoons. Immigrants make up less than 0.5% of government spending, and pay more than that in in taxes.

So what is the problem? The 0.5% being spent on immigrants and refugees or the billions more being lost to tax dodging billionaires and corporations? Meanwhile Farage has voted for further tax cuts for the rich, and against tax cuts for lower income families. He voted against job security for low income earners, and against protections for low earners like ending zero hour contracts. He voted against legislation to tackle stalking and harassment of women. But sure, he’s on your side…. 🤔

You can keep believing that if it makes you happy. Regardless, some people value things other than money.

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