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Fucking flags

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xmaspud3 · 09/09/2025 15:01

I know this has probably been done to death on here and there will be lots of threads about it already but I cant be bothered to trawl through the site for them so here I am.

I’m so irritated by the England flags popping up everywhere. There has been an influx put up in my area over the last week, it seems to be increasing by the day. I don’t hate the flag, but I hate the fact it is being used to send a clear message by racists. People aren’t doing it to be patriotic they are doing it to be hateful towards those that they don’t feel ‘belong’ in their country.

I don’t want to see all of these flags in my area. If people are entitled to put them up then why am I not entitled to go and cut the fuckers down? And don’t get me started on the spray painting of public roundabouts and road signage by people who allegedly love their country so much that they are vandalising it at the expense of public money.

If I see one more person give a ‘big well done to whoever has erected the flags on xyz street’ on Facebook I will explode. Does anyone else feel ragey over it?

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GobShy · 09/09/2025 16:17

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I think that anti-fascists should appropriate the gesture with a few tweaks that speak to inclusion and then we'll see if the flag flyers think it's just about celebrating the country.

ImAnAutum · 09/09/2025 16:17

Welcome to our world in Northern Ireland. I hate them too op. Only here we have flags, or 'flegs' from both side. Union Jack's would be majority though. Whenever I see people from an area getting themselves worked up about how much they love their flags, kerbs painted etc I honestly think these are people with not a job or a gcse between them and it's usually right! I think it just really cheapens the place and makes it look uninviting.

Locutus2000 · 09/09/2025 16:17

BatchCookBabe · 09/09/2025 15:49

LOL!!! Oh, the irony of @CunningLinguist2's post! 😂

How embarrassing. And they've left it too late to edit! Grin

Check yourself before you wreck yourself @CunningLinguist2 😎

Are you a child?

CunningLinguist2 · 09/09/2025 16:17

CunningLinguist2 · 09/09/2025 15:42

https://www.tiktok.com/@metrouk/video/7543169746250812694

Oh, pet. Have a look at this and tell me they're "educated" and "sharp as tacs" then...

typo - "tacks". Seemed to bother someone... :D

SleeplessInWherever · 09/09/2025 16:17

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I was about to take you seriously. Until you “lol”d at me like it’s 2005.

I won’t bore you with the specifics of why it’s linked to racism. I’ve got better brick walls to bang my head off.

BellyPork · 09/09/2025 16:17

CunningLinguist2 · 09/09/2025 15:40

As a Dane in the UK, this did make me laugh. They're not the sharpest spoons in the drawer, are they?

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As a brown person in the UK, your supercilious attitude makes me laugh.

And it's knives, not spoons.

AlertLimeZebra · 09/09/2025 16:17

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AlertLimeZebra · 09/09/2025 16:18

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CunningLinguist2 · 09/09/2025 16:18

Locutus2000 · 09/09/2025 16:17

Are you a child?

Well. A typo is a minor detail compared to painting the wrong fucking flag, isn't it? As for the sheer mirth at the typo, as we (immigrant) Danes say: Små hjerner, små glæder (Small brains need small fun)

Endlesswandering · 09/09/2025 16:19

None in my area, but the small town down the road is full of them. They made me angry for a short time because Facebook was showing that everyone was jeering about them being put up to “send a message that this is OUR country”. I’ve come off Facebook and other social media because it was full of it and I was not going to be dragged down to their level. I’m trying to think “compassion for the conned and contempt for the conman” but it’s hard when people are as thick as mince. Now each time I see another one I do an eye roll and force myself to move on. There is a part of me that feels a bit sad for them, the vast majority have been targeted by Reform because of their gullibility, socioeconomic status and lack of education. The middle class ones with the flags are the ones that confuse me and still annoy me a bit because they’re choosing to just be stupid

FrippEnos · 09/09/2025 16:19

CunningLinguist2 · 09/09/2025 15:42

https://www.tiktok.com/@metrouk/video/7543169746250812694

Oh, pet. Have a look at this and tell me they're "educated" and "sharp as tacs" then...

Do you have any proof that this was done by those flying the flag and not done by a tiktoker for clicks. or whatever?

smallpinecone · 09/09/2025 16:19

Children are sexually assaulted by migrants from hotels and everyone will say we must not use this to judge other migrants.

Flags appear and now we are told we must judge everyone who put up a flag to be racist.

Hmm.

CunningLinguist2 · 09/09/2025 16:19

BellyPork · 09/09/2025 16:17

As a brown person in the UK, your supercilious attitude makes me laugh.

And it's knives, not spoons.

It's spoons - it's a joke! So dumb even "knives" won't cut it :D But hey ho.

GobShy · 09/09/2025 16:19

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And I have literally seen the "flag lovers" on TV setting bins on fire, throwing them at the police and at vulnerable people literally imprisoned in hostels.

xmaspud3 · 09/09/2025 16:19

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You think there’s any pride in vandalising a roundabout with a spray paint? Bless your heart.

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Dangermoos · 09/09/2025 16:19

endcityspawner · 09/09/2025 16:06

I think it’s a sad life to hate others for simply existing but hey.

This is not personal to you but I think it's sad and fascist to bully others into voting the way you expect them to. I also think the same about those who make passive aggressive comments about voting Reform. More entertaining, however, is the subconscious help that these fascists give to Nige. Fascism has certainly changed its direction.

Sasha07 · 09/09/2025 16:20

Fwiw, I can see both sides. I actually think they look great along the long stretch of road we drive down. My Polish neighbour has St.George flags on her fence. She also has a Union Jack cushion in her car. A Ukraine family round the corner also have a St.George flag up.

Locally, I don't think we have an issue with these immigrants, they're fitting in and working. It's more the ones who people on Facebook refer to as 'boat people'. I've been creeped out by some (watching me intensely and turning their heads to keep watching, it's unnatural and uncomfortable to me) and there's been plenty put on Facebook about them making girls/women feel uncomfortable (with videos as proof.) It's not their skin colour, it's their behaviour and what I assume is a culture clash. They make us feel unsafe when they stare constantly and follow people, especially when it's school girls. Imo, they're the ones people aren't welcoming into our neighbourhoods and it's not difficult to understand why.

SleeplessInWherever · 09/09/2025 16:20

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Haven’t you got a march to prepare for?

Big shouty walk round London to warm up for?

endcityspawner · 09/09/2025 16:20

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You cannot turn a blind eye to the large group of people flying the flag to cause division. There’s racial undertones to this movement and it’s not okay.

Fucking flags
Robin67 · 09/09/2025 16:20

Menonut · 09/09/2025 15:22

To be honest, I think the silent majority agree with you.

Which poster are you replying to? The OP, or the banned comment immediately above you?

CunningLinguist2 · 09/09/2025 16:20

FrippEnos · 09/09/2025 16:19

Do you have any proof that this was done by those flying the flag and not done by a tiktoker for clicks. or whatever?

Oh, you mean like "Nobody respecting the flag would be that dumb"? Nope - no proof, just solid belief in the fact that they are exactly that dumb (and racist, vile and deluded). (Let the pile-on commence from the shrillers then)

Dangermoos · 09/09/2025 16:20

SleeplessInWherever · 09/09/2025 16:20

Haven’t you got a march to prepare for?

Big shouty walk round London to warm up for?

She doesn't do the jew hating marches.

TaupeRaven · 09/09/2025 16:20

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Ah, so your whole "I'm laughing at the psychotic left socialist nutters" outburst was name calling because you cannot 'win'? Nice that you've at least got that awareness to recognise that :) I hope you feel better soon

AlertLimeZebra · 09/09/2025 16:21

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